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i might be pregnant
I might be pregnant, Il find out in a couple of weeks if i miss my period or not but im so stressed out about that fact that i might be pregnant this could cause my period to be late. If i am pregnant, what do i do? I cant keep it but i wouldnt know what to do if i was to have an abortion? I cant tell my family. I feel so alone, i always cry. Please can you give me some advice.
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Ive kind of been in that situation.If you stress yourself out your period will be late.I did that because I thought I was pregnant too.If I were you I'd do a home pregnacy test first before you get yourself worked up about it.You could be stressing over nothing.Even if you are pregnant or think you are, you shouldnt sit there and worry about it.Make an appoinment to your doctor and ask her what options you have if you are pregnant.You can get an abortion if its in an early stage of pregnacy but if its in a late stage they might have to do something else.
Hope everything goes well
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hey hunnie x
Ihave been in the same situation babe , it turned out i was in the end and i had a abortion . I was very young and it depends if you think you are ready or not taking on a baby is ALOT of responsability babe.
first of all you need to take a pregnancy test take 3 to make sure .. clear blue is a good one.
If it turns out that you are pregnant you should talk to some one that is close to you and that you can trust . Remember that its a big responsability and nothing is wrong with abortion but will you really regret it if you are ... the best thing to do is not 2 worry about that though until you know if you are or not
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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OK. Well.. same thing happened to me about a month ago.. I thought i was pregnant (turns out i wasnt!!!)but.. I cried and cried wondering if this was going to ruin my life. What ou need to do is be way more careful (im sure youve realized this already).
But, you need to buy a pregnancy test if you miss your period. Other than that.. good luck!
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ok let's see here. . .
1. take a pregnancy test
2. if you are pregnant, i have to say that i am pro-choice, and i think you should have an abortion. take your best friend with you to help you through it.
3. you can choose to tell your family or not, but you didn't supply your age so i don't really know how it will be perceived.
there you go. . .
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talk to the guy who might of gottin u pregnent
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ok if i was you i would go to target some store and buy a pregnacy test. that is what my best friend does everythime she thinks she is pregrant. hoped i help
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Whatever you do DO NOT get an abortion its killing someone! I would have the baby if your pregnant then put it up for adoption, tell your family they may not understand at first but they will be glad you tell them and want to help! and talk to the guy who may be the father see what he has to say... this isn't the best advice but its the best i can offer. Sorry hope i helped some how
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There are other things you could do besides abortion. I don't think you should get rid of a life that you might have created. You might end up regretting ever choosing to do so. I think that if you are pregnant and unable to keep the baby, put it up for adoption. That way you wouldn't feel guilty for abortion later on in life and you would give that child a chance to live life. Also, if you do put it up for adoption, there is this thing where you are able to keep in touch with your child so he/she would know who you are instead of wondering about you and why you did what you did. You would be there to tell all. I hope I helped you.
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Okay, just calm down and think. There is still a chance that you are not pregnant. Either way you need support. You need to talk to your mom/dad. Take a pregnancy test. Please, do not turn to abortion. Its wrong. They baby is alive just like you are...no one should have the right to deny the child life. It 's your descision though. I hope you make the right one. Just remember, everything will be okay.
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STOP HAVING SEX!!! Didn't think of that one now did ya there...?
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Tell someone you really trust. Really Really trust. No one else. Then go to a doctor. If you are pregnant TELL THE FATHER. It takes 2 to tango. Please tell a trusted friend
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First off, you need to take a deep breathe and calm down. You haven't even missed you period yet. So I'm guessing that since you haven't missed it yet you're probably feeling that you are pregnant because you are feeling sick and moody? That could mean anything at all. In a few weeks if you do miss your period don't freak out yet. It could be stress or something that you ate/haven't been eating, or something else. If you miss it you need to take a pregnancy test.
This could end your misery, or not.
If you do find that you are pregnant you probably shouldn't be telling many people, because things spread. Just tell your family and the guy, and maybe a friend you really trust. There are a few options that you have. And although abortion is a quick fix I have to urge you to think past it. It could cause you harm and will also definatly cause you emotional pain. Women who get abortions are often stricken with deep lasting depression. Not to mention the fact that you will have taken a life.(Yes, a life. The doctors will lie to you. These babies are alive, their hearts are beating, and their brains are working. They can also feel the pain of the abortion.) You don't want to be a person who let that happen to a child. I bet you that someone you care about deeply was almost aborted. I know 4 people who I care about who were almost aborted. They are amazing stories and I thank God that the mothers of these people did not go through with it.
You did not mention how old you are, so I can't give you the most specific advice. But if you are young and live with your family then think about this: if your family refuses to have you seen being pregnant then you could move away for a while. Maybe to go with a relative or friend or to one of those home at which pregnant women can move to while they are having the child in order to have it in secracy. If your family is supportive then just have the baby and put it up for adoption. Your child will mean alot to people who want a baby. If you are older and don't live with you family my advice is about the same. Have the baby and put it up for adoption. Or if you do find out that you truley are pregnant then tell the guy. You might be surprised and happy to find out that he would want to take the responsibilty and help you keep and raise the child.
If you are feeling alone and afraid then try calling one of those hotlines that helps pregnant mothers with all of the stress that they are going through. And you could try confiding in the one person who will never shun you or tell your secrets, God. It may sound cheesy to say that, but it's true. God never gives up on you and will never hurt you. He's always there and makes everything happen for a reason. Thats one more reason why if you are pregnant you should not consider an abortion. God planned this for some reason, whether it was to change you, or to change the world. Think about this, Someone once asked Mother Teresa 'If God is all powerful, then whe hasen't He made someone to find a cure for aids and other diseases' Mother teresa replied 'He did. That baby was aborted 20 years ago'.
I hope that you will choose with your heart and head, and that you will choose love and life.
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honey these are the consenquenses of having sex when your not married being a single mom its a MUST to tell your family! noones gonna help you like they are and neither is this website gonna help you like your parents will. but im telling you if you(imma say it slowly) C-A-N-T T-A-K-E- C-A-R-E O-F the kid then i think you should have an abortion if you dont get one then you have to tolerate the consenquenses and take care of your child...its not your babys fault that you messed with some guy and brought it into this world and now you can take care of it.but making mistakes is a step to success by the way. youll learn from your mistakes and THATS how a person becomes experienced.
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i have been in the same circumstance as you. my advice is dont make it bigger than it is, by telling your friends, i lost some of mine that way. people will automatically judge you, and like me, rumors might fly, so just keep it to your self for now. if u are pregant, you can get a friend that drives and take you to a free abortion clinic. you can put down a fake anme and everything. just dont get to worked up, and think on the positive side :).
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This is a really hard situation. If you don't want to abort your baby, then you have several choices, two of them being:
#1:Telling your family even though you don't want to.
#2:Not telling anybody until it's completely obvious.
Or you may not be pregnant at all. I hope everything works out for you.
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You keep the baby and accept responsiblity for getting pregnant.
Abortion is simply out of the question, the ability to kill an unborn child shows no love whatsoever, nor any good sense of morality..
And yes, your going to have to tell your family. You got yourself into it, and the only ones who will be able to help you will be your family. Though they may be mad, I don't know any family who will completely turn their backs to their child in need.
After birth, you could put it up for adoption, but that is your choice. You made the choice to have sex and therefore you became at risk for pregnancy, you live with the actions you chose, and that is all you can do.
-Ryan
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