hey xxx
me ... im 18 a dance and singing teacher .. i have been through ALOT trust me guys you have no idea , but i have stayed strong and so can all of you that think that worth isnt worth living or you dont think you will be able to do what you have to .
I wont judge you on anything that you write about , im a down to earth fun loving gyal and just a normal teen that has problems that need sorting like every one else
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
E-mail: oxohunnieoxobunzoxo@hotmail.com
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Occupation: dance and singing teacher
Age: 18
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Hey, I need Advice! How do I break up with my Obsessive boyfriend? We've been together for six months so it's really hard. He's obsessive because he always talks about kissing, and he always trys to "make out" with me. Please give me advice for this difficult problem! Thanks: Kayla
Age-12 Female (link)
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hey hunnie x
Your'e boyfriend obviously wants to take it to the next level with you. Talk to him about it and say that you arent confatable with making out with him. As you are only 12 you honestly dont want to move to fast with him, wait until you are ready and dont feel that just because your boyfriend feels that hes ready that you should be too.
mwah xxxxxx
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I will try and explain this without rambling on. There is this guy, "Q" is what we will call him. Well I have liked "Q" for awhile. We messed around and stuff (not bad, making out, not much worse than that), but I thought he liked me and that was why he was doing stuff with me, but then I came to realize he was just using me. I don't get why he doesn't like me. He gives me mixed signals like he likes me, then he doesn't. He knows I like him (or I think he still does), so he takes advantage of that. I'm just confused..and he likes so many other girls (which I'm not part of that list). And I really really don't want to like him, but I can't help it. I might even love him, not even joking. But everytime I even think about him, he makes me cry because I know he doesn't like me. But he likes so many of my friends its unreal. When I'm around him, it's like I'm not even there.
I just need some help on this situation.
Any advice at all will be great.
Maybe some ways to get over him.
Or maybe ways for him to notice me.
I see him a lot.
Thanks for anyone who helps : ]. (link)
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hey babe xx
Its time to realise babe that he is using you and you dont need him ! Hes a user and you are getting taken advantage of hunnie you deserve better than that . You should ignore him let him know that your not going to be treated like dirt ! You should be with your m8s and just have a laugh ...with out him ! And then when the time is right for you then get in2 a relationship with someone that you no is a really shweet genuin guy that you can trust
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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i just turned 16 and my boyfriend who i have been together with forever has been fingering me a lot kinda. Im a virgin and recently he inserted more than 2 fingers and it hurt but alittle while later it started to spot blood only once and then when i woke up that morning there was another spot and thats all does that mean i lost my virginity? (link)
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hey hunnie xx
yea babe he has probly popped your cherry
mwah xxxxxxxxxxx
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I planned on having sex for the first time a few months ago with the amazing guy i was dating. He is 16, im 15. Neither one of us have ever had sex. The time came and we messed around a little (fingering and handjob) and then we tryed to put it in and it didn't fit, like at all. Me and him both were surprised and a little embarressed. Him and i still talk about hang out alot but we only kiss now we have never tryed again. I have been masturbating with a toy alot since then to try and make me loosen up. Do you think that since i have been masturbating alot that it will help us when the time is right? (link)
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hey hunnie xx
yea it will make it easier babe :)
mwah xxxxxxxxxx
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Ok its me again with the problem about my boyfriend being 3 years older then me. Sometimes I think he likes the t.v more then me. because hes always watching it and he says he doesnt like it. and when i say something not all the time but rarely he will say "what?" i get so agravated, but i donnt want him to think i'm a pain and annoying. And me and him ran out of things to talk about. So give me`some because all we say is... NOTHING! What should I do?? and i broke up with 1 of my boyfriends just because of the t.v thing and other reasons. HELP ME! (link)
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hey babe xx
Lots of men like to watch ther telly hunny and i no how annoying it can be !! dont break up with him though becoz of it. Maybe go down the pub or bowling or something so that hes not just sitting ther infront of the telly , this will show him how much you meen to him n how you are MUCH more interesting than something on a telly screen !
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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yesterday my boyfriend told me he was cheating on me which i was very upset about. i'm still with him and he is still cheating on me.he said he has been cheating on me for a year. i love him very much and he said he loved me too. but he said he wasn't going to leave the other girl and he said we could share him. i'm really thinking about breaking up with him. but i love him and i'm not sure what to do. should i break up with him or just keep our relationship still going? please help and thank you so much
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hey hunnie xx
Your boyfriend probobly cant see how much he is actually hurting you babe,if you really do love him then you need to talk to him and ask him why he is cheating on you and why he wont leave this other girl.Its probobly not your fault , most cheaters dont think about what the concequences are.. i have been in the same situation with some one that i also thought i loved , i broke up with him and it hurt for a few months but in time i started realising that i was better off with out him
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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ok well i'm going on vacation tomorrow to the beach, & i just got my period today. this isn't the first time i got it, the first time was in may, i actually got it twice in may and never got it in june. well i'm going to the beach, and i'm going to be wearing a bathing suit/going in the water. [i'm not like a person that will be swimming underwater, i'd probably just be like jumping the waves lol] it's not like i'm going to be in the water the whole time, just in and out. i've only been wearing pads though, not tampons. i've heard that your period stops when you're in the water but what about when i'm out of the water? should i just wear a tampon [i've never worn one before] would it be okay to wear a pad? idk what to do! please help? thankss :] (link)
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hey xxx
basicly babe you should wear a tampon , make sure you either get your mum ( kinda inbarasin ) or make sure you read the instructions thuraly.To make sure that you feel cumfotable wering a tampon you should probly wer one for the rest of the day to get used to it.
Dont wear a pad .. seriously not a good idea in the water hunnie ! Also youre period DOES NOT stop when you are in the water :(
mwah xxxxxxxxxx
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how would you know that you've popped your cherry? (link)
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Hey xx
popping your'e cherry results in a small amount of bleeding.You can pop your cherry by riding a horse or simply jumping up and down.
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxx
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My 12 year old son has been bullied by a boy in our neighborhood for several years now. My son has a lot of friends, but of course all his friends are around his age and scared of the bully.
The bully (Gary) is 15. A few years ago my husband and I talked to Gary's parents, because he stole a toy from my son on the school bus. Gary claimed not to have the toy, and his parents protected him--and said we were in the wrong. This only child is perfect according to them. I have given up on going to the parents. The attitude of the police is "boys will be boys" (we live in a small town).
I caught Gary in the act a couple of weeks ago. He jumped on, and broke a ramp that my son and his friends built for their bikes. I told him he was acting like a 6 year old, and that someday someone bigger and meaner will come along and "take him out". He rode off on his bike in a hurry! However now he harasses my son about telling "Mommy". Last night he threw big rocks at my son's bike, causing some damage to paint. Apparently it even makes things worse if I interfear. Usually I do leave it to my son to settle disagreements, but this boy has crossed the line.
My 21 year old son, is 6'4, 240 lbs but If I use him to intimidate the 15 year old, this would be no different than a 15 year old picking on a 12 year old. Although...I doubt Gary has paid much attention to big brother. He'd probably be scared of him, we all know Gary is a coward in disguise.
My son does not want to walk away, because this means he would have to leave his other friends behind, plus he wants to "look tough" Any tips on dealing with a neighborhood bully? (link)
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hey xx
Being bullied is nasty and people that are getting bullied are scared of them. Getting your other son to intimidate Gary isnt setting a very good example to others. Garys parents have the attitude that its ok and Garys mum and dad havent bought up Gary very well in my opinion.
The next step could be talking to the head of the school or driving your child to school and picking him up. Also asking the head teacher to ask other teachers to keep an eye on Gary and your child may help the situation.
mwah xxxxxxxxx
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I think that I might have gotten Chlamydia because I basically have all the signs but I'm so scared to go to the doctor because I will have to tell my parents and not only will i be embarrassed I'll get in trouble..i have no idea what to do please help (link)
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hey hunnie xx
If you do have chlamydia then you do need to know , not only for your sake but for other sexual patners that you may of been with lately and for in the future.
Telling youre parents wont get you in trouble , if anything they will be suportive towards you . If you are over 16 then they can hardly be angry , and if you arent then they will understand .. afterall lots of other people nowadays are having underage sex
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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I might be pregnant, Il find out in a couple of weeks if i miss my period or not but im so stressed out about that fact that i might be pregnant this could cause my period to be late. If i am pregnant, what do i do? I cant keep it but i wouldnt know what to do if i was to have an abortion? I cant tell my family. I feel so alone, i always cry. Please can you give me some advice. (link)
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hey hunnie x
Ihave been in the same situation babe , it turned out i was in the end and i had a abortion . I was very young and it depends if you think you are ready or not taking on a baby is ALOT of responsability babe.
first of all you need to take a pregnancy test take 3 to make sure .. clear blue is a good one.
If it turns out that you are pregnant you should talk to some one that is close to you and that you can trust . Remember that its a big responsability and nothing is wrong with abortion but will you really regret it if you are ... the best thing to do is not 2 worry about that though until you know if you are or not
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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i recently got a small cut on the tip of my tounge. what would be the fastest way to heal it (putting air on it, ice on it, leaving it alone, etc.)??
Also i have braces, and they were just tightened. Is there any faster way to making them stop hurting so much? (link)
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hey xx
i have braces aswel babe , when mine get tightend i eat soft food for a couple of days .. eg. pasta.
as for the cut on your tounge im not to sure hunnie just chek it doesnt get infected or anything
mwah xxxxxxxxxxx
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is it normal for you to not have your period on time? normaly my period is always on time. what's wrong with me?
p.s i haven't had sex (link)
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hey xxx
yea its perfectly normal, sometimes you may skip a period depending on when you started . i wouldnt be to worried about it babe about a week early or late is fine!!
mwah xxxxxxxxx
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I keep making plans for dieting. I try and give up im 13 yrs old 5'2 and 117 pounds.I need some inspiration. Please help! (link)
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hey x
dont worry about it , i used to be over weight aswel at your age ! but i started to eat more healthily and took up dancing. try and do a type of exercise that interests you and maybe go to the gym with a friend .
hope it helps xxxx
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