I will try and explain this without rambling on. There is this guy, "Q" is what we will call him. Well I have liked "Q" for awhile. We messed around and stuff (not bad, making out, not much worse than that), but I thought he liked me and that was why he was doing stuff with me, but then I came to realize he was just using me. I don't get why he doesn't like me. He gives me mixed signals like he likes me, then he doesn't. He knows I like him (or I think he still does), so he takes advantage of that. I'm just confused..and he likes so many other girls (which I'm not part of that list). And I really really don't want to like him, but I can't help it. I might even love him, not even joking. But everytime I even think about him, he makes me cry because I know he doesn't like me. But he likes so many of my friends its unreal. When I'm around him, it's like I'm not even there.
I just need some help on this situation.
Any advice at all will be great.
Maybe some ways to get over him.
Or maybe ways for him to notice me.
I see him a lot.
jumadel answered Sunday July 16 2006, 10:30 pm: Hi, this guy doesn't sound to show of what he wants. If he's using you and taking advantage then he isn't worth bothering with. I think you have more lust for him than love. The making out is what he's probaly getting out of girls. A relationship is between 2 people, mostly between a male and a female. They like eachother not because of the making out but because of the strong bond or connection they have for one another. He's obviousley wasting your time, when you deserve and can do better. Daniel. [ jumadel's advice column | Ask jumadel A Question ]
oxohunnieoxo answered Sunday July 16 2006, 8:20 am: hey babe xx
Its time to realise babe that he is using you and you dont need him ! Hes a user and you are getting taken advantage of hunnie you deserve better than that . You should ignore him let him know that your not going to be treated like dirt ! You should be with your m8s and just have a laugh ...with out him ! And then when the time is right for you then get in2 a relationship with someone that you no is a really shweet genuin guy that you can trust
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxx [ oxohunnieoxo's advice column | Ask oxohunnieoxo A Question ]
sml111992 answered Sunday July 16 2006, 7:55 am: i really dont know what to say but what i would do is stop what your doing with him ignore him like some other guy he will realize you dont care for him and like you but if you dont like him then it was just your brain thinking you love someone not your heart!
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