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boyfriend troubles:[
yesterday my boyfriend told me he was cheating on me which i was very upset about. i'm still with him and he is still cheating on me.he said he has been cheating on me for a year. i love him very much and he said he loved me too. but he said he wasn't going to leave the other girl and he said we could share him. i'm really thinking about breaking up with him. but i love him and i'm not sure what to do. should i break up with him or just keep our relationship still going? please help and thank you so much
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hun as bad as you dont want to do this you have to leave him no matter what happens. you need a guy to love you for you and not to cheat on you. if he loves and respects you enough not to cheat on you then you know that he cares.
leave him ASAP.. he isnt worth your time or effort. it will tkaae time to get over him but do it. dont sit there and let him ruin your life. think about all the other guys you are missing out on.=)
♥ Steph
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1. Either talk to him and say either you break it off with the other girl or im leaving you because it isnt right for you or the other girl, he's cheating on both of you.
2. Just break up with him he obviously doesnt care about you as much as you do him because he was cheating on you in the for place and he was cheating on you for a year and he told you he wasnt ending it with the other girl that obviously shows he doesnt respect you.
And saying you could share him shows hes cocky.
Sometimes you have to do things that you dont like doing but it will help you in the longrun:]
Hope this helped
♥ Ariell
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omg! break up with him..if he loved you enough he would want to be with you and only you I know you love him but trust me you can get wayy better and someone that wants you and only you.
-Meredith
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omg!ive totally been in the exact same relationship.you know what i told him i said look here its eathier me or her.i will not be anybodys bitch because thats exacly what hes he treating you like.he loves you my ass.that boy does not love you because if he did he wouldnt dare share his love whith anyone else.the definition of a relationship is a boy and a girl who like and respect each other and does not include three plpl.you know hes going bac to his friends and bragging.you tell him i will not let you treat me like a third will jerk and dump his a@#!hope this helps!TWEETY
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omg!you need to definatley break up with him!!!i have kinda been in the same relationship b4 trust me i know what he** you go through!!!hope i have helped Amber:)
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Dump him.
<br/> He's doing a really bad thing and he won't break up with the other girl.
<br/> If he really loved you [[I know he does]] but he wouldn't cheat on you
<br/> You deserve someone WAY better.
<br/> What if you want to get married? Are you guys still going to share him and live in the same house?
<br/> If it were me in this situation, I would've dumped him at the second.
<br/> If your going to break up, afterwards, go spend some time with your friends to get your mind off of things, friends can really help, and you will find someone much better<br/>
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Hope I helped and Good Luck!
♥ Christina
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You deserve someone way better then that! You should break up with him and find a new guy, one that will like/ love you as much as you like/love them. Don't let him do that to you! I know it will be hard and it will hurt, but it will get better... I hope everything works out.
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haha he told you to share him! you obvisouly need to dump him. he is not worth your time if there is another girl in the picture
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It is very sad that you had to ask this question, but I understand how love can sometimes blind you from what you really should be doing. that is the bad thing about love. It can make things so hard for you to let go, when sometimes that is the best thing for you to do. He CHEATED ON YOU! And to make it worse, HE WONT STOP! He wants you to "share" him? Listen hun, go up to that stupid mother-fucker and say this to his face:
"Hey (his name), You said you loved me, but I've been thinking, if you really loved me, then why would you need some other girl to keep you company when I'm the one you 'love'? Exactly... I'm glad you finally told me about this other girl, and about how much of an asshole you really have been through this entire relationship. Now that I know how you are, I have realized how much I really don't want to be with you anymore. So fuck off. Do not call me ever again, for anything. You were a waste of my time, and I want nothing to do with you."
And that will be the end of it. It souns harsh but you have the right to tell him off. And DO NOT ever talk to him again. All he will try to do is try to get you back, or try to rub this other girl in your face, which is something you do not deserve! So dump him and be done with him. And start enjoying the single life. It will be hard to get over him and it will be hard to not go back to him, but trust me, once you find the right guy, you will truly realize what an asshole this guy really is. You deserve better. You are young, and can get any guy you want. Tell yourself this and go out there and enjoy life. Best of luck hun.
~Sherah
PS: You can also add a couple punches or slaps in there after you tell him off... lol
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Sweetheart, you need to dump him as fast as you can. Have some common sense. He obviously didnt love you enough to not cheat on you, nor did he love you enough to tell you the first time he did it. There is a big breach of trust there now, and having a third party involved is most certainly not going to help any of you. I know you love him, but you just have to let go, unless of course your "like that."
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Listen, sorry to say this but dump him. Tell him to either dump her or your dumping him. It's simple and if he dumps her, you still have a boyfriend and she gets dumped. So good luck I guess and hope for the best!
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hey!
omg, this is a terrible situation! first of all, i know you love him and i am sorry to say this, but this guy is a total jerk! he can say he loves you all he wants, but by deffinition, love means wanting to give your whole self to someone, and wanting all of them for yourself. if you truly love someone, they are all you need in this world to make you happy. do you want to be with someone that doesn't love you, lies and cheats and has no respect for you?
for a relationship to work, each person in the relationship needs to give... meaning each person has to put in the same amount of effort the other person is putting in. if you are the only one doing all the loving and caring, the relationship will never work. if you really do love him, will you really be ok with him beeing with another girl? if the answer is yes, then i don't think you truly LOVE him... if you loved him you would want him all to yourself!
it seems like he is walking all over you and you are letting him get away with too much. if you agree to this arrangement and allow him to have 2 girlfriends, he will believe that he has you completely whipped, and he will treat you badly in the future knowing that it won't make a difference because you will put up with it. if you want to be hurt really badly in the future and are willing to put up with more heart ache than you know what to do with, then i say go ahead and stay with him.
but remember that you can't have a relationship without trust... at this point you have no trust for him because of what he has been doing for the past year. so even if he agrees to only date you and forget the other girl, i still don't think you should get back with him. it seems that all he wants is the physical aspect of a relationship, and if he has no feelings but you do, then in the end he will win and you will lose.
if you have any respect for yourself and want to ensure that you are happy in the future, then you should run as far as you can from this guy and never talk to him again. staying in a "relationship" with him while he is running around with other girls will not only hurt you in the end, but it won't give you a chance to be single and go out and find a guy who will want to be ONLY with you! and trust me, i know you have a lot to offer, so any guy that has you should consider himself lucky and shouldn't feel the need to date anyone else! :)
sorry this is sooo long, but i got really heated haha. i hate seeing guys walk all over girls... it really does upset me, so i hope you really think about things before you make a decision! :) best of luck, and let me know if you need more help!
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If you stay with him it will only cause hurt. If you need to talk to someone, I'm ALWAYS available.
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You shouldn't have to share your boyfriend. Honestly, you dont deserve to have your boyfriend cheat on you for over a year and tell you that you and the other girl can share him. Come on, thats not fair to you at all. It's one thing if he cheated and asked for forgiveness(meaning he wouldn't see that girl anymore)but he cheated and feels no remorse for it AND is going to continue to do so. You can get better than that and I know it hurts because you love him but having you as a girlfriend should have been enough for him. You need to put yourself first, take a stand. Do you really want to share your boyfriend with another girl? You need someone who wants you and only you... I think you should break up with him but in the end the decision is all up to you. Take care and remember, put yourself first.
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hey hunnie xx
Your boyfriend probobly cant see how much he is actually hurting you babe,if you really do love him then you need to talk to him and ask him why he is cheating on you and why he wont leave this other girl.Its probobly not your fault , most cheaters dont think about what the concequences are.. i have been in the same situation with some one that i also thought i loved , i broke up with him and it hurt for a few months but in time i started realising that i was better off with out him
mwah xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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he says hes not going to leave her and you guys can share him...? uh break up with him!!
When you have a boyfriend, usually there are only TWO people in the relationship... not three or more. If i were you, i would break up with him and find someone better whos willing to be with only you. Don't keep your relationship going once you know you arent the only one in his 'love' life. After all, having a boyfriend means he loves you and only you, not you and another girl.
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you love him. obvious. but love is only for one person at a time. you have been loyal to him, and he has not done the same at all. i know you love him, but if he really did love you like he says he does, he wouldnt put you through this. its just not fair. you need to break up with him. if he can love 2 peple than so can you. find another guy. there are plnty. waaaay better than him.
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