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Gender: Female
Location: PA
Age: 15
AIM: bekahbedashiz
Member Since: July 13, 2006
Answers: 17
Last Update: August 23, 2006
Visitors: 1902
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Hello well i just broke with my girlfriend today and it was 1 month only. me and her had met in school before and had this really big crush on each other but things didnt work out and we never got to express how we feel toward each other then i started dating this girl for two years and that ended horribly, during my two year relationship i thought of her and lost contact. 3 months after the two years i meet my ex we exchange numbers and ended up hooking up, she told me she had just finished a relationship with this guy from london it was those long term ones and it lasted a year then she broke up with him because he wasnt physically attracted to her, she tells me that i mean so to her much and she did also to me, besides i just finished a two year relationship so im kinda of mess too, lol well the things is she wanted to ended it because she is in love with him and me but she does'nt want to make me suffer so she broke it off and i felt really connected even though it was only a month it was more than enough we were crazy for each other we were so unseparable and i was in love with her but then that happened i dont know what to do im really torn apart at this moment!!! will someone please help (link)
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oooh. poor guy. ok. you need to give her some time to figure out what she wants. tell her that. tell her she needs to find out who she wants. and if its not you move along.
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Hi i am 13.Okay, I am really good friends with this guy i know( we will call him A) He is really really cute and super nice. I have a crush on him and when my bf was over we called are other guy friend and then called A and they told him I liked him. He and his friend talked alone for a while and then said he would think about and was not interested in starting a relationship in the summer and i feel that way to. But i am afraid if he says he doesnt like me which i think he does because he kind of flirts with me, what if when school starts i get nervous and dont talk to him what should I do because i really like him and he hasnt not talked to me yet since he found out that i like him? Please help me. (link)
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sounds complicated. well heres what i think you should do. when school comes ignore his sorry ass. if he cant talk to you during the summer why should you talk to him during school? pretend to not like him anymore. and see what happens.
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so i went to this camp with my best friend alexa. we started hanging out with a bunch of guys.in our bunk at night we were talking about who we liked and we realized we both liek the same guy steven. a few nights later we found out steven might like alexa. but she told me she wasnt gunna go out with him or anything cause i liked him. throughout camp he made some moves on her but she did nothing. then i told her i didnt like him so she would have her first hookup. towards end of camp she still did nothing with him. then he told my other friend christina that he would have rather gone out with me. i do still like him but idk if i should go out with him cause that would be really mean to alexa.
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screw your freind!!! go for the guy!!!
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I used to be best friends with this guy, Mike, who is two years older than me. He had a HUGE crush on me, but I never felt the same way about him... so we never actually went out. Now, he has a girlfriend who is 15, while he is 18, and she hates me. She talks a lot of crap about me and calls me names. I have tried talking to both of them about it. Mike said he would talk to her, but it hasnt helped. Its now getting to the point where she is harassing me and saying really mean, hurtful, embarassing stuff. I dont know what else to do, and Im not sure why she is saying all this about me. I have never talked to the girl, and i have never talked about her... but for some reason she thinks i have. I told both her and Mike that I didnt. What else can I do? (link)
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shes just jealous of your freindship with mike. if youve done all that there really is nothing you can do. shes just a mean jerk.
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ok i have a friend and were like sisters we walk talk and eat at the same time we even finish each others sentences. i love her to death but she stayed over at my house for a month how do i tell her she is getting on my nerves with out hurting my feelings ?? Plz give me advice (link)
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My best freind and i were together for 2 months. yes we got on eachothers nerves alot. but we knew it. if shes a real freind you can tell her. or you can deal with it or you can talk to her. but even if you do talk to her nothings going to change untill you take a little break from eachother. because too much of anybody is a bad thing. lol
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I have this problem with guys not looking at my face. there always looking at my but or chest you have to practically yell at them to get there attetion. I neeed help of how to get them to notice my face . (link)
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guys are pervs. the only way to get them to look at your face is to never talk to them. no matter what you do guys are gonna stare
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About 6 weeks ago I was dumped over the internet by my long term bf. He did it in a very cowardly and cruel way with no explanation- pretty ignorant for a 3 year relationship. Everyone is telling me I'm better off without him. When I first met him I thought he was mr. right- he was caring, attentive; and charming. But then I saw his true colours. He would yell at me for no reason; get extremely jealous when I talked to his male friends; constantly put me and other women down; was a womanizer and cheated on me; and had a porn addiction. The meanest thing he ever did was stick his face in mine and yell "I"M SO SORRY"! after I told him his friends at a party were making me uncomfortable. I started writing a list of all the crap he did to me to make me feel better. But there is still a part of me that misses him when he was nice. Does anyone have any methods for how I can get over this jerk? And why do I still want him after everything he did? (link)
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leave that effer for good woman! you dont deserve that! i know it hard but you will get over him. give it time. just dont think about him, dont talk to him, and if you can ask your freinds to never bring him up. obviously hes just a freaking a$$ hole.
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I am a 14 year old girl but im 15 in 3 months and i know its illegal to have sex in uk before 16 but i really love my boyfriend and i'll be honest caue i want real advice i've been going out with him over a week and i already feel he loves me and i love him and i think i feel ready i mean he's given me oral sex if that can be correct but i've not done anything to him and i think he's the right one and the one i want to loose my virginity too and i want to know if theres a way of checking to see if ur ready by tasks or talks or something . one magazine said to see if ur ready to have sex see if you can walk up to your local chemist and buy condoms out of it from a lady who knows you live near by is this a good way of telling if im ready please email me bak or reply soon cause tomorrow or the next day is ment to be kinda big with him and me
please help love me xxxxxxxxxxx (link)
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ok your dumb. youve only been dating him for a little over a week and you want to bang him? whats wrong with you? ho. i think you should get over your "love" and wait for marriage. sicko
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this is for strong Christians mostly to answer. Is their any Godly way to relieve sexual tension without sinning when your single? I'm a strong, young Christian girl but imma teenager so I have raging horemones. I used to masturbate then I stopped then it went to dry humping. now I'm trying to stop it all but its hard. Is there any way to de stress? (link)
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ok you are SICK! any christian would not have that kind of problem.
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Bekah,
SHORKY YORKY!
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I know what u mean...
YORKY SHORKY!
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Why is 1 the loneliest number and 2 just as bad but 3 isent...3 is too! what if they gang up on one and they attack then its just as bad!
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well, lets see, if your by yourslef your obviously lonely. 2is NOT just as bad and 3 is. your right. we should send a letter to the dead guy who sang that song.
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MY OVEN IN ON FIRE! what do i do with this extinguisher? (link)
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forget the extinguisher! fight fire with fire!
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Uhh.. this is really embarrassing.. but I wet the bed.. A LOT. It's not that that's embarrasing though.. it's the fact that I'm 16. I've had this problem a lot and I've been wearing diapers but it never helps. I never go to sleepovers because of it and I don't know what to do. please help! (link)
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ok so you have alot of wet dreams....my suggestion is to sleep in a pan.
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Why is smarterchild so smart? Why can't he just be my sexy cheese? AHH Help me... it confuses me! (link)
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i had the same problem!! hes just so vain! if you want him to be your sexy cheese then good golly he will be your sexy cheese wether he likes it or not!!!
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yesterday my boyfriend told me he was cheating on me which i was very upset about. i'm still with him and he is still cheating on me.he said he has been cheating on me for a year. i love him very much and he said he loved me too. but he said he wasn't going to leave the other girl and he said we could share him. i'm really thinking about breaking up with him. but i love him and i'm not sure what to do. should i break up with him or just keep our relationship still going? please help and thank you so much
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you love him. obvious. but love is only for one person at a time. you have been loyal to him, and he has not done the same at all. i know you love him, but if he really did love you like he says he does, he wouldnt put you through this. its just not fair. you need to break up with him. if he can love 2 peple than so can you. find another guy. there are plnty. waaaay better than him.
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Okay , pleasee answer this ASAP considering I am leaving to get these items soon. What color eyeliner makes brown eyes stand out the most? What is the best brand of eyeliner to buy? Also can you prevent the eyeliner from running off to the side of your eye a theirs like a dot there? And if so what is it? Like are their any types of eyeliner that DONT do that? Ohh , and what color eyeliner makes your eyes look bigger? Thank-you. (link)
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Ok i know all about this my mom is a beautician. black makes your eyes look smaller. but it makes brown eyes stand out alot, because i have brown eyes i know. if you put your hair up it brings out your eyes ALOT. definatley buy cover girl. it doesnt smear nearly as much as other ones. to make your eyes look bigger just dont wear eye liner because any eyeliner will make your eyes look smaller than they are...mayeb white wil make them look brighter though. just put your hair up.
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ok well i'm going on vacation tomorrow to the beach, & i just got my period today. this isn't the first time i got it, the first time was in may, i actually got it twice in may and never got it in june. well i'm going to the beach, and i'm going to be wearing a bathing suit/going in the water. [i'm not like a person that will be swimming underwater, i'd probably just be like jumping the waves lol] it's not like i'm going to be in the water the whole time, just in and out. i've only been wearing pads though, not tampons. i've heard that your period stops when you're in the water but what about when i'm out of the water? should i just wear a tampon [i've never worn one before] would it be okay to wear a pad? idk what to do! please help? thankss :] (link)
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Ok well thats exactly the problem i had a few weeks ago. i hadnt used a tampon before that. i taught myslef. its really not that bad at all. used the samll ones at first. is you use some kind of lubricant its easier. i know its a touchy subject. you can leave them in for about 5 hours. but youll want to change it more ofetn just in case. it tells you how to use them righ ton th ebox. if i can figure it out you can. and just wear them every day untill you sleep wear pads. never wear tampons to bed. so there ya go! they are easy to use and not nearly as bad as eveyone thinks. and yes water does stop it but as soon as you get out o fthe water it will come gith back. so definatley use tampons. or dont swim.
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