so i went to this camp with my best friend alexa. we started hanging out with a bunch of guys.in our bunk at night we were talking about who we liked and we realized we both liek the same guy steven. a few nights later we found out steven might like alexa. but she told me she wasnt gunna go out with him or anything cause i liked him. throughout camp he made some moves on her but she did nothing. then i told her i didnt like him so she would have her first hookup. towards end of camp she still did nothing with him. then he told my other friend christina that he would have rather gone out with me. i do still like him but idk if i should go out with him cause that would be really mean to alexa.
please help =]
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MelLeDisko answered Saturday August 26 2006, 1:11 am: Well, I believe the motto "Bros over hoes" or as I like to say "Chicks over dicks". :P Seeing as how she decided not to go after him because she knew you liked him too, I think you should show her the same courtesy and not go after him either. If you did, she'd probably get upset and there's no point in losing a good friendship. So, be a good friend. Because even if she didn't mind, and you guys went out, and if you broke up, she'd still be there in the end, so it doesn't even matter if the guy's there. I hope I helped. <3 [ MelLeDisko's advice column | Ask MelLeDisko A Question ]
Alli answered Friday August 25 2006, 7:36 pm: Yes that would be really rude. Your friend Alexa liked him but because you also liked him she didn't go after him. I think that you should be a good friend not try to get the guy because your friend did that for you and she should be able to think that you will do the same for her.
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ill_will_help_u answered Wednesday August 23 2006, 10:51 am: ok sounds like u have a problem well you were nice enough to give this steven up to your friend! Your friend made no contactual moves with this kid so you sshould talk to your friend and see what she is suggesting but it wouldnt be nice if you went out with him... GOOD LUCK! [ ill_will_help_u's advice column | Ask ill_will_help_u A Question ]
holahayley56 answered Wednesday August 23 2006, 10:21 am: Shes your best friend.. you don't do that to her. That would be tottaly mean. Think how long you've been friends with her.. or how long you will be. When that guy, will only last a month or two. [ holahayley56's advice column | Ask holahayley56 A Question ]
caramella answered Wednesday August 23 2006, 8:55 am: Forget about him,no guy is ever more important then a freind.The freinds last forever but the guy doesnt.This guy seems like a player too,liking one girl and wanted to go out with another. [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
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