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a friend like a sister.
ok i have a friend and were like sisters we walk talk and eat at the same time we even finish each others sentences. i love her to death but she stayed over at my house for a month how do i tell her she is getting on my nerves with out hurting my feelings ?? Plz give me advice
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Lets see... This is very common. What you could do, is just say "Look, I know we are best friends, like sisters, but everyone needs some space" And go on explaining that you two don't have to be with eachother at all times. You both have lives, and need to be involved in them. You could also make some new friends, and introduce them to her, and maybe she won't just hang out with you any more. She'll have more people to chill with, and so will you.
Tara
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I've had the same exact problem. The thing that you need to do is when she does or says something that really annoys you, say in a polite way, "Hey, I'm not trying to seem bossy or anything - but in the future, can you not do that?"
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"I know we are best friends, but everyone gets a little mad at each other once in a while. I love ya like a friend and all, but I think we need to seperate for a bit so we don't kill each other!"
Those may not seem like they would work, but they do - trust me.
goodluck
triciaXterror
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My best freind and i were together for 2 months. yes we got on eachothers nerves alot. but we knew it. if shes a real freind you can tell her. or you can deal with it or you can talk to her. but even if you do talk to her nothings going to change untill you take a little break from eachother. because too much of anybody is a bad thing. lol
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just like sisters you will get on eachothers nerves. if she does something that bothers you then just tell her nicely, maybe you could tell her that since you gonna be together for awhile that if you do anything to bother her then for her to tell you
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well if she does something that geets on your nerves be like.. please dont do that ! and if she saids why you being so mean or something just be like " i just hate when people do that" and everytime she woudl do something that would get on your nerves just tell her to stop. thats the only thing i can think of
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