|
Friends for ever...or....Love Life
Hi i am 13.Okay, I am really good friends with this guy i know( we will call him A) He is really really cute and super nice. I have a crush on him and when my bf was over we called are other guy friend and then called A and they told him I liked him. He and his friend talked alone for a while and then said he would think about and was not interested in starting a relationship in the summer and i feel that way to. But i am afraid if he says he doesnt like me which i think he does because he kind of flirts with me, what if when school starts i get nervous and dont talk to him what should I do because i really like him and he hasnt not talked to me yet since he found out that i like him? Please help me.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
well, sweetie, friendship is so much more valuable than a relationship. relationship barely lead to marriage and usually you guys will break up leaving you and your best friend in an awkward friendship.
and when you say he's flirting, you really can't tell if he's flirting because everyone is different. he might've just be like that naturally. i mean everyone says neal & i should go out because he "flirts" but seriously, we're really just good friends and he's like that with everyone..even guys and no he is not gay or bi.
and maybe he hasn't talked to you yet because he feels the same way as i do: he values the friendship more than relationship. maybe he's afraid to say no because he might lose you and your friendship and if he says yes, it will still be ruined.
when school starts, just talk to him regulary. pretend that this incident never happened and yes, feel free to hit those other guys who told a that you liked him =d
just play it cool. even if he says no. it's not the end of the world. just act normal as if this never happened =x
**emm[y]
]
sounds complicated. well heres what i think you should do. when school comes ignore his sorry ass. if he cant talk to you during the summer why should you talk to him during school? pretend to not like him anymore. and see what happens.
]
More Questions: |