Hey, call me Neo. Inside joke I have with a friend. Lol we always joke around. paid 2 make things I enjoy fire, hangin out, and talking 2 friends. I'll help if i can. Oh yea and ummm all you gay guys, please stop asking me if I'll date you. I'M STRAIGHT AND ALREADY HAVE A GIRLFRIEND!
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Okay well my bf like lives in an apartment and like theres a pool outisde his apartment and like i rele want to hang out with him at his plaace but my parents wont let me go there cuz thts were all the ''smokers and druggies'' live ... does anyone know any good reasons i could tell my parents i could go there ? please...cuz if i dun go over there he mite start cheeting on me or somehing and he came swimmin at a pool neer me and everything for a long time so i wana go over to his house.....
thanks.
-xoxo Vanessa (link)
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WellI don't know how old you are but if he still lives with his parents then say that they'll be watching you. Then have yours and his parents maybe talk about it and stuff and you should be good.
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Hey doug, yo man, i was wonderin what you possision is on gettin high and drunk, for reverance and how you think i would react in the state of drunk and/or high (link)
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Nice dude. Go for it but, get as high and drunk as possible. I think that anyone in a 50 mile radius will end up dead. =) have loads of fun.
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I know that when you are younger. Guys tease girls if they like them. Is it still the same way in your upper teens.? (link)
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Nope. Guys usually tease girls either to empress another girl or just because they're insecure. They're usually insecure anyway, and that's coming from a guy.
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will you go out with me? im serious.
13/m/gay/bi
please =[
i think your pretty =] (link)
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sorry dude, I'm straight.
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i hav a bf and hes rly sweet and nice, but i like neva get to see him cuz he lives in another town. wenever i go someplace and see a cute guy i always wanna flirt. is that bad since i already hav a bf? and since i wanna flirt wit otha ppl, does that mean i dont really like my bf as much as i thought? (link)
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Friend had same problem. Try not to flirt but ask your boyfriend if it's cool with him if you flirt with boys it's your nature.
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13/f. I don't know what's been happening to me recently. For the past 3 months, my appetite has disappeared. In one day, I can't seem to eat more than this: a baked potato, a cup of coffee, a piece of banana bread, two bowls of fruit and half-and-half, and a small plate of macaroni. I usually can eat more than that. I used to be around 88 lbs. I'm now usually around 84-87 lbs. I've been having a bit of trouble going to sleep, too. It takes around 30 minutes before I'm completely ready to fall asleep. My period keeps coming late, and I know this is disgusting, but my urine has started to smell really, really bad.
Oh, and don't tell me "you're stressed." I'm out of school, and I have not been doing anything stressful at all. I'm just sitting at home.
I know that most of you aren't doctors, but I was just curious as to whether anybody else has had these symptoms and what it COULD be?
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Your thinking too much. I do the same thing and you think 30 minutes is a long time? Try 4 hours, it's hard. It's also possibly a desease like a stomach bug, are you feeling ok? Try meditation it calms you down and can sometime build up an appitite believe it or not. I've had a couple of those symptons-not sleeping and barely eating. I went a whole day on 1 poptart(yummy). That's pretty much all I have to sayand try not to worry about it, sometimes worrying is what causes all those things.
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ok well lately me and my mom havent been getting along and me and my cuzins i dont know what should do! me and 1 of my cuzins already made up. but 1 is being a total pain! (link)
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It's most likely your age. Everyone fights with their family when their a teen. No biggie but be careful, you may say somethignt that will get you into a lot of trouble. Try taking a deep breath and keeping your wise comments to yourself and wise as in smartassy.you know
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my cat wont stop pooping in the corner! what do i do! (link)
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Take him to the vet. He might have an allergic reaction to something possibly food or something.
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if im 13/f and bout 5'7- 5'8ish how much should i weigh?? (link)
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Wow your tall. I'd say around 130-150. If you wiegh under that, well that's OK to but that's light for someone your hieght. It all depends on your muscles and build.
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When I go back to school I want to be changed. I have good looks, but I have very low self esteem. My last year has been very rough dealing with my friends starting drugs, sucky boyfriends, and just family/money problems.
I want to come back this year with confidence and a happier personality. I don't have alot of friends because we've all just gone our own way. How can I reevaluate myself and be proud of what I have, and act and be more fun to be around? Thanks. (link)
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Be yourself. I remember in 6 grade one of my techers played some MJ and well, I couldn't sit there. I stood up, walked to the middle of the class and started dancing. It was histerical-the entire room of classes crowded around me(we had like 3 classes in each room) and I even got some of my friends to join in. I made a good amount of friends that day because I was just myself. I know your probably older but just be yourself, don't be afraid to do something even if someone else isn't. Plus, the good looks will help u a lot. =) anyway, I'm sure you'll make some new friends and You'll do fine. I'm guessing your somewhere in high school if your friends do drugs, I was in middle school but then again I got forced going to school in the ghetto =p so don't do them, they will lower your self esteem and eventually kill you. Have fun that's always the best thing to do.
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Ok its me again with the problem about my boyfriend being 3 years older then me. Sometimes I think he likes the t.v more then me. because hes always watching it and he says he doesnt like it. and when i say something not all the time but rarely he will say "what?" i get so agravated, but i donnt want him to think i'm a pain and annoying. And me and him ran out of things to talk about. So give me`some because all we say is... NOTHING! What should I do?? and i broke up with 1 of my boyfriends just because of the t.v thing and other reasons. HELP ME! (link)
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Haha does he have Tivo? cuz if he does, there is no way in Hell you can get through to him. That stuff is evil being able to record all your shows. But all men love the tv, especially if it's like a huge baseball game or something. I went to a party a few weeks ago for my cousins birthday and the entire time we watched Italy play Germany. That was a great game though so try to get him outside and go somewhere like out to eat or wait, your 13, well nevermind that but turn the tv off and get him to do something with you, maybe play outside, hangout i don't know whatever it is that you find fun. And if you run out of things to say, get him to take you to the movies. =)
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yesterday my boyfriend told me he was cheating on me which i was very upset about. i'm still with him and he is still cheating on me.he said he has been cheating on me for a year. i love him very much and he said he loved me too. but he said he wasn't going to leave the other girl and he said we could share him. i'm really thinking about breaking up with him. but i love him and i'm not sure what to do. should i break up with him or just keep our relationship still going? please help and thank you so much
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Listen, sorry to say this but dump him. Tell him to either dump her or your dumping him. It's simple and if he dumps her, you still have a boyfriend and she gets dumped. So good luck I guess and hope for the best!
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Ok well me and this guy went out about a year ago for a month well we broke up and i never did get over him.. now we are talkin but i cant tell if hes jus using me or if he really likes me.. is there any ways i can tell??? when we hung out he made it sound like he jus did it cuz he didnt want to say no to me but when we got there he paid for everything and made all the moves.. etc. soo i really need help on finding if there are ways you can tell! thanks (link)
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He most likely still likes you. Go on a few dates or something with him, talk to some of his friends, see what you can find out. If you didn't get over it, maybe he didn't either. so see what happens and good luck.
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is it true that if you drink while you eat it makes your stomach bigger? like more 'un-flat'? (link)
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No wered you here that one? That's probably just some urban mith don't pay attention to it. But when you drink, you become more full. especially from soda because it is carbonated so air gets into your stomach filling up more room that's why when you burp you feel less full.
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Im considering going to sleep away camp for my first time. Im 14 & Female. Its a boy/girl camp and I was just wondering if anyone could tell me everything I need to know about going to an overnight camp. Its in 10 days so Im nervous. Do camps let you use cell phones? And also, I straighten my hair every day..what about that? Also, any advice on how to meet friends? What is important to bring or ABSOLUTELY essential to bring? Ill take ANY advice about going away. :] thanks! (link)
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I have...bad situations at sleep away camps. But I went 2 a boyscout camp, an old friend of mine used to go to sleep away camps all the time, she loved them. I don't think the camp will let you straighten your hair but if you wake up early enough, you can sneak it. Or, you can always do it when you have extra time. And the cell phone, I don't think that's suppossed to be used and bringing it may be a bad idea. They will let you write letters home though. And don't worry bout mking friends, you'll make plenty. Have fun!!!!
Neo
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i recently got a small cut on the tip of my tounge. what would be the fastest way to heal it (putting air on it, ice on it, leaving it alone, etc.)??
Also i have braces, and they were just tightened. Is there any faster way to making them stop hurting so much? (link)
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Leave your tongue alone. I did that before. And try chewing on something. I'm not sure, but I think that helps. For the braces i mean
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Recently, while playing at gym, i sprained and dislocated my knee. I sprained it in 3 places. The doctor said I need surgery, so does anyone know how much it is going to hurt?
Im so scared=/ (link)
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don't worry, what you did to your leg hurts far worse then the surgury.Plus, They completly knock you out, you won't remeber A think promise. Plus, you can sue the school, make some money. Lucky. =))))
Good Luck,
Neo
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Is this something wrong with me?
It's not a constant thing, but I have some real problems with anger at times. For example before.. Mom and I were in the car and I was crying.. been bogged down by stress, friends issues, and a recent breakup. Then I totally lost it because I felt she wasn't listening to me. I started throwing everything everywhere and kicking and screaming, telling her to listen to me. she tried to act all "calm" about it and even tried to change the topic and ignore what I was saying. I got mad and told her to stop being calm and lose the tone. I got even madder, and then something snapped. I put my fingers in the car window, and pushed the button up until my fingers got caught and kept doing it till I screamed in pain. I also bit hard into my hand in anger and the marks are still there.
I have never done anything like that before. Mom and I haven't spoken since. I feel terrible about what I did. I have no idea what got into me. Is there something wrong with me, or was this just a one-off thing, like losing control for a moment? I feel really ashamed because my mom is good to me, and I went and did something like that. What should I do? Is this a serious problem that requires serious help?
thanks (link)
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It's stress from school and all that kindof stuff. I used to get it all the time but know that it's summer it should be easy. The whole pain thing is your body trying to forget the stress like ok there's an old saying that goes time to bite the bullet. In WWII, amputation needed to be done so they would have someone bite as hard as they can into a bullet to help. Don't know how it helps but it does for some strange reason. A good massage would be good for you and trying to do some fun things will also help. Good luck
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how do i download music from my computer to my ipod nano? (link)
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plug your nano into the computor and itunes will automatically download the songs unless you changed it to manual wich can be switched back from controls or settings.
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So anyway I have a gay uncle.He lives by him self he has been living with his mom untill a month ago.When she went to a nurseing home.He lives a block away.He comes over to walk my dog every single day.Goes swimming in my pool.But the worst part is he walks in my house.when me and my family are asleep and when me and my family aren't home .Plus he yells at me for stupid stuff like not taking out the trash.Should I go off on him for yelling at me and walking in my house when im asleep or not home. (link)
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No you shouldn't. He just moved out a month ago, he's lonely and feels comfortable when he's near you and your family because he knows them. It's also pretty hard being gay and moving into a new neighborhood because nieghbors can be really discrimatory. He's just, nervious i guess so in a few months he'll be more comfortable and he won't come to your house nearly as often. Just try to ignore him when he yells at you, my grandma used to yell at me all the time, and still does.
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