ok so i'm 13 and everytime i start to make friends with a guy i end up likeing him and i like having guy friends cause i dont know it's different but how can i have guy friends without likeing them???? is this normal ??
It is very difficult at your age to have guy friends and not like them. You're just beginning to go through hormonal changes, it will be like this for a while. At the least through out your teenage years. So, yes it is very normal, and there is nothing you can do about it.
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can someone pleasee try to make a sample wish list for a 13 year olds birthday? she is girly, role models jessica simpson and paris hilton, and favorite color is pink. loves shopping & makeup. ANY IDEAS WILL DO! THANKS SO MUCH!!
Why don't you just take her shopping, teenage girls love it when her mom takes her shopping. She'll have fun and get what she wants.
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16/f
awhile ago i went out with this girls ex-boyfriend. now everytime she see's me she calls me a fat whore // slut. i'm no where near fat and i never even say anything back to her. how can i make it stop or just ignore her.
thanks
Is this girl important to you?? It doesn't sound it. If you really don't care about her, brush it off. She's not something you should worry about. It's just another girl trying to make you feel bad because she didn't get what she wants. More and more drama, just try your hardest to steer clear of her and ignore it. She'll figure out she's losing the battle when you don't even look at her.
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so i broke up with my bf lastnight because when we first started dating he had these magazines and i told him i didnt like him having them so he "threw them away" he said he did that to prove he would do anything for me and that he doesnt like looking at anyone but me. well lastnight we went to his room and the pile of magazines were back again. so 1. he lied to me 2.im not the only one he likes to look at and 3. i cant trust him. was this a good reason for dumping him or was i just being stupid?
Don't beat yourself up over this, you did the right thing. If he lies to you, you shouldn't have to deal with that. So, no worries, it was a very good reason. I mean if he lied to you about that what else is he lying about?
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Me and my boyfriend have been together for two months now. We are really good together and we really love eachother. Last night i was talking with one of my ex boyfriends. He's a huge pervert and is always telling me to take my clothes off. I told my boyfriend and he seemed really mad, so i asked him. I go, Dan are you mad? He says, no i just love when guys say perverted stuff to my girlfriend. So me and dan got into a huge arguement I said sorry several times and at the end he said apology excepted. I left him a message on myspace saying how sorry i was and that i love him. He wanted to see what my ex was saying to me, but i refused to show him. He got mad at that also. I don't want him to say or do anything to my ex. I blocked my ex and i told Dan im not going to talk to him anymore. Which Im not going to. Dan is out today with his family and he wont be getting the message for a while now. I'm scared he's going to think to hard and this is going to end badly. He says that he loves me and no fight is going to change that. I'm scared, what should I do?
If he loves you as much as he says he does then you have absolutely nothing to worry about, this boy really likes you. He just needs to know that you're in this together that's all, tell him you love him, daily, whenever you see him, be very affectionate. Just try your hardest, he'll realize that you're there for him.
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ok. so i have really bad bags u nder my eyes. tehre like practically like black. and they go far down. i tried cucumbers and wash cloths and the spoons. taht lightened them a little. like barely where you can notice. so how in the world do they go away!?!?!!??! cover up barely works. so what are some "cheap" products or other ways to get rid of them??? and fast
thanks
try preparation h underneath your eyes, it works really well
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I know this question isn't as important as most of these on here, but this bothers me! Ok, so there's this guy (haha classic opening line.) and we've kinda been talking and hanging out all summer, so uhm..yeah. let's just call him ian. So anyway, I was online tonight, and this guy who a long time told me he liked me (let's call him Charlie.) and he knows I don't like him, yet he told me to call him. Ok. One, I don't like him.& Two, I don't want to like you go behind ian's back or anything..not that we're going out. Charlie has talked to me before and told me to like meet him at Tacobell. (The only places to hang out around here are fast food restraunts, haha.) but you know I don't like him! and when he told me to call him, i told hima lie and said I couldn't. I really hate lying to people!! But I don't want to hurt his feelings and be like look charlie, I don't want to call you because I don't like you. and I don't feel like talking on the phone with you. I mean god I'm not a bitch! So does anyone know anyway I can get him to stop asking me to go places, without confronting him about it? and please, don't be rude.
Thank you so much!
Are you uncomfortable around him or anything like that?? Because if you are that could be part of the reason. But you could tell him, "Listen charlie, but I really am not... into you, if you know what I mean. I don't wanna be rude to you, but I really don't want to hang with you (and that's where the uncomfortable factor comes in)."
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my friend always tells me how everyone tells her shes sooo pretty. & like it gets annoying. & like im not jealous, because twice as many people tell me im pretty. so its not like im jealous. i just dont go around telling people, what other people say to me. like she does. so how can i make her stop?? besides saying like i dont care. bc i already tried that.. & well right now i just did & i can tell its turning into a fight. soo yahh
help?
When she starts to talk about it, say, "Listen I know you are a gorgeous girl, but when you tell me how people say it all the time, it gets a little..... annoying. Like I said before you are a gorgeous girl, but I like to have normal conversations without you telling me about somebody saying you're beautiful."
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I met my ex gf at church. She is three years younger than me and we dated for a year and a half. out of no where she broke up with me. i totally feel like a loser, she broke up with me in february and i am still not over her. now she is talking with some guy in new york which is across the country and it seems like everything i do to show her i love her he does better than me i am all out of ideas and i just want to quit. please help!
Right now, all you could do is show her support. That is a great way to show her you care, be there for her when she needs a shoulder to cry on or if this guy in New York breaks her heart. Give her advice when she needs help, send her flowers every once in a while just to let her know you're still there. Maybe one day she'll realize that you're there for her and she wants that.
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I have had a crush on a guy from the first day i met him. me and him were pretty good friends we hung out on the weekends and at recess at school but this was about in 1st grade and Im now in 10th grade. we have stayed close through the years but as you know when u get older you split apart. Well things have changed when I got into 5 grade are parents got married. so now he is my stepbro and I cant get over my crush towards him at all. Its weird because everyone knows I like him and says its wrong but within the last yr. things have changed between us we have gotten more sexual and Im realizing I want out of all of this. so how do I get out of these feelings?
Is there another boy you like at your school? If so, try going after him, it might take your mind off your stepbrother. Or try doing more activities away from your house. Anything to keep your mind off him. In the summer try to hang out with friends at their houses more often. During school, try out for sports or after school activities.
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ok. i really like this kid.
& like i dont think he likes me.. but idno.. i wanna see what other people think
At this party..everyone screamed JACIS HERE! (thats me)
& my one friend, told me that the kid i like, got a really big smile on his face & looked at me & then looked down.
& then he was really shy around me.
like he'd talk to every girl but me.
(which i thought was bad but idno)
at this big dance..
all of his baseball friends were like..
are you jaci? do you like colin? or theyd just go are you jaci? & then smile at the kid i like, & he would just look down.
everyone said he looked over at me when i would be on rides or something & watch me.
& then at this like baseball field..
he was with this one kid.. & they kept whispering & the kid i like, would just say sshh shut up , she might hear you.
& stuff like that.
so do you think he likes me?
or no?
& if he does.. how can i make him tell me or something? without telling him i like him?
He likes you, no doubt. In order to get him to admit it to you, you have to tell him you like him first. He's shy and he doesn't know if you like him. He's scared to tell you because he doesn't know how you'll react. Just make the first move, you'll see.
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ughhh!!! im so sick of this. Ok well im soooo scared to say i love u too lets call him..T well hes well out he, had to fly and i hate when people really close to me fly and well i get so nervous until i hear from them again and i justheard from him like a min. ago. i was relieved but well im sad,scared,nervous,and sick if you know what i mean! but ever scnce friday before T left i wanted to you know say it before we got off the phone i would get so nervous and crap like that. but well i talk to my mom she said tell him i talked to my brother who had experience he said he doesnt love you back dont say it. Ok ive been told by ppl on this site to say it but for some reason i just cant i cant seem to get the stupid words out.!!! there is always like a hesitation or a quick bye before we get off, maybe its just me but im pretty sure its not! idont know what to do im like going to cry. im so confused and hurt and i hate it!! im so sick of it!!! please tell me what i should do!!
You're not ready to say it. Your brain is telling you to but your feelings say otherwise. Don't force yourself to do something you're not ready for, you're just.... caught up. You have mixed feelings and you're not quite sure what to do, give it time.
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Okay well, in the past I have had a good amount of boyfriends. Im turning 16 and I have had about 6. I dunno seems like a fair amount. Anyway, in the beggining of my relationships everything is great, I usually like them a lot and everything is just... well great! but then I lose interest in the guy and it usually occurs the second week of dating. And I quickly try and avoid the "boyfriend" at school or say i am busy for dates because I feel uncomfortable, like I dont understand! They do not do anything wrong and they are great people it's just weird. Although my last boyfriend and I lasted 3 months and I only started getting that feeling the 2nd month (I know i am horrible at breaking up with guys and I really wanted to make it work so I kept telling myself you like him a lot dont break up with him, wait it out, but whatever that was a failure) it feels like I am never going to find a soulmate that it right for me cuz then I will get a stupid funny feeling saying oh no you dont like him, break up, run away! It's harder than what it seems. And I am actually really scared because how am I supposed to fall in love and have kids and get a husband!?!?! :( this is like something i am terrified of and have been terrified of for a long time. Help please =/
I think the problem is that your brain tells you, you like him, but you really don't. That's why you get that uncomfortable feeling. You don't feel like you should be with him, I'm sure that as soon as you really find your soulmate you'll know. You won't get that uncomfortable feeling.
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i met this guy ages ago through a friend on msn...hes really nice and everything but i want to start flirting with him, as i really like him and he really like me..but the problem is i dont no how to! does anyone have any tips?
thanx a lot xxx
Play 20 questions, make the kissy face smiley at him. Joke around a lot, in a cute way. A lot of the time, you may be flirting but you just don't know it.
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is it normal for you to not have your period on time? normaly my period is always on time. what's wrong with me?
p.s i haven't had sex
You have nothing to worry about if you haven't had sex. But expect it real soon, so be ready. It may not come on the exact time you are expecting it to but don't think it won't come soon afterwards.
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i am a girl 14 and i like my neighbor who is 15 and i told him how i felt but he never said anything bac from then on it was really awkward between us but now i have been seein him more and he has become so much nicer he even IM's me now he go's to all my softball games and all that but i still don't know if he likes me or not he never told me what should i do?
He's coming around. He's excepting the fact that you like him. He was probably a little shocked at first because he probably likes you, but never had the nerve to tell you. Just be nice to him like you always are. If he does like you I'm sure he'll come out and tell you when he's ready. But that doesn't mean that it will be tomorrow. It could take a long time.
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I was wondering how to get a fingerprint off my U.M.D disc for my PSP. I tried Class cleaner i tried everything !please help!
toothpaste works, I use it all the time
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I'm fifteen years old and I seriously need some money. I have to pay my parents back for buying a chihuahua for me. I don't want to work in fast food like my parents want me to, so my question is if anyone knows of some good places that will hire me. I was considering working at a tanning salon called "Tanland" but I heard you have to be at least sixteen to work in a tanning salon. Is this true?
Thanks.
You might want to try working in a grocery store or a wal-mart or something. I have friends who work at race tracks and resturaunts stuff like that.
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help me
what do you need help with?
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my best friend just told me shes bi. i always kind of thought that because she always tries stuff with me and our friends. it makes us uncomfortable and we always tell her to stop. but now she told me that me and another one of our friends turned her bi...and its creeping me out. i dont want to be a bad friend and stop talking to her, especially because we have to spend the next week together at camp, but after that i'm probably going to hang out with her less. i'm not trying to be rude and judge her, but that just really freaks me out. please dont tell me i am being a bad friend, because thats not what im asking. i need to no how i can make it seem less weird when im around her for the next week at camp, and how i can not talk to her as much after camp without it being obvious that the reason is because she is bi. and also my whole family thinks shes annoying and i do too, and although she is one of my best friends i have always thought about maybe trying to make more friends in high school next year and not really talking to her that much anymore. so it wouldnt be a big deal if we werent as great of friends i think. sorry if that sounds mean. but please help me!!! thanks. btw im 14/f
Well, did you try explaining to her that you're uncomfortable around her? If not you might want to try. I'm sure she'll respect your space and won't try any "new things" with you and your other friends. If you really want to be around her less next year, try making new friends and gradually week by week hang out with her less. If she notices, tell her you're just trying to get to know your new friends better.
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