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i scared this is gonna end badly
Me and my boyfriend have been together for two months now. We are really good together and we really love eachother. Last night i was talking with one of my ex boyfriends. He's a huge pervert and is always telling me to take my clothes off. I told my boyfriend and he seemed really mad, so i asked him. I go, Dan are you mad? He says, no i just love when guys say perverted stuff to my girlfriend. So me and dan got into a huge arguement I said sorry several times and at the end he said apology excepted. I left him a message on myspace saying how sorry i was and that i love him. He wanted to see what my ex was saying to me, but i refused to show him. He got mad at that also. I don't want him to say or do anything to my ex. I blocked my ex and i told Dan im not going to talk to him anymore. Which Im not going to. Dan is out today with his family and he wont be getting the message for a while now. I'm scared he's going to think to hard and this is going to end badly. He says that he loves me and no fight is going to change that. I'm scared, what should I do?
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If you and your boyfriend are so good together he should understand that you and your ex are over, and that you don't love him anymore. You should also show your ex how rude it is that he talks to you that way, and if he really wants to stay friends he'll understand. And with your boyfriend you can show him the conversation, but try to convince him that you can handle it and that everything will be okay, don't apologize too much because you don't wanna beg, just give him time, if he loves you, he'll come around.
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if he really means that than he'l relize that you love him and you wouldnt do anything to hert him.
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First of all,WHY are you talking to your ex when you and your boyfreind have a beautiful relationship???HES YOUR EX,which means things between you and him are OVER and they will be over with you and your boyfreind if you keep talking to your ex.You would probably get jealous if your boyfreind was talking to HIS perverted ex,wouldnt you?You know this guys perverted,then why do you talk to him?Dont answer his calls anymore.And you telling your boyfreind not to do anything to your ex will make him feel all like"oh,so you care more about him now huh"And another impotant thing i have to say is NEVER promise a guy you love something and break that promise,youll break his heart.Im sure itll break yours if he did to you whhat youre doing to him.You guys are in a relationship which means honesty and dedication.Dont make promises you cant keep or youll find yourselves broken up faster than ever.
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Hey-
Its normal for couples to fight... so everything should be fine between you.. If he continuously tell you he loves you.. he most likely means it.. so he probably won't break up with you...
If you are really nervous.. try to contact him.. if he has a cell phone- call him and tell him what you said in your comment... if he doesn't have his cell- try calling his parents' cell phone (if you happen to know their numbers)...
Just try not to stress yourself out- or it might actually end up badly...
Hope I helped..
Let me know how it goes!
--Jack
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If he loves you as much as he says he does then you have absolutely nothing to worry about, this boy really likes you. He just needs to know that you're in this together that's all, tell him you love him, daily, whenever you see him, be very affectionate. Just try your hardest, he'll realize that you're there for him.
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