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The Boyfriend Blues
Okay well, in the past I have had a good amount of boyfriends. Im turning 16 and I have had about 6. I dunno seems like a fair amount. Anyway, in the beggining of my relationships everything is great, I usually like them a lot and everything is just... well great! but then I lose interest in the guy and it usually occurs the second week of dating. And I quickly try and avoid the "boyfriend" at school or say i am busy for dates because I feel uncomfortable, like I dont understand! They do not do anything wrong and they are great people it's just weird. Although my last boyfriend and I lasted 3 months and I only started getting that feeling the 2nd month (I know i am horrible at breaking up with guys and I really wanted to make it work so I kept telling myself you like him a lot dont break up with him, wait it out, but whatever that was a failure) it feels like I am never going to find a soulmate that it right for me cuz then I will get a stupid funny feeling saying oh no you dont like him, break up, run away! It's harder than what it seems. And I am actually really scared because how am I supposed to fall in love and have kids and get a husband!?!?! :( this is like something i am terrified of and have been terrified of for a long time. Help please =/
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Well, honestly, I wouldn't be scared. You said you were 16, which gives you AMPLE time to figure things out. You're young and probably just like to play the field... You don't like being tied down to one person, or at least that's what it seems like. If you like someone, give them a chance, but don't bring their hopes up that you will be with them for a long time. Just explain to them how you feel if you don't like them any more and move on... just be gentle. And don't worry about Marriage or kids... At the VERY least I would say you have AT LEAST 3 years or more before you even need to begin thinking about that kind of thing. So just calm down, relax, and enjoy yourself for the time being!
~Savanna
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I think the problem is that your brain tells you, you like him, but you really don't. That's why you get that uncomfortable feeling. You don't feel like you should be with him, I'm sure that as soon as you really find your soulmate you'll know. You won't get that uncomfortable feeling.
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