My ex and i have decided to get back together, the only problem is, is that my mom can't stand him. My mom is so pissed and upset at him for breaking up with me the first time and she says she can't trust him! I don't know what to do! How can I convince my mom?
caramella answered Friday July 14 2006, 1:43 pm: no offence but if you want the truth i think if its mom vs ex boyfreind then definetly mom wins because this dude broke up with you be4 and your mom knows better and is more experienced so i think you should have a long talk with your mom about why she dont like him and im sure your mom just wants to save you the heartbreak cuz this dude broke it be4 [ caramella's advice column | Ask caramella A Question ]
Birdfrog answered Friday July 14 2006, 1:28 pm: Tell your mother that it isn't her decision who you date. Say mom you aren't the one he's dating I am. Say if you love if it is a mistake you have to let men learn...
hershikissescanhelp answered Friday July 14 2006, 1:04 pm: to start off with: if you can trust him NOT to hurt you again, then it'll be alright.
then you should invite him over to dinner. therefore, when your mom is there, she will be able to see how much he has changed and probably trust him again. if not, then explain to your mom how much he means to you ,and how much he's worth holding on to.
if you want to take my advice tell me how it goes after. mail me something in my inbox. if you have any more questions..
gLiTzxNdxgLaMoUr answered Friday July 14 2006, 12:56 pm: I hate to say this, but usually mom's are right about these things... do you think that he had a good enough reason to break up with you the first time? if he did, try telling your mom that things are different, and that people deserve second chances
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