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Should I ask him?
I've had a crush on a boy since I was in third grade. Now I am going into sixth when school starts again. I asked him out in fourth grade and he said "Yes I will go out with you." Everyone found out thou. A month later he came up to me and said "You know we are just friends." Then I would say "Ya, I know."
I love him not like him. He is a christain (And I am supposed to marry a christain). And I was going to go up to him and say," Why did you say we were just friends when we were going out and if it is because everyone knew then we can go back out starting now and no one has to know.
But I don't know if I should.
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hey this guy "Alpha345" is sooo right you are waaay to young my sisters in the 7th grade and if she had ever said she was goin to date a guy i wouldve dropped hell on here ...love isnt something you can say and not feel its not like saying "i hate you" it means much more know the meaning of a word befor using it...im 15 and i will never date a guy yet at all i find useless you usually brakeup and get your heart broken wait till your in an mature age...
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Jeez, how the hell young are kids getting to begin their relationships? Freund discribed interaction at a young age, but this is ridiculous.
I will clarify some things for you.
*He is young and so are you, any relationship at that level will end in hurt, hands down.
*You don't love him. Love to someone who is only in the sixth grade isn't love, you only know love to your family, and to no one else at this point, despite what you think.
*Don't bother "dating" until one or two years from now. Then the age level is a bit more appropriate. I mean...half the kids in your class havn't even hit puberty yet...
I rest my case, leave it be for now and just be friends until you are old enough to grasp the concept of a relationship better.
-Ryan
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First off, why on earth would you ask out a guy in 4th grade? I mean come on! And also, when you go out with someone, everyone will know, duh. So if you aren`t ready for people to know then you aren`t ready for a relationship which is obvious since your 11 or 12. NOT 13. I hope your column gets deleted. So don`t ask him again because if he remotely liked you he wouldn`t say you were just friends.
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You should say something. For sure. think of the 2 sides. if you did, he could say yes. and you'll be happy and all, or he could say no, and then you'll know. Side 2 is that you say nothing and ponder it for a very long time wondering if something would have happened if you had sais something. You choose which you would prefer.
My only warning to you is to be careful. Being the age you are(which can't be 13, but anyhow), children at that age can be very hurtful. Peers are very pressuring, and you could have things go in a totally wrong way if you don't watch what you say. Think about what you are going to say, plan it out, and rehearse it. Look fab, and go for it!
If you ever have any other questions, I would be happy to answer. Just drop one off in my box :)
-DD
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Of course you should ask him, just don't ask him that because he might like take if offensivly or something. What I would do is just ask him why he said you were friends, and if he gives you a reason just be like oh well we can change it by *blah blah blah*. Do you hang out and talk with him a lot? It might be kind of weird if you just randomly ask him out..try to like get to know him a little better like talk on the phone with him and go to places in groups of people but have him be there.
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