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Hi guys! My name is Ally and I'm 14. My first name rhymes with my last name. I am full on italian and proud.I love making people laugh, and I hate war & fighting. I also hate bullies because they think they're so much better then everyone else. I love to sing, act, and dance, which is why I want to be on Broadway when I grow up :). I am a unique person, i put my own clothes together, and I don't really have a style,I hate being like everyone else. I hate cocky guys, and guys who make fun of girls that aren't pretty. My favorite band is O.A.R. and Ben Folds Five. I love the keyboard. That's about all you need to know about me :P.
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I have a friend who likes this girl as more than a friend. And she knows it, but she just would rather prefer being friends.Now he is deciding to totally ignore her. Why can't guys just be friends even if they have feeling. I mean if he really liked her he would want her to be happy right?
hun, that's only in the movies. Do you know how hard it is to be friends with someone you like? It's like looking at them every single day and thinking "god you are so beautiful, I just want to rap you in my arms." It's hard for him because he;s probably a. embarressed and b. hurt. Give him some credit, it;s hard enough to admit you like someone, and even harder for them to get rejected by that someone.
OKay, so about....3 or four weeks ago i slept with a guy...at a party. We used protection, and he didnt actually...'come'
but, ive now skipped my period...its like a week late and i am really worried i am pregnant. should i give it a few more days...or should i take a test and find out?
Also, if i am pregnant...what can i do? do abortions cost money?
thank you so much for your help
OH MY GOD. first off it's cum not come. second if you used protection and he didn't cum then I highly doubt your pregnant. My period will come the first week of september and won't come agian till like the last week of october. calm down. And if you ever get an abortion then you have no heart what so ever. That's like killing someone who hasn't even gotten the chance to experience life yet. Do you want to happen? Sorry if I'm being mean.
i skipped once now i can't stop! its an evil circle! and now i can't get a way!
i skipped school because i had a test i hadn't studied for that day, and then it kept going from there, i skip whenever there's a test, which means i miss what they teach us in school, which makes me skip the next test because i dont have enough info to make it, and now im stuck in this circle! i cant go back,cause theres too many hw's i havn't done, but the more i skip, the more i miss, and the more homework i have to do, and my grades! goshh im too afriad to think about because ill start crying, and nother thing! = where i live.. the system is... the more absence you have, the less they pay your parents - they are gonna kill me when they get they paychecks! i know my grades are falling apart, and im messing up stuff for my parents are for my family.. BUT I DONT KNOW WHERE TO START!? what homework to do? how to do it when i cant get any help from anyone since i cant go to class to ask for help withh the next hw cause i havnt given in the last one.. am i making any sense??? I NEED HELP - DESPREATLELY- PLEAASSE!
It's not an evil circle. Your jsut scared to get a bad grade. There was a test I didn't study for and I didn't chicken out and skip school I took the test because i had dignity. Yes I admit I got 27 wrong out of 40. But hey buddy, there's a thing called retakes and extra credit. You need to stop chickening out and get your butt in school before you flunk every single subject and cant get into college. I'm sorry if I'm being mean.
Well, my two best friends & I went & got our cartlidges pierced two weeks ago. Today I chanqed mine, I cleaned it & put a different one in. Then I felt a bump on the back of it. I`m wondering is it a assist ? my step mom had hers pierced & said that the second week hers hurt alot [mine doesnt] but there was a bump on the back & it was a assist & she had to let it close up. im scared it is, can you tell me if it is or what it could be ?
Two weeks? I changed mine after two months, and the lady in claire's told me to change after 3 months! Don't change it so quickly, you have to let it stay in for a while so the hole can adjust to the earing. Whatever you do don't feel the bump on your ear. If it starts hurting go see the doctor. For now, if you have time, go back to see the person that pierced your ear and ask them what happened.
what is the best program for downloading music?
IF YOU HAVE AN IPOD- DO NOT USE BEARSHARE OR LIMEWIRE! They messed up my ipod twiceee. And thy cause harmful shit to your computer. You could use limewire pro, and you'd only have to pay for the program, not for all the music. If you do do that, make sure you get someone from like geek squad to hook it up. You could always get your music from the internet. That's teh safest way I think just right click the song you want and like download the file, and the open the file with itunes. Too confusing? Comment me back and I'll give you a more detailed explanation.
Ok. This might be a bit long but please, read.
Since I was so stupid, I decided to SHAVE my eyebrows instead of plucking. So now I'm stuck with little hairs poking around my eyebrows. Then I continued to shave the little hairs and it just looks terrible. So then I started plucking the little hairs like I was supposed to. But my question(s) are these:
How can I make it so it doesn't hurt so badly?
And, when I shaved them, I did them totally wrong and small and they gah. It's just so bad.
How can I get them to look good and thin?
Thanks. :(
Hm..for a way to not make it hurt so badly is by doing it right after you come out of the shower..and you really shouldn't pluck unless you have some idea of the shape you want for your eyebrows.
I, myself, has had a E.E.P. (Embarressing Eyebrow Problem. Yes, so many people have had it that scientests have decided to name it. no, I'm just kidding haha.) I use to just pull the hairs out. It was habitual. (I love saying that because it has the word bitch in it.) And it looked horribe! But the grew back, I got them waxed, and my friends (girls, haha.) go "Ally, I love your eyebrows!" Seriously!! So what I think you should do is let the ones that are all tiny grow back,and then go get your eyebrows waxed, honest to god, it hurts way less then plucking, and the first time it's gonna hurt, but after awhile you get use to it and the hairs will stop coming in as fast. You could go to your hairdresser or your mom's hairdresser or something? They probably do waxing too.
Well good luck on your journey, and if you have any more questions, please feel free to ask.
Anybody got any suggestions on how to quit smoking? I've been doing it since I was 15 and I'm 24 now. I smoke a pack a day and I really want to quit. I'm trying to get pregnant so I know I need to and now's the time. Cold Turkey didnt work for me even though that may be the best way to go. It seems like I'll quit for a day or so then something I consider to be "hectic" happens and I feel like I cant concentrate or fix whatever problem I'm having until I smoke. All idea's would be helpful and I'll definatly take into consideration. Thanks.
First, stop buying them (Obviously.) But, like tryr to fill the time when you use to smoke by doing something else. Like chewing gum (Nicotine gum, perhaps?) or eating sunflower seeds. Something else to get hooked on, ya know?
http://www.givingupsmoking.co.uk/how_to_give_up/
^^There's more then enough ways there.
Seriously, good luck.
YOu should be proud for doing this.
i tryed popping a pimple in between my eyebrows last night and i succeeded but...... i must of squeezed for too hard and too long and now there is this light red blotch (kind of big) and i have had these before and they turn into big scabs , is there anything i can put onn it to make it not turn into a scab?
The reason they're scabbing is because your popping them..when I use to pop mine, they would get all red and like that too, if you can popping and picking them, tghere gonna turn into scars on your face for the rest of your life. it happened to my mom. Try not popping them, just wash your face everyday, and put some cream on it.
I hate even having to say this because one thing I'm terrified of is sounding self centered. My friends and people I don't even know tell me I have a good voice. I love to sing and I think it's what I want to do with my life. Alright, I admit I'm okay. But does anyone know how I can get involved in the music business or have a number I can call or anything? Thanks =]
Yeah, like the girl below me, talent scouts come to like showings of musicals and concerts and things. I LOVE singing, too. But I'm waiting to graduate college and stuff, I'm not saying youshould do that, because people aren't just going to take you if you have a good voice. You have to know how to sing correctly, and you have to have experience meaning you had to have other gigs and/or gone to a performing arts school. I mean, if your voice is like AMAZING like christina aguileras, then they probably wil take you, haha. If your old enough, you could do american idol? Or americas got talent? The first thing your going to need is an agent, and I suggest looking online for those?
Anyway,
good luck!
I was thinking about using hydroxycut , my boyfriend who is 17 & never used it told me that it makes you not hungry. & then i told him that it's basically like starving yourself then, and he said no, and then he said something else. I'm only 15 & i'm 5'0, 130 pounds. The problems i have on my body is my stomach , sides, waist, and thighs. I would like to lose weight in those areas before august 13 ... so my questions are...
does it work?
& if so will i get good results by august 13th?
Is it basically like starving yourself?
Can i walk by sweets and not crave them?
& if i get it what food should i eat?
thnx in advance and i'm really sorry it's long.
ANYTHiNG Will help....
&heart's; kayla
NO.not at all. do NOT listen to your boyfriend. it's so STUPID! if you really want to loose weight, don't sit here typing about it, go WORK OUT! JOG! DANCE! DO DDR! anything. but that IS starving yourself. Please, don't do it.
i'm not sure this is in the right category, but i couldn't find anything that art might fit in.
anyways.
i'm starting to do pen && ink drawings,
and i'm wondering if anybody knows any good sites i can find pen && ink drawings in.
like, something kinda easy, not too detailed, but pretty at the same time.
so, yea.
thanks in advance.
Ok please don't rate me bad if I don't give you the right answer, because I don;t really understand your question..do you want a site where you can buy pen and ink stuff? Or do you want to pen and ink draw online? if you want the second one, there's a site you can go to, but i mean it's all paintings, it's not just pen and ink, but you can just do pen and ink iif you wanted to.
http://artpad.art.com/artpad/painter/
oh god sorry if I've given you a website that has nothing to do with what you asked for. :/
Hello; I'm 14 and I have no money.
I need a job since my parents don't provide me with enough money to get food when I am out.
I need to know what kinds of jobs besides baby sitting I can get at 14.
Hm..well there's lifeguarding, I mean not actual life guarding but like working at the pool. and what I'm doing when I turn 14 (5 Days! I'm so exccited! haha sorry.) Is helping out at this retirement center. YTou could dog/cat sit. People surprisingly pay a lot of money for that. You could like watch your friends dog while they go on vacation or something. I watched a dog for 2 days and got $24! I was so excited!! haha! And it really depends on where you live because I know this girl whose 14 and she lives somewhere out west (I'm on the east coast, northern virginia.) and she works at an amusement park! so you really just have to look around and ask around. Good Luck with getting some money!
14/f..
ok. things that make it seem like this kid likes me:
-when he says hi, he blushes & then looks down
-he looks at me a whole lot.
-he always smiles at me
-all of his friends, ask if i'm jaci.. [ thats my name]
-at this party, everyone screamed, JACIS HERE!
& my one friend said, that he looked over at me smiled & then looked down
-hes really shy around me..bc he talked to all the other girls=/ is that bad?
-at this fair..everyone said he'd watch me wherever i went & followed me around.
-at this baseball field.. his friends kept looking at me & so did his brother & theyd smile at me, & then i could hear the kid i like say "shh shut up, she might hear you"
-9 people are like positive he likes me.
& stuff like that.
The one bad thing, that i think he doesnt like me..
some kid asked if he liked me.. & he said, "hell no" really quick. but, my like best friend, which is guy, is like "he probaly just said that, because he doesnt want anyone to know because hes afraid you dont like him back"
do you agree with what my best friend thats a guy said? or no?
do you think he likes me?
or is it pretty obvious, he hates me?
should i ask him.. if he does? or something? like what should i do.. HELP.
Hm.. The person below me is totally right. He TOTALLY likes you. As for asking him, don't ask him first off, you should like flirt with him a little bit like at school or soemthing. You say that he and you are always at the same parties, fairs, baseball games. Well just suck it up, walk over to him, and just hang with him the whole time. And then, you can like invite him to go to the next thing together (Thing as in like next event where all the kids go.) If thing are going really well, then ask for his phone number. But don't like randomly ask for it, you should casually say it. Like "Oh, I don't know ig I can go to the party tonight, I'll have to call you back. what's you number?" And then pretty soon, just like call him for no apparent reason and then you guys just like talk. I once liked a guy who was totally shy, at first it was really annoying because I had to do all the flirting and the calling, but he finally warmed up and it was fine. So he will eventually warm up to you. It might take a while, but he will.
Seriously, GOOD LUCK!
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I'm watching my friends kitten from saturday to wednesday. I'm going to have to keep it at MY house. I have to feed it, play with it, and all that stuff. How much should I charge?
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k Hi again..well I actually watched frankie (The dog.) Overnight, but he didn't get picked up till like 5:00 pm so it was basically two days. I got $24. It was kind of surprising to me but I guess that's how much they thought it should be. Now, since it's a kitten, it might be a little less becuse you don'[t have to take them for a walk and stuff.I'd say maybe like $5 or $10 dollars a day. Good Luck!
heyy,
does anyone have any ideas on how I can display/organize all my jewlery such as bracelets, long and short necklaces and short and long earrings...
thankss
OMG HI best answer right here don't look anywhere else.
Ok, I don't know if they have it where you live (I'm from northern virginia.) But, in claire's there is this thing (I found it in like, the back haha so you really have to look for it. Don't ask the employees cause honest to god truth is they dont know where anything is. I learned that the hard way.) anyways, there is this thing and like it's a little 6 by 4 inch mirror, and then under the mirror is like a bunch of holes (To put your earings in.) and then there are like 10 hooks to hang your necklaces and bracelts on. In the back, there is a little lace so you can just like put a thumbtack in the wall and hang the lace on it so there are no hammers and nails involved. It took me a while to actually find it, but once you get it, it looks soo cute! Good Luck!
Ok well I'm getting 2 teeth pulled out tomorrow, because they grew in sideways. And it's not like a normal dentist visit, it's kinda a surgery. So they said I had to drink CLEAR LIQUIDS only the whole day. (Clear- not meaning see-through, but like no milk, kinda like a watery substance) All I can think of is Koolaid & Tea.... Can someone else help me think of something? (I need to know tonight, because I am getting the surgery done tomorrow at 6:00 AM)
Hm.. broth from like chicken noodle soup or something? That's really good for you. uhm.. what else...what about the HI-C juicce boxes? I would have made my answer sound more professional, but it looks like your in a hurry. (Good Luck with the operation!)
I'm 13/f
For some reason I have a lot of trouble going to sleep at night. Since my dad is a doctor, he could easily call in a prescription for some mild sleeping medication, but both he and my mom don't think I should be taking anything like that. My mom does give me something VERY mild called melatonin, but once I stop using it I still can't go to sleep. I'm getting worried because school is starting soon and I won't be able to go to sleep early enough to get 8 hours. Does anyone have any advice on techniques I could use to help me get sleepy and then be able to fall asleep? Thanks!
It's totally disgusting ( And I totally got this from the show 'Three's Company'.) but it works. Pour a glass of milk and then put it in the microwave for like 7 seconds or so. A nice glass of warm milk should do the trick. Another thing I do is just imagine like a professor or teacher counting down and writing the numbers on a chalkboard, but slowly. (
my lips are so small and so is my mouth and kinda my teeth! lol and well im 16/f and i hate my smile because my lips are small and my mouth which makes my smile really ugly and like really unopen if you know what i mean?! is there anything i can do to make my lips look any bigger without having to put like loads of lisptick or lipliner on because i dont wear any of that just lipgloss!
First off, there is a type of lipgloss that is called like plumping and it's specifically made to make your lips bigger..you can get that at like bath and body works (If you have that near you.) If you have shiny lip gloss, pput it in the middle of your lips and that makes it look big. You can also try putting clove oil on your lips. Keep pressing your lips and that should work.
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What's an easy way to make shoulder length hair with kinda not really there long layers and bangs look messy-ish?
Hm.. well right when you get out of the shower, put gel in it, and then put it up in a messy bun on the top of your head. And then like 30 minutes later take it out and it should look a little messy..
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Okay, im not so sure if the catagory is right...but n e ways, i see you are rated high, so, yeah
Okay, so, i am 14, and there is this guy who just turned 16
we have made out twice, and i think he is much more experienced them me, so i have considered having sex with him, and maybe oral.
but, im nervous it will hurt, or he will say im bad
He hasnt said he wants to have sex with me, or oral, but he has hinted like "hey, you wanna go lay down over there?"
and then once he said "just so you know, i dont want to get in your pants, i just want you in mine"
and stuff like that
a bunch of my friends are calling me a slut for even thinking about it...
i have friends having sex, and giving guys blowjobs,
but my question is; will i be a slut if i do?
i know its long...but yeah...
There are many definations of slut. I'm not saying you are but I'm not saying you're not.
You shouldn't let him intimidate you. Don't let him pressure you into things you don't want to do. DOn't have sex just because it's the summer and you're playing a game. Now, I've never had sex but I'm 100% sure that you will totally know when it feels right. If you are 100% sure that you want to have sex with this guy, don't be afraid of what he might say afterwards. I'm probably sure he won't say you were bad. (Unless he's a huge butthead.) If he does, screw him. I mean why would you let his opinion impact you so much? He's just a random kid. It probably wil hurt for the first time. But, if you're not afraid, before you start ask him to just take it easy. If he is a true gentlemen, he should respect your wishes.
As for your friends, I mean what do they know you know? The most trouble they've had in they're life is probably something stupid. They should respect what you want to do. If they don't, then they're not really your friends.
Just remember that you will always have one best friend that will totally be there for you no matter what decision you make.
Wow..this took me a while..I hope it helped.
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