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I have a friend who likes this girl as more than a friend. And she knows it, but she just would rather prefer being friends.Now he is deciding to totally ignore her. Why can't guys just be friends even if they have feeling. I mean if he really liked her he would want her to be happy right?
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they feel that things may get weird.. see whenever they hangout with that girl they will always remember its the girl they can't have. believe i know a lot of my guy friends who had crushes on me.. its tough.. but in the end it works out. sometimes.. boys will be friends after a long period time so they can get overr them.. just give him time!
-Bess
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Theres one simple answer to this
HES A GUY!!
if they dont get everything they want then they pretty much ignore you unless youre going to confront him about it theres really nothing you can do
thts the problem wit guys lol :(
kim
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well in my thoughts, its that since she knows he like her and everything, that would awalys just make things awkard sp? and stuff, and plus for when she does date someone els, it will be hard and might even hurt him to watch her like that
well hope i helped ♥
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I know this will sound out there, but he only likes the IDEA of her. What I mean by this is he got some idea in his head how the relationship was to develop. In his perception she was as infatuated w/him as he was w/her. He became convinced of his delusion of a mutual admiration. When his perception of how their relationship was to develop was met w/the reality of her true feelings he was embarrassed. He put himself out there and was told she wasn't interested in him in that way. His ego couldn't handle it. That's ashamed too, because there have been many long lasting true love relationships that started off by just being friends. If he had reacted more accepting of where she is right now she may have taken a second look and spent more time w/him. She may have thought there was more to this guy than she thought. As it stands she probably thinks, yea, I was right, there is not much there to appreciate if he's going to act that way. I mean, if he truly liked her for her then he wouldn't ignore her. He'd be patient and continue to be her friend. You can't get someone to like you by ignoring them. The fact that he's put conditions on how it is suppose to look for him to like her shows me he didn't like HER in the first place. He just liked something she could do for him like...he'd look good having her as a girlfriend, she knows people he wants to know, she belongs to organizations that he wants to belong to, etc. The list goes on an on. People get hooked on the craziest things. I know a guy who thought he was in love because the girl has hair that was down to her ankles. He loved the hair, but not her. It could be something like that. You can't really know what it was he had focused on but it was a superficial "like" of her not a true "like" of her that he was about.
Namaste!
LULABELLE
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hun, that's only in the movies. Do you know how hard it is to be friends with someone you like? It's like looking at them every single day and thinking "god you are so beautiful, I just want to rap you in my arms." It's hard for him because he;s probably a. embarressed and b. hurt. Give him some credit, it;s hard enough to admit you like someone, and even harder for them to get rejected by that someone.
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Just give him some time. His feelings are hurt right now. He may even be feeling a little embarrassed because she doesn't feel the same. He will get over it. :)
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