OKay, so about....3 or four weeks ago i slept with a guy...at a party. We used protection, and he didnt actually...'come'
but, ive now skipped my period...its like a week late and i am really worried i am pregnant. should i give it a few more days...or should i take a test and find out?
Also, if i am pregnant...what can i do? do abortions cost money?
thank you so much for your help
SugarMix01 answered Saturday October 7 2006, 11:30 pm: Usually if you miss 2,3, or 4 periods you could be pregante. It cost alot of money to get an abortion. You should buy a accuate pregantcy test. If you are pregante you should talk to an adult or someone you feel comfotable with. Go online and search stuff up. [ SugarMix01's advice column | Ask SugarMix01 A Question ]
ShaunyD answered Saturday October 7 2006, 7:11 pm: What is this? This person asked for advice not for your views on abortion or how "imature" people spell cum.
In awnser to your question I'd recomend having a test just to be sure, but as someone else has already said being stressed and such can (and does) cause your periods to be late. Chances are you aren't pregent as long as you used the protection properlly.
If you are pregnent what can you do? Well you either have the child, put it up for adoption or get an abortion, thats about all your options.
If it gets that far (I stress IF) you need to see someone from a family planning clinic and decide on the next step. And yes they can arange abortions which don't cost anything (at least here in the UK they can).
Sorry if I sound blunt and harsh but I felt no one else really gave you awnsers you were looking for and most just tried to force their views on abortion on you.
karlyndarlin05 answered Wednesday October 4 2006, 9:51 pm: ok to start off im going to tell you to not listen to any one and decide what you want as far as abortions and what not. i dont believe in them...but i can understand why you might want one...so im not going to say anything to try and change your mind.
sexy_rexy answered Sunday October 1 2006, 11:26 pm: If you used protection and he didn't cum (Yes, it's C-U-M, not C-O-M-E!!!! How old are you?!) then it's a really, really low chance that you are pregnant. Most girls find if they are stressed they'll get a late period so I'd say you're just worried which is making you late. I don't believe in abortion, please don't ever consider it. [ sexy_rexy's advice column | Ask sexy_rexy A Question ]
Exquisitechick answered Sunday October 1 2006, 11:19 pm: Youre 98% NOT pregnant. But, if youre worried about it then take a test. Dont get an abortion, you will regret it for the rest of youre life and you'll think about it constantly. Just take a test, and go from there.
babiigirl answered Sunday October 1 2006, 9:55 pm: I dont believe in abortions at all so sorry if abuot to sound like a bitch. First off if you have sex you have to except any of the consequences. And pregnancy just happens to be one of them. You sounds really young because you did not ask this question as if an Young adult would have and you used "come" instead of "cum" or any other proper word.
i wouldnt worry about being pregnant just yet. Wait about another week then take a pregnancy test to see if you are actually pregnant. if so i beg you to seek other options. There are so many women and families that would love to have a child. So if you are consider putting the child up for adoption.
sizzlinmandolin answered Sunday October 1 2006, 9:09 pm: It's very unlikely that you are pregnant. There are many reasons why you may have missed your period other than pregnancy. Take a home pregnancy test to set your mind at ease. Don't start worrying about abortions before you even know whether you are pregnant or not. One step at a time. Good luck. :) [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
LoveToLaugh37 answered Sunday October 1 2006, 8:12 pm: OH MY GOD. first off it's cum not come. second if you used protection and he didn't cum then I highly doubt your pregnant. My period will come the first week of september and won't come agian till like the last week of october. calm down. And if you ever get an abortion then you have no heart what so ever. That's like killing someone who hasn't even gotten the chance to experience life yet. Do you want to happen? Sorry if I'm being mean. [ LoveToLaugh37's advice column | Ask LoveToLaugh37 A Question ]
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