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Last Update: June 13, 2007
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16/f
well my best friend is a guy. we hang out a lot alone because we've been friends for so long. well he came over today, my parents are out of town for the weekend, and we were in my room talking and such. there was an awkward moment where it was silent and we kissed. just a long kiss. then we stopped and stared at each other for a second.. then i basically threw him onto my bed and we made out for a while. i'm a virgin but he did it with his ex. so i don't know what came over me it was sort of like a movie scene. we just started taking each other's clothes off and before i knew it we were having sex. well i loved it and um, he's a guy so duh, but after we were done and just laying there i started to regret it a little. i love him but he is my best friend. i never thought of him romantically, but now i just don't know. it really complicated things. he put on his clothes after a little and i said you should go. so i just kissed him goodbye. i guess in that moment i felt really attracted to him and wasn't thinking straight. maybe this has been something that has always been there but i've never noticed it. now i don't know what to say to him or what to do next but i think i could be with him. obviously i feel comfortable around him and safe, and i like him as a person because he's my best friend. but if i am with him and it goes bad, we'll most likely stop being friends.
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Well I can understand where you coming from and I kno it may be a little wierd but you have to talk to him about it and asked him if you came on to fast and just talk to him about it because if you dont time will past and you will regret it for the rest of your life. And if you love him you cant change that but just tell him how you really feel and what you think about him.
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17/m well ive being goin out w this girl for like a few months and we have had sex alot of times and she thinks she might be pregnant but i also heard that she was sleepin w some other guy who i dont really know so the kid could be his what should i do? should i take care of the kid even though it might not be mine or what (link)
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Well if you really loved this girl it wouldnt matter if the baby was yours or not you would still take care of it as it was your own (if its not)! But ask her to go to planned parenting hood they will help her and give her advice help her with the baby and give a blood test.
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ok, i am confused a little, i know im not lesbian, but i find girls making out very hot! and arousing, i have made out with a girl, ive actually had full on lesbian sex witha girl but i HATED eating her, but loved being eaten... i find myself wanting to make out with girls but i want and love sex with guys.... am i bisexual? (link)
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Yes you are bisexual beacuse you like girl and boys but its your body your choice so keep your head up and be what you want to be and be proud of who you are.
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15/f. the guy i like has a girlfriend and i'm so jealous of her. how can i stop being jealous and just be happy for him? because we are good friends and whenever he talks about her i get all sad.
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So I am feeling you have a crush on him other wise you wouldnt be jealous and get sick of him talking about her in front of you. So heres what you do you get a boyfriend and start talking about him to your friend and if you cant get one then make one up but becareful because if you make one up it can always back fire.
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I wan't to get a swimsuit and I found two I like but I can't decide whitch one to get.
Whitch one do you all like best?
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http://images.delias.com//152365_w_s.jpg
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To be honest I dont like none of them. But if I had to pick one I would pick #2. But try different swimsuits that might not be the right type for you kind of body but if you need my help again just post another "?"
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i need help! i don't know if im wrong ...ok so i have a boyfrien , and he's nice and everything , but today we went on an argument about him not oppening the car door for me ...am i wrong for wanting him to do it?? even though he's nice and open places doors for me etc??..i told him i'd like that ..and he said :S its not like im going to be your slave or anything! can't you open it yourself??? ...and i was like ..i can obviously , but i would appreciate if you'll do it ....he sad your spoiled! its like i have feelings too! and im a person too why do i have to be all day after you doing evrything for you opening doors for you and for me who will do it? nobody does it for me , why do you have to be better than me ? we are both equal! ... then it turn into a big fight but am i wrong :S?????? (link)
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Girl its not wrong for you wanting him to open the car door for you. All gentlemen should do that and if he doesnt like it tell him to grow up and stop being lazy. And if he argues with you over the dumbest stuff hes not the one!
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ok, you see i went out with one of my best friends and things just werent going the way i wanted them to, so i dumped him. Now i regret that even though it was like 6 months ago and ive gone out with other guys. Me and my ex are still friends and i kinda know that he still likes me but im wondering should i ask him out?? Im like just so confused on what to do. (link)
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Same thing happened to me. I really liked this boy. I thought he woulg go with my friends or someone else but he didn't he waited for me. Well you should ask one of your friends to ask but tell them not to say you told them to ask or write a note to him. If you want to get more detailed e-mail me and i will tell you the true 411!
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Ok heres the deal, my sister ALWAYS does my hair for all my dances but shes gonna be on her honeymoon the week of homecoming. I'm going to a salon and getting my hair done. does anyone have any sites that has good hairstyles?? (link)
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Just get your hair in basic curls. Its flirty yet fun and looks good on everyone.
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OKay, so about....3 or four weeks ago i slept with a guy...at a party. We used protection, and he didnt actually...'come'
but, ive now skipped my period...its like a week late and i am really worried i am pregnant. should i give it a few more days...or should i take a test and find out?
Also, if i am pregnant...what can i do? do abortions cost money?
thank you so much for your help
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Usually if you miss 2,3, or 4 periods you could be pregante. It cost alot of money to get an abortion. You should buy a accuate pregantcy test. If you are pregante you should talk to an adult or someone you feel comfotable with. Go online and search stuff up.
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ok im 13 and im in middle school and there is this kid who is ubsesed with me and he has told me i want to have "IT" whith u!
im not redy for that im 13 yo soo what should i do? im scard he will bad mouth about me if i dont and if i do he will tell everyone and then ill be called a slut so what should i do? :( (link)
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First, think of what will happen if you do have sex. Then, think of what will happen if you don't have sex. Tell him you are not ready to have sex. Sex is not safe you can get Hiv/aids and stuff like that. Tell him you would like to be friends but nothing else. Tell him you have goals and you focused on other things then just having sex and worried about boys. If anyone bothers you about not having sex with him say thats none of your buisness and thats my choice if i want to lose my virginity at this age. Also tell them if they want to do it then go write ahead cause I'm not going to be the one ended up dead from diseases. And if they don't like you answer then screw them. It's your body and it's your choice.Holla Back at me
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what are some ways to show a guy that your interested in him??
14/f (link)
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Some ways you could show a guy your interested in him is flirting with him. Don't flirt to much on the first time. Speak say hi or whats-up stuff like that. Do little stuff to get him to notice you. When he flirts back you know you have him. Then just keep flirting little by little everyday . If he likes you he will try to talk to you. Don't be shy but do not be to outgoing. Just talk like your talking to one of your best friends. Chill for a couple days and just be you.
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