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um... this guy likes me and he wants to screw me what should
ok im 13 and im in middle school and there is this kid who is ubsesed with me and he has told me i want to have "IT" whith u!
im not redy for that im 13 yo soo what should i do? im scard he will bad mouth about me if i dont and if i do he will tell everyone and then ill be called a slut so what should i do? :(
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as you said, youre not ready for it, so dont do it. dont do anything that youdont want to do. so what if he bad mouths you? at least you can be proud of yourself for doing whats best for you. do what you think is right. dont push yourself to do anything. <3
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Okay im a little bit older (14 years) Im in 9th grade yea so all guys say that but are you going out with this guy because if you too are serious then maybe you could but if u guys arent going out hes a pervert because in 8th grade a kid named (at the age of 13) Ryan did it with my friend ari and she is pregnant. But if he is like that kind o person that will say do it with me or ill tell everyone in school (talk trash)then you kind of are in a slump.
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alright,
well you are right,
you are only 13 and no "LIL" boy is gunna make you, have sex with him,
say no,
if you really don't wanna do it,
be the upper person.
he doesn't need to answer,
if he is that kinda person all he needs is a two word answer and that's "hell no."
only do it when you're ready girl.
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First, think of what will happen if you do have sex. Then, think of what will happen if you don't have sex. Tell him you are not ready to have sex. Sex is not safe you can get Hiv/aids and stuff like that. Tell him you would like to be friends but nothing else. Tell him you have goals and you focused on other things then just having sex and worried about boys. If anyone bothers you about not having sex with him say thats none of your buisness and thats my choice if i want to lose my virginity at this age. Also tell them if they want to do it then go write ahead cause I'm not going to be the one ended up dead from diseases. And if they don't like you answer then screw them. It's your body and it's your choice.Holla Back at me
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tell him no.
get the hell away from him.
who gives a crap if he bad mouths you. if he does that, all that proves is that he is an immature pervert.
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Don't have sex with him! You'll regret it for the rest of your life, what are you going to tell people? Your first time was with some guy who was going to bad mouth you that you didn't even like? You should save it for someone who you really love.
If he does start to bad mouth you, just give him the response,"You're just mad because I'm not your first like you wanted me to be." And let people know of the situation so whenever he says it to people, they can just ignore him and everything he has to say.
Just talk to him about it too. Let him know you're only 13 and you don't want to and aren't ready to have sex. And you're not interested in him like that, and you want your first to be with someone special, and you're sorry.
I hope I helped.
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ew. he sounds like an ass. just be like hell no. dont be worried if people start calling you a slut. people have called me sooo worse names like, pussy eater, whore, slutbag, fag, and like a million different names. dont worry about what they say about you. but ignore him.
hope i helped.
-mwalnuts
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this guy is obviously a selfish bastard,dont' do it because he will just treat you like dirt afterwards.Stay away from him and keep yourself for a better guy
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Dont have sex with him. You would regret it so much losing it to someone you barly no and dont like. If he does start rumers so what you know the truth and thats all that should matter. And also if he does stick up for your self go off on him because its not right for him to do that. STick up for yourself and if you have to ask someone close to you for help dont give in and dont just have sex with him because your scared of rumers. Everyone would forget them anyways because they will move on to some one else in a few weeks to pick on. Dont be scared of him show him that your tough and your not going to let him control you. Just dont have sex! I hope it works out for you and you choose the right thing.
♥ jAcKiiE
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You're scared. Therefore, you are not ready. And not only because you are scared. You are also way too young and he is trying to force you into it. Don't do it.
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Uhh no don't have sex with some kid you don't even like just because he wants to. So what if he badmouths you, if he does, he's a loser. He'll look like the stupid one, not you. besides, 13 is too young anyway. Tell him to go screw if he bothers you lol. <3 briana
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well since youre not sure then you shouldnt. besides youre barely a teenager, and why do you want to waste your virginity on a manwhore that will only sleep with you once and then leave you to weep about it? tell him to screw off and just be yoruself, who cares if he badmouths you if you dont have sex? i think its worse to sleep with some random guy, unwillingly, and then have him tell people that youre a slut and had sex with him for no reason rather than him just saying mean shit about you.
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Heyy sweetie,
well first off. don`t have sex. your only thirteen. don`t do anything that he forces you to do if you dont want to do. just keep your head up & be strong. & if he spreads lies bout you kcuz you didnt do it with him. then just kick him in the balls. ahaha jk but tell someone tell you parents or tell someone your close too. but just do what you think is right.
---Say_goodbyex3
got anymore questions contact me babeey x uh ohs
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he'll call you a slut if you do have sex with him, not if you don't. people are going to talk, and you have to learn to ignore them. you said you don't want to have sex, and if you do, you are going to regret it SO bad it's not even funny. ignore him.
you obviously aren't ready to have sex. you aren't mature enough emotionally or physically. for example, you referred to sex as 'it'. why would you want to have 'it' if you are to scared to even say the word sex. also, it's 'obsessed' not 'ubsessed' and it's 'ready' not 'redy'.
see my point? just don't do it. let him talk.
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You won't be called a slut simply for refusing him.
I applaud you for atleast having the common sense to know not to have sex so young. Tell the guy to kick it and leave, you don't need to worry about it. If he persists, tell an adult and get it dealt with.
And believe me, bad mouthing when you don't have sex is much worse than bad mouthing if you did have sex. Meaning, if you have sex it's going to be alot worse than if you don't.
I hope I helped.
-Ryan
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