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Bleh.
I know this question isn't as important as most of these on here, but this bothers me! Ok, so there's this guy (haha classic opening line.) and we've kinda been talking and hanging out all summer, so uhm..yeah. let's just call him ian. So anyway, I was online tonight, and this guy who a long time told me he liked me (let's call him Charlie.) and he knows I don't like him, yet he told me to call him. Ok. One, I don't like him.& Two, I don't want to like you go behind ian's back or anything..not that we're going out. Charlie has talked to me before and told me to like meet him at Tacobell. (The only places to hang out around here are fast food restraunts, haha.) but you know I don't like him! and when he told me to call him, i told hima lie and said I couldn't. I really hate lying to people!! But I don't want to hurt his feelings and be like look charlie, I don't want to call you because I don't like you. and I don't feel like talking on the phone with you. I mean god I'm not a bitch! So does anyone know anyway I can get him to stop asking me to go places, without confronting him about it? and please, don't be rude.
Thank you so much!
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Maybe have someone invent an excuse that your going away on vacation for a long time or better that you moved to another state so he won't ever bother you again even though it may seem mean but you don't want to confront him,and it's better for him to then to get really disllusioned.
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well i think yu shud give him a message be like charlie yur the bestest friend i ever had lets not change that our friendship means the world to me and i never want it to be more or less
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Are you uncomfortable around him or anything like that?? Because if you are that could be part of the reason. But you could tell him, "Listen charlie, but I really am not... into you, if you know what I mean. I don't wanna be rude to you, but I really don't want to hang with you (and that's where the uncomfortable factor comes in)."
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