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The names Amber.I absolutly Love giving people advice!im 15,but you dont need to know where i live[; Single.But ask away with advice :]


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Age: 15
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I have a new friend that I met in 4th grade,we friends until he liked bre my ex friend he also has a friend named blake that never ever liked me. I really liked bryan so I made up that my friend liked him. He believed it. After 4th grade ended when I came back to school he started to treat me like all his friends and made fun of me when I was on crutches. This relly hurt me. Now I am in 6th grade and suddenly I like him even though I swore i wouldn't after I found out our famlies were friends! this changed a lot but he treats me diffrently in 6th grade sense i guess I saw his best friend and his ex kissing behinde the school. Now I get more and more feelings for him. (link)
no way is it wrong now if he was going out with this girl than yes it would be wrong but he just likes her soo go knock yourself out and flirt away lol hope i helped ♥ amber tell me how it goes(racerchic4390@yahoo.com)


I dont have a best friend, I never did, I am not in a clique, and I dont have many friends. Sounds fun, right? Yeah right. There is a major clique problem in my school-- I figure, If i cant fix it, find the clique I fit in. Idont fit in any clique. The popular kids rule the school. I'm friends with indivudual Pop ular kids but together, i'm a no one. Most kids in my school dont like me, dont ask me why but i really want more friends. I tried out for cheer. and kick. and didnt make it, I was dissapointed because I really wanted to be part of a team. And have those girls to sleepover with and have my 'group'. Help?

I rate high!

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umm,ok...if you have tried out for cheerleading and didnt make it than try another poular sport like basketball or something like that!!and if you are friends with individual popular ppl than why arnt they letting you in there clique??? and like another person said dont follow them around because we\they probably be like shes a freak she follows people but anewho,,,dont be shy or hold back from taalking to people just be yourself and try out for another poular team like basketball ok...hope i have helped atleast a little bit,♥ Amber


I'm getting high lights next weekand I'm deciding whether I should get it folied or capped. Which ones better and brings more color to your hair and which ones less damaging?? I need answers really soon because I'm either gettin gthe highlights done tommarow or next week. (link)
ok,the best thing would peobably be the foil!hope it turns out the way you want it:)Amber


My boyfreind has had sex with 30 other girls and he prbably has alot of STDS and he cheats on everyone.its just in his nature. He cheated on my friend he cheated on all his other grilfriends. He tried to finger my friend when they were going out and my frined dint want him to and he wouldn't stop trying to do it. He's a man hore. He's only 16 too and he already had sex with 30 girls. And to top it all off, hes arrested right now I forgot what he did. I think hes too much truble for me because I'm not a good girl but I'm not that bad. hes already wanted sex with me the first day we were going out. I think i should dump him. Hes a bad kid and he will only cause more trouble to me. What do yuo think? (link)
ok..are you ok?If he was doing that kind stuff you should of dumped him ALONG TIME AGO!!!!Amber:)


I feel really exhausted and weak, and when I'm not laying down, I feel really bad. My stomach hurts just a little bit, but it isn't that bad, like I can deal with it, it's not bothering me, but my head hurts, and my throat hurts, but only when I swallow. Could this be pre-illness? What's wrong with me and how can I get better? I'm going on vacation in two days and I don't want to feel bad. (link)
ok,i dont know alot about health but have you tried drinking alot of water and eating healthy?if not try it.hope ive put a dent in your ideas,amber


i have dandruff and i dont know if its that bad but its there. more than a little! any ways i was just wondering if anyone had any recommendations thankx in advace!! (link)
ok,if you have dandruff you should use the shampoo\conditioner Head N Shoulders!hope i have helped,Amber=)


heyy what's promiscuous mean?? and how do you spell it lol
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ok,i think it means when someone has a lot of sexual partners.Amber


okay well my hair is VERY dry and frizzy. the thing is my sister and ALL my cousins have nice thin straight hair. i just got my hair cut layered and sorta bangs. my hair isnt really really frizzy it`s just a little. so do you have any ideas what i can do with it to make it look pretty w/out doing too much work? (link)
ok, i think you should um get a straightner from like wal-mart or sallys etc.!And when you do sraighten your hair and it should come out beautiful!!hope i have put a dent in your ideas:]Amber


Hey guys, I need color suggestions for eyeliner and eye shadow. I have brown hair and brown eyes, I'm somewhat tan from summer, but that's it. Can someone give me suggestions on what colors would look best and what kinds of make-up brands are of the best quality? Thanks :] (link)
ok,i think the best colors for you would be a brown with a strawberry pink(as eyeshadow),eyeliner should be like a light gold color,and a clinique foundation hope i have helped:]Amber


so my friend and me were going to hang out tonight..and we had talked about this lastnight and we were planning on having a sleep over but now her and another friend are doing something n havin a sleepover..but arent including me..what should i do? (link)
ok, u need to do some serious talking with this girl.if u had already had plans with her and she went off with ANOTHER friend.If she was your friend she would not have done that to you.you need to ask her why did you do this to me(name),we already had plans and everything but ou went off with (name).just sit her down and talk to her.but if she ws a true friend she wouldnt have done that!hope i have helped,Amber=)


okay i'm 14 years old and my dad has been in jail for about 7 years because he almost shot a guy and about 3 weeks ago i wrote him a letter and now he wants me to write him more and come see him in september and im not sure what i should do because this subject is really hard for me and im not really ready to see him yet but my grandparents keep pressuring me to see him and i feel bad about not seeing him because he's my dad and he probably wants to see me really bad i just dont know what to do because i dont want to hurt anyones feelings but im also not ready to see him yet
what do you guys think i should do ?
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well,i think you should see your dad because he is your dad and they dont live forever and yes he could have done that but he still is your dad!well i hope i have helped a bit=)Amber


i met a boy about a year ago.
and he was really nice
then he was really mean and cocky to me on myspace.
then he broke up with me horribly.
and i cried for three monthes about it.
all though i have only met him twice
now about a year later he wants to meet up again and possibly go out and be boyfreind and girlfreind.
i dont know if he has changed or not
i like him now
should i take the risk? (link)
ok, well i have kind of gone through something similiar to this a few days sgo!I think you should just be friends for about a few monthes so you can see if he has changed and if he has go for it and if he has not changed then you should just be friends with him.hope i have helped!Amber=)


okay im a cheerleading. all of my years of doing i have been a flyer well this year im not flying at all. im in the back for a lot of the cheers so far & i just dont think this is right. this is my 7th year that i have been doing it. should i say something to the coach or should i just wait and see what happens? like this is only our 4th-5th practice so far? but im sick of like not doing anything. i front spot two things and then they dunno waht they are going to do with me for this one mount because some other girl replaced me. so im thinking im probably going to have to hide behind a mount & i just don't think this is right. any ideaS? (link)
ok i am also a cheerleader and i also hate not doing anything so i def. think you should talk to the coach one day after practice!hope i helped Amber=)


yesterday my boyfriend told me he was cheating on me which i was very upset about. i'm still with him and he is still cheating on me.he said he has been cheating on me for a year. i love him very much and he said he loved me too. but he said he wasn't going to leave the other girl and he said we could share him. i'm really thinking about breaking up with him. but i love him and i'm not sure what to do. should i break up with him or just keep our relationship still going? please help and thank you so much
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omg!you need to definatley break up with him!!!i have kinda been in the same relationship b4 trust me i know what he** you go through!!!hope i have helped Amber:)


i hav a bf and hes rly sweet and nice, but i like neva get to see him cuz he lives in another town. wenever i go someplace and see a cute guy i always wanna flirt. is that bad since i already hav a bf? and since i wanna flirt wit otha ppl, does that mean i dont really like my bf as much as i thought? (link)
well,my opinon is no it is not bad because i am like the exact same way when i have a b.f. and i see a really hott guy then heck yeah i am goin to flirt just dont take it over board and never 4get that your boyfriend is the # 1 hottest guy when you see a cute guy!!Amber:)


My lips are really chapped and I'm using the jar of Carmex with the yellow lid. I've used it a lot and left it on, but everytime it wares off my lips start to peel and I'm tempted to bite them again and get them chapped. Should I leave the peeling skin alone? Any additional advice would be wonderful.

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ok,yes you should leave the dead skin alone!and try something different like blistex that will probably work for you!hope i have helped:)Amber


I am in cheerleading and we have a competetion in a few months (like 3) Im not sure how to get into shape quickly. Like I weigh 150 lbs and im trying to get down to 140 or 135. I used to weigh 114 and I got sent to a program and I came out 160. Ive lost 10 lbs in a month in 1/2 but it wasnt on purpose! (link)
ok i think you should get up ever morning and put like cheerleading shorts on and a comfortable shirt and cheer. shoes and jog or seedwalk @ times for about 30 min. at the most dont do it in the middle of the day cuz it may get terribly hot and you will most likely pass out.i am also a cheerleader and i know how you feel.if you dont want to jog in the morning then get signed up with a gym and go there everyday for about 1 1/2 hrs. or 2 and do like the treadmill and things from your waist down!hope i have helped you.Amber:)


you can get a nosejob at 15. (link)
no i dont think that would be a good idea wait till around 18 at the most!!Amber


My friend has always dated someone younger than herself. And she is again. And liking it. And she is a freshman in highschool and is dating this 8th grader. And just today she told me that she might be pregnant. But shes really not sure: they did it once two weeks ago and they were protected and all, but the numbers say that condoms dont work all the time and she hasn't gotten her peroid.
Could having sex just mess up the time it comes? Or is it more likely shes pregnant?
Thanks.
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it sounds like she is pregnant!Amber=)


what eyeliner color brings out dark brown eyes? does blue eyeliner do that? (link)
well u should use blue definatley silver,black,brown!hope i have helped..Amber=)




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