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Age: 13
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Okay...I'm only 13 1/2 and I know what an orgasm feels like and I have them on purpose. I use this massage thing that you're supposed to use on your back. I keep thinking i'm really abnormal because i "like" having them and I do it about every other day...am I too young to be doing this? SHOULD I be doing it? No one knows I do it at all. IF it's okay for me to be doing this, would it be okay to tell my mom maybe? I share everything with her and she's a nurse so I don't think she'd be freaked out or anything but i think i would be very embarrassed if even she knew. PLEASE HELP! (link)
Its perfectly normal. Your body is changing and you are exploring it. If you feel comfortable with your mom knowing tell her. but be serious. Masterbation is perfectly healthy =D, enjoy it, and dont be worried.


I was about 7 when i first fingered myself; obviously, i didnt have my period then. I also used the pool jet to masterbate. I didn't know that's what it actually was called or that it could lead to problems later in life. I heard that it can give you cervical cancer. I'm really really scared. Is that true, what is the risk, and would I know if I have cancer by now if i'm 14. (link)
No. There is nothing goind to happen to you. Honestly ive been masterbating since before i started school..(i fell off my bed and something touched my vagina the right way so i started to do it =/) Just dont worry about it. It gives you pleasure...NOT CANCER...Masterbation is very healthy!


ok all of my friends are having sex (and there all around 15 and 16, and i am 15.) And I don't feel like people our age are ready to have sex yet...but all of my friends are telling me how much fun it is, and they kept telling me how i need to lose it. I kept telling them that i'm not ready, but they keep pressuring me to have it. How can I get it throgh there head that i'm not ready and I don't want to lose it untill i'm ready? (link)
So, i say good for you. You havent given in, thats good. Dont give in. If they are your true friends they will not be pressuring you. You will enjoy sex alot better when you do it with the person you love. You can tell them that if they continue pressuring you.


I think that I might have gotten Chlamydia because I basically have all the signs but I'm so scared to go to the doctor because I will have to tell my parents and not only will i be embarrassed I'll get in trouble..i have no idea what to do please help (link)
If you do have the disease, you need to tell someone. You need to talk to your parents before it gets real bad. After you parents get over the fact that you have had sex. Then they will be able to get you helped.


I might be pregnant, Il find out in a couple of weeks if i miss my period or not but im so stressed out about that fact that i might be pregnant this could cause my period to be late. If i am pregnant, what do i do? I cant keep it but i wouldnt know what to do if i was to have an abortion? I cant tell my family. I feel so alone, i always cry. Please can you give me some advice. (link)
Okay, just calm down and think. There is still a chance that you are not pregnant. Either way you need support. You need to talk to your mom/dad. Take a pregnancy test. Please, do not turn to abortion. Its wrong. They baby is alive just like you are...no one should have the right to deny the child life. It 's your descision though. I hope you make the right one. Just remember, everything will be okay.


Are men put off by stretchmarks? (link)
Some guys are and some guys arent. But if the guy truly cares about you, he wont care about something like that.


yesterday i went to my friends house and she pierced my ear with her earring. well, we did sterilize it by putting the earring/earring back in a little cup of that ear alcohol stuff..

well first she used a sharp earring (sterilized) to pierce my ear, and then she took it out like 5 minutes later and put in a regular earring. my ear is fine, no infections or anything- just a little blood at first.

um, so, i was wondering if you can get AIDS or anything by using somebody else's earring to pierce your ear. idk, cause i would think it's like a needle or whatever. im assuming my friend doesn't have AIDS, but who knows for sure?

also, does anyone know if there's a test for AIDS besides getting a blood sample?

please. (link)
There is a chance that if she did have AIDs that you could have got them. But ONLY If, her blood was on the earing and her blood came in contact with yours. If your friend hasnt had sex, you would know if she had AIDS because she would have been born with them(more than likely) If you are seriously worried about it talk to her and your parents and get tested. But i higly doubt that you've got it.


Lately, my eyelids have been red and chapped. Does anyone know what could have caused this and how i can treat/prevent this? Thanks. (link)
You either have, sunburn(as stated above) Or, you have a Sty. and if its a sty just let it pass.




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