Okay...I'm only 13 1/2 and I know what an orgasm feels like and I have them on purpose. I use this massage thing that you're supposed to use on your back. I keep thinking i'm really abnormal because i "like" having them and I do it about every other day...am I too young to be doing this? SHOULD I be doing it? No one knows I do it at all. IF it's okay for me to be doing this, would it be okay to tell my mom maybe? I share everything with her and she's a nurse so I don't think she'd be freaked out or anything but i think i would be very embarrassed if even she knew. PLEASE HELP!
tada answered Monday July 31 2006, 1:21 pm: omgsh hun i do the same thing. it's like the bestttt.
anyways about telling your mother. if you feel it's right then tell her. if not just ask yourself some questions trying to fill her shoes and see what she might think and just wait a while you're ready to tell her. but it's perfectly normal. much love hope i helped boo. [ tada's advice column | Ask tada A Question ]
Adviceteen08 answered Wednesday July 26 2006, 1:34 am: i believe its totally normal for anyone to "explore"his or her body,its safe unlike sex and you feel comfortable doing it because its your body as for telling your mom go for it she will understand in fact as a nurse she would be able to expand your knowledge on the subject even more [ Adviceteen08's advice column | Ask Adviceteen08 A Question ]
FACEDOWN answered Thursday July 20 2006, 1:40 am: Well, im 13 and i love to materbate and i dont think thats weird lol!! Anywayss.. ummm i wouldnt recomend telling your mom because it might make her uncomforatable you know? well my mom would yell at me (shes like tht)
xoKimFryeox answered Thursday July 20 2006, 1:05 am: This is COMPLETELY normal. You can masturbate at any age, young or old. If you feel comfortable telling your mom, then tell her. Its not like she'll disown you or anything! :) [ xoKimFryeox's advice column | Ask xoKimFryeox A Question ]
shyxgirl answered Saturday July 15 2006, 12:50 am: Its perfectly normal. Your body is changing and you are exploring it. If you feel comfortable with your mom knowing tell her. but be serious. Masterbation is perfectly healthy =D, enjoy it, and dont be worried. [ shyxgirl's advice column | Ask shyxgirl A Question ]
hottie411 answered Thursday July 13 2006, 2:18 am: its completely normal to be doing this. i think every teenager does something similar to this, and they of corse think it feels good too.
i dont think you should tell anyone about it though, especially your mom. she might have done the same thing when she was your age, but she might still freak out if she found out you were doing it.
but if you feel comfortable telling her, then you can, and its really your choice.
The_MoUsY_spell_checker answered Thursday July 13 2006, 12:37 am: First of all, it's normal to like the feeling. It's natural. It's only a problem if you're obsessed with it to the point where it inteferes with other things.
tiffanyD answered Thursday July 13 2006, 12:09 am: First of all, honey, you're going through puberty, and what you're doing is NORMAL. Chances are, everyone, and I mean everyone in the world, has done something similar when they were thirteen, and probably much later on into their teens! And of course you like having them, an orgasm is a wonderful feeling, you are supposed to enjoy it! If you're old enough to like it, you're old enough to do it! It's your choice if you tell your mom or not, if you're not comfortable with her knowing, then don't tell her. The most important thing is that you know that you are normal, what you're doing is not wrong, it's not gross, and it's not freakish. I say enjoy yourself, as long as you're comfortable, that's all that matters. :) [ tiffanyD's advice column | Ask tiffanyD A Question ]
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