ask Adviceteen08



read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators




Member Since: July 24, 2006
Answers: 16
Last Update: July 27, 2006
Visitors: 1313


Ohk i know you can get Aids Or Hiv from someone if you have sex with someone that has it. I was told by many people that even if you use a condom you can also get it. Is it true.?

Only asking because i was watching tv today and on one of the Trojan Condom commercials. Its says to be sure not to get Aids Or HIv. Always use a condom.

No im not out having sex. And im 17 female. (link)
using a condom lowers the chances of develpoing dieases but if your not careful and if you dont check the condom first you may have tears or develope tears in the latex during sex which could cause you to transfer fluids and exchange stds but you have a lower chance of getting a disease using condoms


does being a virgin mean you've never had sex? what about fingering/blowjobs etc does that count, and if youve done one, are u not a virgin anymore? someone please explain.. (link)
being a virgin means you have never had sex fingering hand jobs or any thing oral does not count


My girlfriend's birthday is comming up. I'd like to get her a book that she would like, she reads a lot. She likes to read novels, the mushy love story kind. Does anyone recommend any that they have actually read? I'm not too great when it comes to this. Or should I just ask her which one she would like? I did want it to be a surprise, but if that's the best way to go about it, I'll try it. (link)
instead of asking her which book shed like maybe you could just ask who her favorite author was and search for a book by that author,that way you get your info without letting her know whats going on


i started taking birth control pills and i was wondering when its safe for my boyfriend to not use a condom? (link)
actually it is never "safe" to have sex with out a condom because a pregnacy isnt the only thing a condom protects against,more and more people are developing uncurable sexually transmited dieases everyday like aids,herpees,HIV,and hepititus! also birth control doesnt always keep you from getting pregnant so practice safe sex and be careful


Im 17. My mom keeps pushing me to get a job. I want a job, because I want to get a car. But I realise that once I get a car, Ill have to pay for insurance and gas, so basically once I start working, I wont stop until Im like 60. That makes me sad because Im not ready to grow up yet. In one year Ill be an adult and Im just not ready for bills, work, college, and other big responsibilities.

Any suggestions? =[ (link)
maybe instead of just up and changing your life style by workin alot you could slowly adapt to the pressures and stress's of a job by helping people do little jobs for a few hours a few days a week you would get a little cash and still not be totally comitted to a job


I think that I might have gotten Chlamydia because I basically have all the signs but I'm so scared to go to the doctor because I will have to tell my parents and not only will i be embarrassed I'll get in trouble..i have no idea what to do please help (link)
fortunately that is one of the stds that is treatable the best thing for you to do is to go to the hospital because if you dont it will get worse and hurt and bother you more as for your parents they actually understand more than you think and your there child they will love you regaurdless


Okay...I'm only 13 1/2 and I know what an orgasm feels like and I have them on purpose. I use this massage thing that you're supposed to use on your back. I keep thinking i'm really abnormal because i "like" having them and I do it about every other day...am I too young to be doing this? SHOULD I be doing it? No one knows I do it at all. IF it's okay for me to be doing this, would it be okay to tell my mom maybe? I share everything with her and she's a nurse so I don't think she'd be freaked out or anything but i think i would be very embarrassed if even she knew. PLEASE HELP! (link)
i believe its totally normal for anyone to "explore"his or her body,its safe unlike sex and you feel comfortable doing it because its your body as for telling your mom go for it she will understand in fact as a nurse she would be able to expand your knowledge on the subject even more


Iam an 18/f and i've been dating this guys for a couple of months and he asked me if I was a virgin and I said yes and he said he loved doing it with girls who wasn't experinced and I told him I would do it with him becouse I figured that was what he wanted.why would he want a girl who is unexperienced with sex? (link)
maybe the reason he wants a girl with no prior experience is because he feels more in control of the situation that way, he knows what hes doing and you dont


i m from india.my friend nowadays is really worried. she says that she never had sex with her boyfriend but they only touched one another everywhere.
now the problem is she is not got her periods for past two weeks from the scheduled date.she says that her periods are very regular.
then what can be the reason for her delayed periods.she says that while touching his lower part if she had sperms on her hand and if by mistake she touched her lower part can this lead her to becoming pregnant. (link)
there are alot of reasons for a missed period not only a pregnancy stress also plays an important role ask your friend if shes been stressed lately


This may be a dumb question but is it possible to get pregnant when using condoms, and they have no broken nor slipped off..and there is no sight that the condom is faulty? just wondering (link)
Yes! condoms can still tear inside of you or well bust, they protect you from diseases but not always babies birth control is the best thing


ok im 13/f/canada and i had sex like last week and we were completly safe and i thought i loved him but he hasnt called since and i just got back from cheer camp (im a cheerleader) and i met this awsome guy and he asked me out and now we r together but i still haveing feeling for the guy that i had sex with like should i stay with the guy im with or go back to the guy i lost my virginity to? plez hhelp me! (link)
1st of all you will always probably have feelings for the guy you lost your virginity to but if he hasnt tried calling you then hes pretty sorry most teen guys only care about getting you in bed and to me it sounds like that may b exactly what was on his mind gaurd yourself when you want to do it thats when you should do it dont ever just give in because he wants it you have to b ready


Hey. I was looking at someone else's question about shaving "down there" and I was wondering about shaving. A few questions like do guys expect hair or no hair? If you are a guy what do you think/ would want?
Thanks. (link)
Actually there is no deffinate answer guys have different tastes some guys like it some guys dont and some guys just like it too be trimmed


so, i recently transfered to an girls school from a coed school. so i'm kinda new to the environment. its been about a month of classes alredy and suddenly, i feel a bit different to this popular lesbian. and it MIGHT because i'm starting to like her!! but this can't be happening! i think a girl having a crush on a girl is gRoSS!!! but then, what can i do about it?? how do i stop myself before i do anything stupid!!?? please help me!!
-Carlotta (link)
your concious mind may think a girl with girl is nasty but it sounds like subconciously u actually like it its not un natural in fact its even more natural now days follow your heart not your head you never know if she may actually be the person your destined to be with!!


i just got the noxema pads and its the small container with 90 pads and with an orange top and i was wondering if those worked for oily skin and i have like little pimples on my forehead but they arent red and arent big.. and how long do you think i will see results (link)
Yes, It does help oily skin and as for how long it takes its different for different people and different skin types


sorry this is so long!! in school me and my 5 freinds(amber ashley dara taylor and kyleigh) were really close but we had so much drama!you wouldnt even beleive.but we got through it.but during those bad times some of those friends got me into alot of trouble but i forgave them but my parents didnt.sence the end of school ive lost touch with taylor and kyleigh.in our click is my best friend dara who ive known forever and i still talk to her like every day.my mom just told me i wasnt allowed to talk to amber taylor ashley or kyleigh because they are a bad influence on me and she said my techers said my attitude changed when i started hanging out with them.im really not worried about taylor or kyleigh because i dont talk to them anymore anyway.i kinda undrstand ashley because she got into a lot of trouble during school and she also failed and she wasnt a big fan of most of our teachers.but shes still my friend and amber is like a mom to me i even called her my mom.she has never really got into trouble that i know of but once when we were in one of are many fights she told on me and dara(its a long story) which i wasnt to happy about and nethier was dara.i told ash and amb what my mom said and ash understood a little but amb didnt.they told their parents who are good friends and they think im lying and am trying to start more drama and then they said that ash and amb cant talk to me.my mom said she can look on the computer at my calls to see if i did talk to them.im so angry because their really good reinds of mine.amber and ash are both leving the school and kyleigh i herd was moving to virgnia and i dont know about taylor cus i dont talk to her anymore.i just need some advice because i really want to talk to my friends.and to think i thought are click was ging to last forever.well thanx so much for any one who trys to answer.TWEETY aka satin devil (link)
Be with the good friend


ok.I have a nice funny bofriend.We have been dating 4 about 5 months and we just started staying away from each other more and more.That has been going on 4 a couple of months.(MEANWHILE)A boy we r going 2 call jacob started flirting with me and i flirt back.I have heard tons of people say he likes me and that we look cute together.My boyfriend gets mad if jacob hits me or something like that.The reason im scared 2 break up with my b-friend is all the drama it will bring.all his friends will be mad at me and they r kinda my friends 2.his mom will be mad at me and so will he and i would like 2 stay friends even if i do break up wit him.I just need some opinions and will love anyones help!!! (link)
it just depends on who u like more if u think jacob will only b a temporary thing dont do it if it could b more go for it and if u and ur current b/f cant stay friends its his loss also if urs/his friends get mad about u dumping him they wasnt really tru friends to start with




read advice get advice make favorite read feedback advicenators

<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>

eXTReMe Tracker