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Iam an 18/f and i've been dating this guys for a couple of months and he asked me if I was a virgin and I said yes and he said he loved doing it with girls who wasn't experinced and I told him I would do it with him becouse I figured that was what he wanted.why would he want a girl who is unexperienced with sex?
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most guys like virgins is because they feel insecure and you would think they are very good because you have never experienced sex before. but he will know when you guys do actually have sex because he will put it in and will feel that your hymen was broken and he will know that ur not a virgin
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maybe the reason he wants a girl with no prior experience is because he feels more in control of the situation that way, he knows what hes doing and you dont
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He wants a girl who is unexperienced with sex because he is an inconsiderate jerk who I think is an asshole from what he to you.
He feels "powerful" and isn't intimidated.
He also knows that you wont know if he's good or bad at it.
I'm sorry but I'm afraid he's the kind of guy who most girls hate and he's the reason why guys are always called perverts, assholes, jerks, etc.
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I can't believe you'd say 'yes' to a question like that so easily. That's sickening that he actually ADMITTED that he "likes doing it with girls who aren't experienced". That's SHOWING you and TELLING you that he's just trying to put another notch in his belt. Please, if you haven't already, don't sleep with him. He just wants to be in control.. like I said, to add another notch to his belt, and to take another girl's virginity. You think he's going to stick around? He's not. So don't count on it. And don't give in to him. Virginity is special, even if nobody thinks it is anymore.
Last but not least.. if you DO decide to sleep with him please please PLEASE make sure you're on birth control and he uses a condom. Condoms can break, and birth control isn't 100% (I've gotten pregnant on it) so make sure you use BOTH to be careful. You don't want a baby with a loser like this.
Good luck, and sorry if I sounded harsh but it's true. I hope you don't sleep with him.
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Guys find having sex with virgins very empowering. They feel like they are in control of the situation and know what they are doing. They feel like a 'dominant male'. Some guys are very insecure, and want to have sex with a virgin because it would be harder for a virgin to decide whether or not he was good in bed. Also, virgins are really tight, and guys find more pleasure in girls when they are harder to enter. I'm sure the screaming virgins usually do (because of the pain) usually isn't such a bad thing either. I'm sure it makes guys feel better about their manhood.
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I agree with everyone on this in that he is only putting another notch on his bedpost. Your virginity is the most precious thing between you and someone who really loves you and you really love them. It is great that you are still a virgin and you should be extremely happy that you are not 'easy'. Many girls have given their virginity to a guy who only wanted them for one thing, then they are chucked very soon after.
How many girls has he done this to? I would be concerned that he is doing this to a lot of other girls and with that comes the worry of STDs etc. Keep your resolve and your virginity until you are satisfied that the person with whom you want to share this special experience with is right for you. I wish you all the best.
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guyss like to do it with virgins because they arent experienced, and so they cant compare them to anyone else
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I know a lot of people don't think so nowadays, but your virginity *is* a big deal. You should save it to give to someone special - not just some guy you "figure" wants it and for what? Some guys get off on 'going where no man has gone before'. I don't think anyone just wants to be another conquest, another notch in someone's belt and that's what it sounds like he wants to me. Sex is the closest, most intimate thing you could ever do with another person. Don't let your first time be cheapened by a virgin-hunting jerk. Sorry to be so direct, but it sounds like you're being quite cavalier about it and I think that will be a regret later. Find a guy you love, who loves you back, if you really want to have sex. If not, just wait. Good luck.
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Your virginity is a precious thing. You can only give it away once. Is he really the right person?
Or is he just after one thing in particular?
He sounds like a bit of a player.
Think casrefully before you give this special thing away or else you might regret it.
Plus, i say well done for keeping your virginity up to 18 years old cos there's young kids on this site who are getting upto all kinds of things. It's unbelievable!!
Good Luck :)
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Because when youre a virgin youre tight. And when youre tight it feels better for them. It like hugs their penis more
Or it could be because he wants you always to remember him. Doubt that though
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the reason guys like that is because theyre your first it makes them feel good about themselves. plus they think youll think theyre good no matter what since you havent done it. hope i helped
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