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Well my name is Kim Frye and im 17. I love helping people and making others happy, its my goal in life! I also love riding dirtbikes, hanging out with friends, dancing, singing, etc etc. :)
E-mail: kimberly_frye06@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Bakersfield,ca
Occupation: Bank Of America // Freshman at Bakersfield College
Age: 17
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what are other good first cars?
i want people to be like damn i wish i had this. but not tooo pricey. (link)
well, the new toyota camry's are REALLY cute, and nice.
ORRR..new honda accord / civic
umm...
toyota yaris *2 door* are CHEAP and nice.
toyota corolla *black is the cutest*
i cant think of nething else, but i if i do, ill tell u.


14/f...i've been trying to eat less calories and stay thin. a daily eating pattern is this

breakfast -- a vanilla crisp Special K bar
lunch -- one red apple and one chewy bar
dinner -- whatever my dad makes (it varies everyday from hot dogs to pasta)

but all of the sudden my dad has been trying to get me to eat more food. he is always thinking that if i eat too little then i'm going to become anorexic. whenever my dad cooks he makes me eat more then i want to eat to stay thin. what can i do? and today him and my mom started saying that they don't like how i eat a special K bar for brerakfast. they want me to eat something more suitable for breakfast like cereal..but that would put more calories into my diet and make me gain weight. (link)
A better breakfast for you to eat would be like :: Egg whites, probably better off scrambled than fried, but egg whites are okay. Stay away from toast or any other kind of breads if you want to lose weight. Maybe with your eggs you can eat a banana..or an apple?


My Bat Mitzvah is coming up and I'm going to have a ladies choice dance. I dont know if I shoulsd dance with a boy from school who I really like, or a boy from camp who I also really like... Problem? Um. Yeah. What do I do? (link)
The guy from school, definitely, the guy from camp you wont see too often, theres more of a chance with you and the guy from school. Do they both know you like them, and the big question, do they BOTH like you back?


tonight when i was with my boyfriend i suddenly got bored and didnt wanna be with him anymore. i started having thoughts of breaking up with him. but then like 10 minutes later he was holding me and i felt so happy! i LOVE the physical attraction we have and hes really funny but im not sure if hes right for me cause i cant always be the crazy, hyper person that i am. is it bad that i was having those negative thoughts or is it normal? any advice will be appreciated! (link)
The first couple months that I was with my current boyfriend, I had thoughts about us breaking up ALL the time. I never acted upon my feelings because I knew that they were just temporary. Now, me and my boyfriend have been together eleven months, and I never have those thoughts about him, I love him so much! Those feelings will go away soon, just dont let them get the best of you!






so my dad met his girlfriend at work one day and they started going out...ok so she has 2 kids a 17 year old son and a 20 year old daughter anyway...so i got to know her son more and more just to skip to this part after 2 months of my dad and his gf dating her and her kids moved in...ok so then one night i was with her son and we made out then my dad came in a caught us so they were makin fun of us even tho he was super pissed. anyway so within that time now they have been dating for a year and this hole time i knew her son...ok well her son is player no doubt but idk soo we figured since it didnt matter because they were just dating so it wasnt like ya know incest or anything well now me and him are like more serious and we\'ve like done things.....ya so anyway i find out yesterday that my dad and his gf broke up and hes moving out and ill never see him again. i\'m truly inlove with this boy no joke and i dont know if he feels like that tword me but i love that boy like none other. so i dont know what i should do im never gonna see him again and im like inlove with him.
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Why wouldnt you ever see him again? Does he live in the same city as you? If its your dad thats stopping you from seeing him, maybe you should explain to him that just because him and his girlfriend broke up, doesnt mean he needs to stop you from seeing the guy you love. Love always finds a way, if its meant to be, you'll know, trust me.


my mom gave me a couple of options for my first car.

1. one is that she would buy me a car for $3,000 and i would have to pay her back half of that. her friend has a red honda civic with a sunroof and is willing to sell it to us for that price.
2. another option is for her to give me her current car (an infinite with a sunroof that's 5 years old). this may not be true, but i think she may make me buy it from her for $1,500.

3. the kind of car i want is a convertible bug (volkswagon) or a bug with a sunroof. in the newspaper, they're as cheap as $7,000.

what should i do: option 1, 2, or 3? i don't want to pay for car insurance on a car that isn't the volkswagon i want (basically, i'm going to get a bug whether it's now or in a few years).

thanks. (link)
Definitely number 2. Infinites are great cars, and they are really cute. Volkswagon bugs arent that great of cars, my friend had one, and sold it because it leaked oil and broke down all the time. So id definitely say number two.


From June 6 through the 27 I traveled to the UK. During the middle of my trip my BF emailed me and said he was leaving to go to Iowa to visit his Grandma. He was taking his best friend Felix. When I got home from the UK, I emailed my BF because I assumed he was home. He didn't reply. So I waited and waited (I also kept emailing him). This went on for about 1 month. Finally I emailed Felix and asked if the were home yet. He replied the next day and said they'd been home for weeks. I was FUMING!!! He was at home all this time. Why won't he email me. I never said anything mean or bad to hurt him, and I feel so sad. Does anybody know why he'd do this?

*** I can't call him because his dad has a very demanding job and needs the line open all the time. (link)
Maybe your boyfriends email address wasnt working, or maybe he just didnt get the email. Thats strange that he wouldnt even call you for a month though, you guys DONT talk on the phone at all?


Sorry..this might be long! ok, my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me about 2 & a half months ago & im still upset about it. He told me @ first he was breaking up w/ me because I was possessive but then he said he just wanted 2 be single. Well, two weeks later he starts dating a girl who is 15 (he is 17) & she lives 3 hours away. I cant stop thinking of him. Some days I hate him & other days I miss him & want him back. Even though he was a complete asshole to me when we were breaking up. Then about 3 weeks ago I met a boy who I fell really hard for(it was a rebound) but then I got really upset when he said he would call me and never did. So I was trying to get over that as well. So, school is going to start in less then a month & im really scared to go back because I dont want to see him. I havent seen him all summer & i have loved it but I kno when i see him Im going to get upset & I just dont want my feelings to become stronger for him when I do see him. Do you think that I will feel better about it when it gets closer to school? Do you think that he will realize he made a mistake & talk to me? I mean as bad as this sounds I want him to call me & apologize to me & want me back, so I can tell him no! What should I do? (link)
Just try your hardest to forget about him. He basically lied to you so he could get with another girl, which I dont understand, since she lives 3 hours away. Once school starts again, you may see him, but there will be so many other guys to keep your mind off of him. Forget about guys for a while, try hanigng out with a bunch of your girlfriends to keep your mind off your ex. If / When school starts and YOU STILL think about him, then you could probably catch him at school and try to talk about things.


I need some advice. What would be a good Fashion School to go to in California? Also, I was wondering what I should study in. I love learning about the new trends. i like to study what and not to wear. Fixing Up Outfits that need finishing touches on them before they hit the runway.Although, I don't enjoy sewing. Thanks for the help! (link)
FIDM - fashion institute of design and merchandising. definitely, that is a really good school!


ok i am going to be a freshman and im not even going to try and hide it. i am very freaked out. my older sister says its no biggie but seriously i am a very sesitive person and i cant really handle getting teased or picked on without turning red or becoming insecure about whatever whoever happened to tease me about. and i am going to get lost (we dont get our scheds until the first day).
so does anyone have any advice about what to do on the first day or what NOT to do on the first day? advice with bullies, teachers, or red facedness will be greatly appreciated and rated. (link)
Im not going to lie, high school will beat you up, but, that doesnt mean that you have to be scared. The upperclassmen tend to be mean to the younger kids, just because they feel like they have that power. I recently graduated, so I can give you any advice you need about high school. Dont worry about fitting in, I did that for 3 years, and it was a total waste of time. Be happy in the skin youre in, dont try to change for anyone else. Dont fall into the stupid high school drama, trust me, it sucks!! If you need anything else, just ask :) Good Luck!!


it is ok to watch porn???...for woman??? (link)
Yes, its perfectly normal. I myself watch porn, reguarily, ha. Its normal for girls to be curious about porn, so dont feel stupid :)


i want to dye my hair like avril lavignes here:

http://cdn.news.aol.com/aolnews_photos/07/06/20060716124909990005

how do you do it? (link)
definitely go to a salon, you dont want to mess up your hair. Show them the picture, they will be able to do it.


hey, i really like wearing white eyeliner, but it never really shows up on my eye. i like to wear it above the eyelashes/on the inner part of my lower lid. any body have any good products that show up well? websites, and/or names of products.
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If youre into the white eyeliner, Id suggest getting some White // silverish eye shadow from MAC. The best I would say is "crystal avalanche". It gives you a really pretty white, sparkly finish, and really makes your eyes POP. Its a bit pricey, but definitely worth the cost.


any good powder coverup/foundation that you would suggest for less than $10? (link)
good ol' covergirl. When I dont use mary kay // chanel, I DEFINITELY go for cover girl. It definitely does the job.


i want to get white etnies. would they look bad if i wore skirts and capris or no? thanks (link)
In my eyes, yes. SHOES should only be worn with jeans // pants. Skirts, capris, shorts = sandals, heels, or wedges. DEFINITELY.


what does it mean when some 1 says "i did not mean to thump your nickel" (link)
Thump your nickel?
What were they referring to, like, how did this phrase come up?


For my 16th birthday I'm either getting a RX 8 or a Mustang GT but I can't decide which one. Is there anyone here that knows about cars that can tell me a little about both and which one is better? I looked online but I just found what each car came with. I want to know more about performance and I can't get to a car dealership until over a week.


Also, I need opinions on color. If I get the Mustang, I either want that green color it comes in (kind of like a dark lime metallic green) or black. If I get the RX 8 I either want black, silver, or dark metallic pink (special order). Thanks.
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It all depends, im guessing youre a girl since you want it pink so, are you looking for something thats cute and flashy? Or something that has lots of horsepower and speed? If youre going for speed, take the GT. Cute and flashy, RX-8. Oh and STAY AWAY from pink paint, please.


I know nothing about cars.
I'm turning 16 soon and my parents are going to by me the car I want. I want the Pontiac G6 hardtop convertible.
They just need to know how much it is.
This is what it says on the site:
Base MSRP $21,365
Invoice Price $20,190

Which price is it? Or is the price the both of those combined?

How much less is a used car usually?

This is the car:
http://www.smartcarprices.com/(5rsty355ysim2055r1yrh055)/Quote.aspx

Please help! Give me any info you can.

Also:
-Is it a safe car?
-Can I get it with 4 doors?
-Is it at all possible to get it in pink?
-Can cars be painted?
-If so, about how much does it cost?

Thank you so much!! (link)
WOW, well, for a first car, I would say no. If you want a cute car, you should look at something like an 07' Honda Accord. It is WAY safer, and probably better gas mileage.

and to answer your questions:

*in my eyes, not a safe car, just because of how it is shaped, and the size.

*Yes, you can get it in four doors, but that would be the sedan, not coupe.

*No, you cant get it in pink, you would have to get that done customized by a paint shop. Customized paint is pretty pricey so, I would hold off on that one.

*Yes, cars can be painted.

*Depends on the color and type of paint. It ranges anywhere from $1,000 and up.


What is a good first car? That is really cute and safe of course. (link)
Lets see, i can name off ALOT::

*Acura RSX -- a bit pricey, but WAY cute car.

*Ford Mustang -- The newer model, not older. The older models have been known to be pretty dangerous, but the new cars are AWESOME!!

*Honda Civic // Accord -- definitely the newer model, 2006 or 2007. They are nice.

I have many more so if you want to know more, just ask :)


Is making out and french kissing the same thing? Or can you make out without french kissing? (link)
You cant really make out without french kissing ha. BUT you can french kiss WITHOUT making out. Making out is like french kissing, with about 10x more passion in it haha. IN my mind, making out is kissing, for a long period of time, with the occasional boob // butt // any other private part grab.




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