From June 6 through the 27 I traveled to the UK. During the middle of my trip my BF emailed me and said he was leaving to go to Iowa to visit his Grandma. He was taking his best friend Felix. When I got home from the UK, I emailed my BF because I assumed he was home. He didn't reply. So I waited and waited (I also kept emailing him). This went on for about 1 month. Finally I emailed Felix and asked if the were home yet. He replied the next day and said they'd been home for weeks. I was FUMING!!! He was at home all this time. Why won't he email me. I never said anything mean or bad to hurt him, and I feel so sad. Does anybody know why he'd do this?
*** I can't call him because his dad has a very demanding job and needs the line open all the time.
Razhie answered Thursday July 20 2006, 6:27 pm: Stupid Iowa? More like incredibly stupid boy!
Frankly, I don't think you should waste your time worrying about 'why' he did this. Is there really any possible reason he could give you for ignoring you for weeks that would be acceptable? (I suppose his e-mail *might* be acting up, but even if it was that is no excuse for not attempting to speak to you at all!)
If you are friendly with Felix ask him if he knows anything about why your e-mails aren't being returned but I wouldn't simply take someone else's word on this. You deserve to get the explanation from the (ex)boyfriend himself. I don't think you'd be out of line to call his house very quickly and say "Hey, you haven't answered my e-mails in a month, are you still alive?" Otherwise you'll need to show up in person to find out what is really going on. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
duudee_advicer answered Thursday July 20 2006, 5:55 pm: Ask Felix if he knows if anythings up. Or, drop by your boyfriends house sometime to talk things over. If you're willing to wait, wait and see if he comes and talks to you. Maybe he didn't recieve the emails, just stay opitimistic. =] [ duudee_advicer's advice column | Ask duudee_advicer A Question ]
xoKimFryeox answered Thursday July 20 2006, 5:42 pm: Maybe your boyfriends email address wasnt working, or maybe he just didnt get the email. Thats strange that he wouldnt even call you for a month though, you guys DONT talk on the phone at all? [ xoKimFryeox's advice column | Ask xoKimFryeox A Question ]
DD answered Thursday July 20 2006, 5:23 pm: That is a good sign of Cheating!
If i were you, i would make a couple of surprise visits over to see him and find out what's really going on. Maybe actually does have an excuse. Doubt it though, but still drop by and see him! [ DD's advice column | Ask DD A Question ]
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