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questioning myself
tonight when i was with my boyfriend i suddenly got bored and didnt wanna be with him anymore. i started having thoughts of breaking up with him. but then like 10 minutes later he was holding me and i felt so happy! i LOVE the physical attraction we have and hes really funny but im not sure if hes right for me cause i cant always be the crazy, hyper person that i am. is it bad that i was having those negative thoughts or is it normal? any advice will be appreciated!
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Definatly normal. With my boyfriend I'm more relaxed than i am with my best friends. I think everyone is. Don't worry about the thoughts everyone doubts theyre boyfriend or girlfriend! But make sure you trust him. Because it seems that you might not trust him to be yourself around him. but if that isnt the case. If he makes you feel happy .. hes a keeper [:
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The first couple months that I was with my current boyfriend, I had thoughts about us breaking up ALL the time. I never acted upon my feelings because I knew that they were just temporary. Now, me and my boyfriend have been together eleven months, and I never have those thoughts about him, I love him so much! Those feelings will go away soon, just dont let them get the best of you!
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Well i think those thoughts are normal. Everyone thinks about that kind of stuff. U have nothing 2 worry about!
~Lucky
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It is normal me and my boyfriend break up soo much but like the next day maybe even a hour we always end up together bcuz we luv echother and we keep that in mind!!
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Of course its normal. nearly every one will have these thought at some point in a relationship.
you say you are happy when he holds you and stuff. but you dont know if u like him anymore. hum.. there is two ways this could go.
1.you could be happy because you just liked to be held and wanted. and you dont actually like him.
2.but then you could really like him still but maybe you just felt a bit down.
you say you are usuallly a hyper person. maybe you was getting these thoughts because you was down. usually when I go hyper, later on in the day I will feel really down. and some times I have also thought that I didnt want to be with my boyfriend. so that might be why was having these thoughts.
but hun, you need to figure out if it is just the love of being wanted and held. or if you do actually like him still. then if you can figure out which one is right then I can try help you abit more.
Love Zoe
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its normal depending on how long you guys have been dating alot of people think of breaking up with each other my oldest brother has thought about breaking up with his girlfriend and she the same but they always remember that they love each other and one time they did for like 2.5 seconds and then were like i love you please go back out with me so yeah it is normal
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