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Confused.


Question Posted Friday July 21 2006, 2:12 am





so my dad met his girlfriend at work one day and they started going out...ok so she has 2 kids a 17 year old son and a 20 year old daughter anyway...so i got to know her son more and more just to skip to this part after 2 months of my dad and his gf dating her and her kids moved in...ok so then one night i was with her son and we made out then my dad came in a caught us so they were makin fun of us even tho he was super pissed. anyway so within that time now they have been dating for a year and this hole time i knew her son...ok well her son is player no doubt but idk soo we figured since it didnt matter because they were just dating so it wasnt like ya know incest or anything well now me and him are like more serious and we\'ve like done things.....ya so anyway i find out yesterday that my dad and his gf broke up and hes moving out and ill never see him again. i\'m truly inlove with this boy no joke and i dont know if he feels like that tword me but i love that boy like none other. so i dont know what i should do im never gonna see him again and im like inlove with him.


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Melody answered Friday July 21 2006, 3:51 pm:
I'm really sorry about this, it must really suck. But what you need to do is talk to this boy. If you really love him, then that's the only thing you can do.

You need to keep in mind though, you said he was a player. Sorry to be so blunty about what i'm about to say, but did you ever think that maybe he just seen you as an easy piece of ass because you lived in the same house? It's a possibility, you know.

But for all I know, you both truely love each other. If he tells you he loves you also, make up a plan to where you can see each other whenever you want. Unless he's moving to another state or something, there shouldn't be a problem.

Good luck, and if you need any more information on the subject, leave me one in my inbox, ok? As soon as I get it I will reply.

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xoKimFryeox answered Friday July 21 2006, 12:03 pm:
Why wouldnt you ever see him again? Does he live in the same city as you? If its your dad thats stopping you from seeing him, maybe you should explain to him that just because him and his girlfriend broke up, doesnt mean he needs to stop you from seeing the guy you love. Love always finds a way, if its meant to be, you'll know, trust me.

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tosh13 answered Friday July 21 2006, 5:23 am:
Confussed,
Talk to him about it make sure you guys both like echother or love i wouldnt tell him right now if you love him but if he says he does then he will no where to contact you since he lived with you . You guys can still talk on the phone or internet or whatever you have ask him where he is moving but if he is moving out of the town you live try and moveon but you guys can still tlak i hope i gave you the right advice!!!

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grkadvisor answered Friday July 21 2006, 3:18 am:
THIS IS GOING TO BE THE WORST NEWS OF YOUR LIFE unless you think you and him could handle a long distance relationship but you said he was a player himself so i dont think it would but if you can thats great im happy but you said he was a player and that mostly ends up only getting you hurt worse if you find out he has been cheating on you a part of me wants to say DONT WORRRY ABOUT DISTANCE because me and my girlfriend have been going out for almost a month now and she lives in RI and I live in VA but my love for her is so strong that it doesnt matter how far we are that it doesnt matter because we love each other ANYWAYZ getting off topic its only human nature to fall in love with someone who you have become attachted too especially if you have done the "Naughty Naughty" newayz its better to have loved and be hurt than never to have loved at all I dont know who said it but he was right :-D ive only fallen in love 2wice once she didnt love me back and the second time i new it was perfect which is now I hope you find the glory and happiness i have found I wish you the best of luck and hey it doesnt hurt to try a long distance relationship p.s. if you want to talk about things more and need someone to talk to just im me on grkpimpva or ilyrosemarie on AIM or just email me at greekfriend90@hotmail.com im alwayz willing to help sorry ive taken up so much of your time but i thought you could really use some advice haha oh wait thats why you have that on here lol catcha lata

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