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my friends on the "bad" path
okay well my best friend is turning into a big pain. she always says that she's better than me and makes me feel bad and everything. she drinks a lot and has sex and everything she shouldn't be at 15. she always talks about sex and she says im a stink at parties, but she's never been to a party with me. she thinks that im stuck up because im still a virgin. what should i do? please answer. 5's for those serious people
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You said best friend? I don't think a true friend would act like that. Talk to her about it, and have a real deep conversation because you need to let her know you don't like the way she is treating you. If things dont change then realise theres better people out there. You don't have to completely stop being her friend, but seeing her less would help, if things dont work out.
Hope I helped
♥ Dani
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Well i think you need too loose your friend im sorry but you dont really wana be like her and stuff soo try to hang out with other ppl !! or you can talk to her about the situation and then maybe she will change !! hope i helped !!
♥ Samra
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well, w/e you do, dont follow in her path. God says not to have sex until you are married! good luck!
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Don't let her bring you down like that or let her pressure you into doing things you don't want to. Honestly, it seems like she's throwing her life away. Don't do the same things she does. There's plenty of time for parties and such when your older. 15 is just too young to be doing that kind of stuff. Just because you're a virgin doesn't mean you're stuck up. You just feel it better to wait. And that's good. She doesn't seem to be a good friend to you if she treats you like how you say she does. I hope I helped you.
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Well first of all a true friend wouldnt pressure you into doing something you don't want to do and i'm sorry you probably didnt want to hear that. ALso I used to have a friend like this and she was into sex and guys and drugs, everything. We were so close and then I started to realize that I was getting into trouble and it didn't seem like she cared at all. Now this girl is at a school for people that can not behave in a regular school and she has been caught by a police officer drunk and high. Luckily we were not friends anymore, so I was not with her. My advice to you would be to try talk to her about everything she does and how you don't want to di all this, and if that doesn't work maybe you should spend some time away from her. Hope I helped and good luck!
*Elizabeth*
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Oh wow honey..This is the bad news fairy shaking some "Wake up" dust on you. You need to get out of this friendship. She's verbally abusing you and putting you down because you're doing the right things. Do NOT let her bring you down with her. She drinks, she has sex, that's her problem. You honestly need to sit her down and talk to her about this and ask her why she says these things. Request for her to stop, to save your friendship. If she persists...you need to end the friendship.
Never let someone put you down for what your moral values are.
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You don't need a friend like that. A friend wouldn't talk to you like that. She's obviously trying to get you to have sex and party hard. What is the point of drinking, honestly? If you believe in not having sex for whatever reason, who is she to tell you what to do? Don't listen to a word she says. She's a bad influence on you and not a good person to associate with.
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Hey you are not a pain trust me n your not stuck up 4 not having sex trsut me you dont wanna have sex till u are ready i lost my V card over the summer and i wish to GOD i could take it back so yeah. The reason i wish i could is becasue the boy i had it w/ said he has Hurpers...but he was playing but if you think about it he could have in my whole life has changed n i havent talked to him since so yeah
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aww. i am sorry to tell youu, but this seems like a girl who is just hanging around youu to bring youu down. maybe she feels insecure about herself or she has problems at home/with friends. seems like she might be one of those "if i go down, youu come down with me" kind of people. it would NOT be smart to sit and tolerate that, because she really CAN bring youu down. this really is not fair, but it is true. hun, i hope everything works out and that youu find some really good friends. maybe if youu don`t talk to her for a while, she will realize what she is doing. if she doesn`t, i don`t think youu will have a hard time getting over youur lost friendship.<3
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Welcome to peer pressure! I would stop being friends with her. Talk to her and tell her how her actions can affect her like if she has sex with too many people she can can get an STD or aids, or get pregnate. Also if she drinks too much she could die of alcohol poisoning. You are the smart one in this situation. Stay the way you are don't give in to her. I think deep down she is insucre and wants someone to do be able to do those kind of things too. You aren't stuck up at all she is just trying to make you give in to her and tell her that if she keeps this up you aren't going to be friends with her anymore. Trust me it will be worth it in the end.
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ok this girl isn't a friend. she's putting you down because she has so much shit in her life... it she has to do all these things to be happy, she has issues and shes jealous of you. whether you're a virgin or not shouldn;t make a difference. she probably wants to push you into doing it so she doesn't look as slutty, know what i mean? i want to slap her. ok DON'T, i'm just saying... keep your head and don't stoop to her level! <3
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ignore her...shes on the entirely wrong path...but ur on the right path. if she gets to be to much of a pain meaning...a bad influence then i would find some new friends b/c (not to insult your friend or anything) your friend is going to end up a slut that sleeps around and is drunk all the time. and by the way you are not stuck up for being a virgin at your age...i think thats actually a good thing...
~hope i helped
~plez rate
***funkymunky***
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first of all, if she is saying all of this stuff to you and about you, shes not your best freind!! second, its a good thing that your still a virgin and dont drink. dont let anyone tell you different. the only advice i can give you is to sit her down and talk to her. tell her how you feel about how shes acting towards you and what shes doing to herself. i hope that helped and i hope everything works out. 8)
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