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Hey. My name is Danielle. I'm 13 and live in Florida. I am just starting this , so dont expect anything to BIG and BEAUTIFUL looking just yet. Im just tryin to give advice, and I absolutely love doing it. Dont be afraid to ask anything, i don't bite. lol



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i dont really have any close friends.. i mean i do like 1 or 2 but i dont have any best friends either.. its starting to bother me because alot of other people have close and best friends.. what can i do so i can make my friends and i to be closer friends? i really need help ..easy 5 unless your mean

Who says you need more close friends? I am going through the same thing. I have 2 close friends.. and I see other people have a lot of close friends. It just depends on who you are. And it basically means your unique and your not like every other person walking by. You should be happy with your friends!

Hope I helped
♥ Dani

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i need to know if a C is a bad grade?

It is not a bad grade, it's average!

Hope I helped
♥ Dani

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okay well my best friend is turning into a big pain. she always says that she's better than me and makes me feel bad and everything. she drinks a lot and has sex and everything she shouldn't be at 15. she always talks about sex and she says im a stink at parties, but she's never been to a party with me. she thinks that im stuck up because im still a virgin. what should i do? please answer. 5's for those serious people

You said best friend? I don't think a true friend would act like that. Talk to her about it, and have a real deep conversation because you need to let her know you don't like the way she is treating you. If things dont change then realise theres better people out there. You don't have to completely stop being her friend, but seeing her less would help, if things dont work out.

Hope I helped
♥ Dani

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i complain alot.. is there any way were i can stop complaining because ppl say that i complain alot

Haha. Well try thinking positive. Dont always notice all the bad things first, or not at all. It will take some time to get used to. But before you know it you will not be a complainer! Talk about a lot of good things in your life, everyone can do that.
Hope I helped
♥ Dani

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Occasionally I'll just catch a 'glimpse' of a girls chest when I'm talking to her, sometimes they notice, sometimes they don't. Do you think its rude or offensive? I don't do it on purpose, but I do realize when I do it. If most would rather that not happen then I'd try to stop. So what do you think?

You shouldn't really worry about it. If a girl gets offended.. they will say something , but they understand that it's more than normal.

Hope I helped
♥ Dani

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this will be very long. so please just read it and help me ok? good?

well it all started back in well like april. i met my best friend's cousin and i had a crush on him. but the summer before that he was forced to move out of state to live with his dad. so i mean i liked him but i didnt see anything coming out of it. then that july he came back for the summer. and on my best friend's birthday me her and him went bowling. that was fun but to the bathroom and they set me up! when i came back he "got up to go get a drink" and she told me that he liked me and wanted to know if i liked him... so i was like heck yah i do! well since we were having so much fun we all spend the night at my friend's house (her, him and me) and she went to bed at like 2 AM and me and him stayed up late and well we started kissing and stuff and all we did was kiss but i really liked him and the next week he had to leave for his dads and the summer was over. we talked on the phone for a while back and forth but becuz he hates it down there he makes himself really busy so that he never has to be at the house. but before he left on the day he was leaving i took this rubber band of his hand and was popping him with it. when he was leaving i tried to give it back to him but he told me to keep it. so i did and then later when we talked on the phone we made a bet. that i could/couldnt keep up with it until he came back for christmas. and me being me said "i need a bf" and he siad "well if/when i get to move back there you'll have one" i was like yay! but the thing is i am not good with waiting. so i have a bf now and all that. and i love my bf and wouldnt dump him for her cousin. so when he comes back for christmas (in about 2 weeks) what do i do???? do i give him that rubber band back? (yes i still have it) can me and him be friends without the akwardness? i want to be friends do you think he will? i am in love with my bf but i still have a thing for this other guy. i will not let myself lose my bf. but well advice please!

It sounds like you and the first guy really hit it off. I'm sure the whole thing will be fine, you just have to think positive. You definatly shouldn't leave your current boyfriend because of him. Besides, the cousin lives far away from you and long term relationships just dont work. If you love your boyfriend, then thats all there is to it. You can tell the guy thats visiting, you still want to keep the rubberband to remember the friendship. Or if you dont want it, then go ahead and give it to him and tell him to remember the friendship. He should understand.

Hope I helped
D A N I ♥ ♥

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I wanna show the nation my appreciation: Girl your my angel, your my darling angel. Girl your my friend when I'm in need, baby

does anyone know the name of this song...and who sings it? easy 5

The songs name is Angel by Shaggy.

♥ Dani

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i just found out that one of my friendds like my boyfriend..im afraid he's going to dump me and like her..what do i do? how do i keep him!!! i love him soooo much.

If she is your friend, lets hope she wont let that happen. Talk with your boyfriend, make sure he is happy with the relationship. I'm sure he is happy, but if not then you don't need him anyways. Talk to your friend too, tell her how much you like him, and hopefully she will find a new guy to crush on.
Hope I helped
Dani ♥

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my boobs have been really itchy lately? like really itchy. whats going on? besides that there growing....

If your nipples itch, its just a side affect of them growing. Thats all there is to it!
Hope I helped
♥ Dani

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do guys like it when girls shave you know where or do they like it trimmed better

It depends on the guy. A lot of guys say that they dont like it completely shaved because the girl looks like they haven't matured yet. Do what you feel like, or if you have a partner, ask him!
♥ Dani

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ohk so im not the worlds greatest dancer, are there anythings i can do to become a better dance cause when i go to parties i hate it cause i dance but i cant dance i look like a fool. so if you have any tips please help me im desperate!!! (i mean like dancing at a party not a dance class)

the capability to dance is something you are born with. I know , it sux. As long as you have confidence and look confident you will be absolutely fine! Of course, you can just play music at home and pretend like your at a party to help you practice. Just move to the beat. I hope I helped!

♥ Dani

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whne is the right age to start wearing makeup??

I think 7th grade is the year you start seeing everyone wearing make-up. But of course, it is up to your parents, and whenever you feel like you need to wear it!

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What shoudl i do when me n my friend keep gettign in to fights for no reason and aour last one was a BIG one n we havent really talked since! should i say something to her or what?! i mean we made up after our last fight n we sadi everything was all good! what should i do!
need advice
ASAP!

This always used to happen to me, me and my closest friend would get into the smallest , stupidest fights! We barely ever argue now that we have matured. I think you should DEFINATLY talk to her. You don't wanna waste time being enemies with her, when you guys could be friends. See what happens, its worth a shot.
Hope I helped ♥
Dani

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mmm i really like this guy and i don't know what to do! we like talked a little last year on the alst day of school. but now he always looks at me and stuff. and is friend moved to england and they talk about me but what should i do??

You should say hey to him next time you catch him looking at him. Make sure you show that your interested, before you know it you guys will start flirting with eachother more and more. I hoped I helped. If you need to ask any more questions I am here

Dani♥

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I was reading a bit on dumping in a book called "the teen survivle guide for guys" and it said that if you dump a girl then beg to get back in the relationship, she will hate your guts and it will be nearly impossible to get back in the relationship. I am asking if there is any safe way to brake up. Like telling her we should be just friends for a while.

There really is never a safe way to break up. I know, it sux! The best thing you can do is just tell your partner your true feelings.. unless of course they would hurt too bad. Don't tell her how she is being a bad girlfriend and shes doing everything wrong. Make some things lean on you, and mention that she would realise after the break up , both your lives would be easier and funner. Hopefully this will work with the situation.

Glad to help.

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