Question Posted Saturday November 12 2005, 11:04 pm
I was reading a bit on dumping in a book called "the teen survivle guide for guys" and it said that if you dump a girl then beg to get back in the relationship, she will hate your guts and it will be nearly impossible to get back in the relationship. I am asking if there is any safe way to brake up. Like telling her we should be just friends for a while.
Additional info, added Sunday November 13 2005, 12:02 am: I am just asking incase i need the info for the future. Plz dont tell me negative or negative sounding crud or i will give you a 1.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ANP answered Sunday November 13 2005, 9:03 pm: no saying we should be friends for awile will give her the wrong impression but like pull her aside and tell her you want to break up then tell her how great she is then tell her all the ways that she makes a good girlfriend well that should be good it would be for me ! well hope i helped!< allison [ ANP's advice column | Ask ANP A Question ]
twistedsister17 answered Sunday November 13 2005, 10:32 am: I agree that you should not go for the "Lets Just Be Friends" line. It annoys the crap out of girls. You should just tell her, "I really like you, but this relationship just inst working for me right now. I really do't have time for this commitment, and I would never want to let you down. I want to focus on my (schoolwork, sports, etc.)"
But make sure whatever you say, that you mean it because if you lie to her for example my friends boyfriend broke up with her by saying "I'm having family problems right now." and the next day he was going out with someone else. DON'T do that. It's always a good idea to be honest with her.
DeadMemories answered Sunday November 13 2005, 8:43 am: My Advice: Dont Go For The "I Just Wana Be Friends" Thing Because that brakes a girls heart more than anything. Just tell her its over. and forget it. [ DeadMemories's advice column | Ask DeadMemories A Question ]
xodanixo answered Sunday November 13 2005, 12:21 am: There really is never a safe way to break up. I know, it sux! The best thing you can do is just tell your partner your true feelings.. unless of course they would hurt too bad. Don't tell her how she is being a bad girlfriend and shes doing everything wrong. Make some things lean on you, and mention that she would realise after the break up , both your lives would be easier and funner. Hopefully this will work with the situation.
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