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Hey guys My name is Allison. Im here to help you in whatever way possible... dont be afraid to ask me personal questions because everyones life is probably just as crazy as yours in some way... kay thx buds... ♥ ANP

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What are some things outside with water I could do with about 18 girls...I've already thought of a water balloon fight and other ideas?? Try to keep the ideas inexpensive. Thanks WILL RATE

ge a slip "n" slide those are always fun and not to expensive me and my frieends put slippery things on us to go faster maybe u could by the racing slip n slide and have a raceing championship?h/i/h

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I'm at home right now because my mom left me here. She woke me up, gave me 5 minutes to get ready and left! Keep in mind i'm a 15 year old girl and i need like an hour to get ready. So i like threw on clothes and i was running around trying to get ready really fast but she just left. And guess where she was going? My grandma's house. She's always like this and she goes like psyco on my brother a lot too. She's not like abusive or anything but she scares me. Is this normal mom behavior? By the way i'm her 5th kid and she didn't act this way with the other 3. My brother gets so upset about it sometimes that he turns to drugs and i'm starting to get into it too. It's like we need to get away from her but to the rest of the world she's the perfect mother because around other people she's always so nice.

maybe your mom is just stressed try talking to her about it she may need some one to talk to , also tell her wut her behavior is doing to the family maybe she needs to see a conselor .h/i/h allison

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Alright;;I`m lookin for a good song to put on my myspace..I would like it to be about missing somebody who died.My aunt passed away over a year ago && i`d like to have something on there for her..i listen to rap,r&b && rock..Or it can be a song about love i have a boyfriend i`ve been with for two years.thnaks in advance

a really good song for that is hold on by good charlote its rock u may like it! h/i/h allison

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ok well im 13/f 5'1 and im 130 pounds

i want to loose 20 pounds by september

everyday this summer i will.....
speedwalk for an hour or 2
do a 17 magizne workout
eat healthy no junk
do another workout on the on demand

1.do you think its possible to reach my goal?
2.if not how much will i loose?

if you help me thank you so much i rate high!

you will defineitly lose weight i'm not exactly sure how much but you will in the time period of three monthes also only drinking diet soda and water will defineetly help! h/i/h love allison

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i want to decorate my room in black and light pink, in the cheapest way possible. I want it to be girly and stylish looking. What should I do? Please post pictures, advice, tips.. Thanks so much..ill rate 5's!

omgosh i just painted my room pink and black it was hard but now it looks so cool ,i did stripes around the room ,also if oyu want to make it gurly go to micheals the craft store and they have paint stencils for walls and they are in diff designs , and if your takeing the cheap route then get the cheapest paint possible , just be sure its for your particulular wall. h/i/h

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ok well my boyfriends birthday is coming up like really soon but i have no idea what to get him.

guys are so hard to buy for and i need help plz! lol

ok well i dont know your boyfriend so i cant give you a direct answer but maybe you can go to a store with him and see if he looks at anyhting or get him a movie that he's wanted to see! h/i/h

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whne is the right age to start wearing makeup??

ummm like 13 or forteen !! h*I*h allison

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last night I was at the movies with my boyfriend and we were making out. Then after that I noticed that he had his arm diagnal across *down there*...does that mean he had a boner and was trying to hide it?? lol thanks for the advice!!

ya he might of but you never know ! lol only he knows!

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Occasionally I'll just catch a 'glimpse' of a girls chest when I'm talking to her, sometimes they notice, sometimes they don't. Do you think its rude or offensive? I don't do it on purpose, but I do realize when I do it. If most would rather that not happen then I'd try to stop. So what do you think?

yes i'd consider it rude but it depends on the girl . but try catching yourself be fore you do it if that is impossible just pretend your looking at her shirt? lol? but i recomend not doing that but like dont be known for doing that ! lol hope i helped

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I have no clue what to get my girlfriend for christmas. I don't want to get her makeup or cosmetics because i know nothing about that stuff, and I don't want to get her clothes because I don't know if she'd like it or what her size is. So with that said, what are some gift ideas that girls like?

ok i would understand what position your in but maybe get her jewelery or something see what her fav color is and get her a ring , necklace, or braclet that color . or like see wut her fav store is then get her a gift certificat there!
and of course a card with w/e you get her but make sure you write your own words in it!! hope i helped

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this isn't really a big deal but im really nervous about it--
okay, so i go to a private school, and i have since 6th grade.(im in eighth now)And today we just got some serious news. Our school is also a church, and the church is moving to a different building next year. They pay for half of our school, and we're a poor school as it is, so we cant pay for it all on our own. So there's this school thats about 15 minutes away from my school, and its huge.Its really nice inside, and they have air conditioning (which we dont have) and its super nice there. But im so nervous because its a whole new school, new people, and im not so great at making friends. Im outgoing and hyper and stuff but my weakness is making friends, and im not really good friends with anyone in my class, so i really wanna make friends there. Im also scared that i'll get lost because its so big!please give me advice i rate all 5's!

okk hi !! umm what you should do is talk to people that you think would be more likely to be one of your friends! and talk to them dont wait for them to come up to you and if they do talk to you or ask you questions like talk loud and be really like agreeing with what they say, then again be your own person to and ask people were your classes are theen they'll remember you !! well hope i helped !!

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alright, so me and two of my friends have this problem, and we've all decided that I should ask here for advice...

The whole story is pretty long, but I'll tell the shortish version. All names have been changed.

I like this guy named Bob. I found out a few nights ago that my friend Pat likes Bob, too. And then I found out that my friend Dory likes him too (me and Pat and Dory are basically best friends). I talked to Bob about the whole situation, since we're friends. And, I found out that he sort of likes Pat. I talked to Pat about the whole thing, and she said that she's not sure if she would go out with him, because she would feel guilty, and the rest of us, me and Dory, would feel sad and/or pissed off at her, and I said that I would feel the same if I was in that sitation. Also, Bob said that he doesn't want to hurt anyone.

So... what should we do? In short, me and two of my friend like the same guy, and he kinda likes one of us.

Sorry if this is really confusing...

Help!?

ok not confusing at all !! well i think your friend "pat " is making the right choice cuz like i said my bff could date the guy i was crushing on and it like totally hurt me. if she likes him she should wait till you 2 are over him!! well hope i helped !!

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I was reading a bit on dumping in a book called "the teen survivle guide for guys" and it said that if you dump a girl then beg to get back in the relationship, she will hate your guts and it will be nearly impossible to get back in the relationship. I am asking if there is any safe way to brake up. Like telling her we should be just friends for a while.

no saying we should be friends for awile will give her the wrong impression but like pull her aside and tell her you want to break up then tell her how great she is then tell her all the ways that she makes a good girlfriend well that should be good it would be for me ! well hope i helped!< allison

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I am really not shy but i find it hard to start conversations with guys. SOmeone picked me up from the movies and i was quiet the whole time. Is their a strategy i could use or something to help me think of topics? PLease help its so akward!

ok maybe like start talking about sumthin simple like" so like wut do u like to do for fun.
then you'll have like sumthing to talk about after that like one of you too will have a another conversaion to talk about w/o being tense
hope i helped

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My dad has a girlfriend and I don't like her she's tells him what I do and then I get introuble she also treats me like a 3 year old what do I do and my dad is planning to marry her and he's already purposed and that was like in two months that he's been dating her

maybe just tell you dad how you feel about her and make him actually realize how she is treating her .if that dosen't work tell his g/f and be like dude you need to stop. hope i helped!!

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hey i ham dating this guy i met off the internet. we have been dating for a month and i am starting to get feelings for him. he already told me that he is opening up to me and the more time we spend together, the more he is likeing me even more. well he also said he could see him loveing me soon. we get along so well, i mean it feels like i have met my match but i am not for sure. i wrote him a letter telling him how i felt and i dont know if i should give it to him. so my question is should i give him the note? i feel what my heart feels and i listen to my heart. i havent felt this way since my ex about a year and half ago. i think i am in love again. but should i give him the note? please help decide what to do

Thanks, punkbaby69

giving him the note may realllly!help your relationship out if he feels the same way it might take you guys to the next level! but ask him b-4 you give it to him" do u want me to tell you how i feel about you and if he says yes give him the note if not then i think he thinks he thinks your going to fast! well hope i helped

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Well i am a grl and i like to wear boy clothes!!!
is that weird or normal?

no that is totally not weird i get boys clothes all the time !! they're so comfy but that dosent mean that you cant wear gurlie clothes you might like them to but to answer no its so perfectly normal!!

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Two questions. My mother has offered to put my girlfriend on the pill. (aka birth control) And i believe they are starting the process some time next week. Two questions i have about it.

1) Is it true that the ultraviolet radiation from a tanning bed deactivates the pill and doesnt allow it to serve the purpose its made for?

2) What are the chances of a girl whos on the pill getting pregnant? I mean of course if were going till we both finish, i'd use a condom but what about pulling out and all that?

Any girls that are pretty sure about this please lemme know. I DONT WANT A KID!!! lol

ok about the tanning bed thing i really dont know but go to safesex.com and it should probably tell you the pill and the condom are both 99% effective ya good odds! but that still dosent prone her from getting pegnant!! well hope i helped!!

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ok well i broke my wrist a coupple years ago like 2 or 3 and like the other day i was doing something and it started to hurt but now i have like a bump on my arm and i dont no what i did to make that happen but i think that i fractured my wrist but im not sure how can i tell...and i dont really feel pain in my arm when i break or hurt things.. example when i broke my wrist hella badly it didnt hurt at all and the doctors were freeking out and all tell me that it is odd that it didnt hurt at all..

how can u tell if you fracture you wrist without going to the doctor yet casuse i have to do a colorgaurd(twirling flags) thing tomorrow at 1/2 feild show for one of the biggest games that we have. and i cant go untill after that on friday.. so how can i tell?

when you fracture your arm it you can feel the pain extremly , but when it breaks you hardly feel the pain (know from experience) but if you can move you arm inall directions like bending it back or forward and to the side wiith out it hurting it should be fine it jut probably sore!
hope i helped!!

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Well ive been cruching on this guy for like EVER! well tonight i finally told him. and we didn't get to talk anymore about it b/c someone walkied around the corner. but i just want to know if it was stupid of me to tell him or not? he is like always staring at me and what not, or he was idk if he still is but i need help!

ya i've experienced that and told the guy i like for ever !! and it worked out i got over him !! it was weird but you may get over him and you may not but hopefully it works out!! hope i helped you out!!

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