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three friends, one guy...
alright, so me and two of my friends have this problem, and we've all decided that I should ask here for advice...
The whole story is pretty long, but I'll tell the shortish version. All names have been changed.
I like this guy named Bob. I found out a few nights ago that my friend Pat likes Bob, too. And then I found out that my friend Dory likes him too (me and Pat and Dory are basically best friends). I talked to Bob about the whole situation, since we're friends. And, I found out that he sort of likes Pat. I talked to Pat about the whole thing, and she said that she's not sure if she would go out with him, because she would feel guilty, and the rest of us, me and Dory, would feel sad and/or pissed off at her, and I said that I would feel the same if I was in that sitation. Also, Bob said that he doesn't want to hurt anyone.
So... what should we do? In short, me and two of my friend like the same guy, and he kinda likes one of us.
Sorry if this is really confusing...
Help!?
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ok not confusing at all !! well i think your friend "pat " is making the right choice cuz like i said my bff could date the guy i was crushing on and it like totally hurt me. if she likes him she should wait till you 2 are over him!! well hope i helped !!<allison
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you and pat and dory should all talk about this together. if pat really wants to go out with bob, then you should talk about it. if its ok with you and dory, then pat should go out with bob. it might hurt you and dory for a while, but if you feel right now that you really won't be able to stand it then tell pat. im sure she'll understand. but if you don't want to ruin pat and bobs relationship, they probably won't be going out forever anyway, so it'll be ok.
hope it works out for all of you! ♥
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It's all about your priorities. Are Dory and Pat prepared to be happy for her friend, even though she may be dating someone they also like? Friends should be there for each other and be supportive of one another. I'm not going to tell you what to do but whatever you decide, make sure all your friends are happy with that decision! :)
Hope you make the right one!
x Steph x
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Well you guys are friends ... friends are more important then guys !! LIKE THEY SAY FRIENDS FOR EVER AND BOYS ARE W/E !! well you guys wiil loose the relation ship and thats not good b/c who ever goes out with the guy they wont stay together for ever soo jus dont goo out with him who ever the person he likes ok !! hope i helped !!
♥ Samra
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just okay /i think you and your two friends are best friends and all like one guy.sounds intersting really/if you like Bob and he would not like to hurt one of you ,just be good friend,okay .also you and your good two friends continue to be good friends ,too,
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I don't know. Can you and Dory handle it if Pat goes out with this guy she ends up hitting it off with this guy? Would you guys be able to keep any feelings that you may have in check for the benefit of your friend? That is the real question that needs to be asked and answered. If yes then it no prob and Pat should go out with this guy and which is even better have the blessing of her two good friends that this guy is cool. If the answer is no then can you guys handle it if you a) keep Pat from a guy she is interested in or b) risk your friendship over a guy.
In short you guys have some questions to ask each other before Pat goes out with him. He may not be worth your friendship or you and Dory may be able to stand by your friend and her man. Think about it before decisions are made.
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