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alright, so me and two of my friends have this problem, and we've all decided that I should ask here for advice...
The whole story is pretty long, but I'll tell the shortish version. All names have been changed.
I like this guy named Bob. I found out a few nights ago that my friend Pat likes Bob, too. And then I found out that my friend Dory likes him too (me and Pat and Dory are basically best friends). I talked to Bob about the whole situation, since we're friends. And, I found out that he sort of likes Pat. I talked to Pat about the whole thing, and she said that she's not sure if she would go out with him, because she would feel guilty, and the rest of us, me and Dory, would feel sad and/or pissed off at her, and I said that I would feel the same if I was in that sitation. Also, Bob said that he doesn't want to hurt anyone.
So... what should we do? In short, me and two of my friend like the same guy, and he kinda likes one of us.
Sorry if this is really confusing...
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I don't know. Can you and Dory handle it if Pat goes out with this guy she ends up hitting it off with this guy? Would you guys be able to keep any feelings that you may have in check for the benefit of your friend? That is the real question that needs to be asked and answered. If yes then it no prob and Pat should go out with this guy and which is even better have the blessing of her two good friends that this guy is cool. If the answer is no then can you guys handle it if you a) keep Pat from a guy she is interested in or b) risk your friendship over a guy.
In short you guys have some questions to ask each other before Pat goes out with him. He may not be worth your friendship or you and Dory may be able to stand by your friend and her man. Think about it before decisions are made.
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okay, well im a freshman in highschool and theres a Senior in one of my classes and when i first noticed him he was reallly fine haha and i got to know more about him and we talk a lot and stuff, he has a girlfriend from a different school but its weird a while ago he took my phone and put his number in it and i dont know i guess 'flirts' but im not sure what i should do and if he is just doing those things and not meaning them well get back to me thanks (link)
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Im a sophmore in high school now and the one thing I that noticed is that the older high school boys like to flirt. SOme that is just their personality and some they really mean it. It is REALLY hard to figure out if their flirting is meaniful or just friendly. My advice: flirt back. see if he is avaible or not. do your research. chances are that this guy finds you interesting and you could really hit it off with himif you just send off the right signals.
But watch out. remember you are a FRESHMAN and he is a SENIOR. you don't really want to be tied down so early in high school especially with someone who is going to graduate soon and go off to college or whatever. be careful not to jump into some serious relationship with someone who may be looking for something different. Just be friends for now to keep your options open and if you really feel that he is worth it later on then try the whole relation thing.
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I like this guy, and when I say that I mean alot. The problem is, I have a horrible feeling I wont get to have him. Hes known to "get all the girls". Hes almost perfect. I think he is. Normally I'm not comfurtable around most people, but even the first day that I met him I was completly comfurtable, and the doesnt happen very often so I didnt get it. Also I dont really flirt with guys cause im not comfurtable but I do with him. He doesnt go to my school so it makes things harder. I dont think im going to get him, at all. So my question is, how do I make this feeling go away? I dont like knowing that the one person whose come around in a long time who I am COMPLETLY comfurtable with (which is extremly rare for me) is all over other girls and my chances with him might be slim. I just need to know how to get over this fast. Thanks. Sorry for ranting on. Ill rate 5's to good answers. (link)
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Have you ever seen this guy act like that with the other girls and een if so. He singles you out that means that chances with him are a bit more than slim to none. He may focus on other girls too but you have to send him the right signals back. If all he can get from you is "I'm trying to get over you. Back off" then he will go to other girls. I think that this guy could be great for you. I want you to totally and completely think this over and come to some type of decision. Hear what your friends have to say on the matter because they can probably tell you better than me seeing how they know you and this guy. Get them to back up your decision and run with it. My advice: test the waters with this guy. Flirt a little. Who knows that may be what he was looking for all along from you to give him the go ahead.
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