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I like this guy, and when I say that I mean alot. The problem is, I have a horrible feeling I wont get to have him. Hes known to "get all the girls". Hes almost perfect. I think he is. Normally I'm not comfurtable around most people, but even the first day that I met him I was completly comfurtable, and the doesnt happen very often so I didnt get it. Also I dont really flirt with guys cause im not comfurtable but I do with him. He doesnt go to my school so it makes things harder. I dont think im going to get him, at all. So my question is, how do I make this feeling go away? I dont like knowing that the one person whose come around in a long time who I am COMPLETLY comfurtable with (which is extremly rare for me) is all over other girls and my chances with him might be slim. I just need to know how to get over this fast. Thanks. Sorry for ranting on. Ill rate 5's to good answers.
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Nobody's perfect. Don't think you're "not good enough".
I'm betting you have a fear that romantic inclinations would kill the "friendship" or whatever it is you already have. Things will be how they will be, so just let it happen, if it happens.
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Have you ever seen this guy act like that with the other girls and een if so. He singles you out that means that chances with him are a bit more than slim to none. He may focus on other girls too but you have to send him the right signals back. If all he can get from you is "I'm trying to get over you. Back off" then he will go to other girls. I think that this guy could be great for you. I want you to totally and completely think this over and come to some type of decision. Hear what your friends have to say on the matter because they can probably tell you better than me seeing how they know you and this guy. Get them to back up your decision and run with it. My advice: test the waters with this guy. Flirt a little. Who knows that may be what he was looking for all along from you to give him the go ahead.
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You say get over, but if he's as perfect as you say he is, is this something you'd be willing to let go without kicking and screaming? Since you don't see him on a day to day basis, however, you probably have less of a perspective of his true personality. He might seem almost perfect but the only time you can truly see what kind of person he really is is how he interacts with others. You say that you are comfortable around him, why are you not comfortable with yourself enough to pursue him? Don't worry about other girls' chances when it's about YOU and what YOU do. When playing a sport, say soccer, can you really put numbers and percentages on your chances of winnings? Sure you could but that makes the game completely pointless if we have calculators to play for us. Yes it does play a role but as you know underdogs sometimes pull up top. It depends on determination and confidence in yourself. Try again. ;)
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I think that just because you're comfortable around this guy doesn't mean that you two could have a working relationship. You say he a ladies man? Ever wondered why? Girls tend to feel comfortable around guys that attract girls by changing the way they act around everyone, even if they seem perfect, he could be a player or something. What I'm trying to say is that dont just assume something might have come out of it because yoou felt comfy around him, even if you dont normally around others. Its smart of you to decide to let it go, unless he likes you too, annd, you sound like an honest person so I hope you find someone else who you can be comfortable around =).
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