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Do you consider it rude?
Occasionally I'll just catch a 'glimpse' of a girls chest when I'm talking to her, sometimes they notice, sometimes they don't. Do you think its rude or offensive? I don't do it on purpose, but I do realize when I do it. If most would rather that not happen then I'd try to stop. So what do you think?
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Most girls will definately notice if you are looking at her chest.
It depends on the girl.. they might be Trying to get you to or they may think of you as preverted.
But the way i think of it is that your a guy and its only normal for males to do things like that.
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I don't think you're being rude or anything as long as it's not like a prolonged look. I mean its a habit for us guys to stare at a womans breasts if we like them, but as long as you're not like "talking to her breasts" when you speak to her, it shouldn't be a big deal...
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You shouldn't really worry about it. If a girl gets offended.. they will say something , but they understand that it's more than normal.
Hope I helped
♥ Dani
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That's how guys are. I think it's rude though if a guy looks at your chest more than he looks at your face when you're talking.
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I think your noraml and i`ve noticed that guys do it.. i don`t exatly take it offensive i just know how guys can be and i say something to the guy when i notice it.. ♥ Dez
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yes i'd consider it rude but it depends on the girl . but try catching yourself be fore you do it if that is impossible just pretend your looking at her shirt? lol? but i recomend not doing that but like dont be known for doing that ! lol hope i helped <3 allison
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most girls would find it rude, but others well i have no clue but i think it is rude.
~mackenzie
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Well it depends on hat you thinking when you are looking at them Some girls get offensie especially if they are trying to talk to you then you should look them in the eye and listen. And some girls like b/c it makes them feel attractive. It depends on the person. If you find a person who is sweet and innocent they will ind it offensive. If you find someone who is outgoing then it wont be they wont mind it at all. I mean you are a guy so that is in your nature to do that.
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You sound like a normal typical guy, except you fell bad about it. If it really bothers you go talk to someone about it maybe your a nympho or got a breast phetish, all I can tell ya is to try not to and if it starts to control your life, which i doubt it will, go talk to someone.
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um, So long as you aren't staring with your tongue hanging out on the floor...I think a glimpse is OK.
Really, guys are just going to look. Any girl who doesn't already know that by now should. It is just a natural draw for a guy.
Unless one of them slaps you up side the head...don't worry about it. It will only make you look. ;)
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well most girls dont really like it when guys do that. it makes them look like their not paying attantion and their imagening things that you guys imagine lol
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Depends on whos chest your staring at. Some girls take it as a compliment. Girls who have any dignity find it offensive. I don't advise you to look to be completely honest, it's sketchy. If your looking for a FRIEND or a GIRLFRIEND, or simply somebody that you plan on having an actual relationship with, it's not a good idea. I do think it's great that you asked! That means you actaully have feelings and care! Good Job!
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I personally approve to staring at girls' chests, because if we weren't meant to look at them, they wouldn't stick out.
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Well I think that if you just check them out, its not rude, but if you are just staring or keep looking back, then it is, and thats horrible. Keep the focus on her and look in her eyes. But a glimpse is okay. Especially if the girl is wearing something lowcut, then shes asking for it anyways lol.
But yeah its a guy thing so dont worry about it.
wait you are a guy right? lol
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well its ok. like you cant really help it. some girls dont care and some girls will care, the ones that make a big deal out of it just be like "sorry" or something like that. you cant really control it. it just happens, and if they say something to you, you can either say "sorry" (which makes it obvious that you were looking at her chest) or you can say " i really like your shirt" (and try to cover it up)
i dont find it rude or offensive. its not your fault.
hope i helped!
<3,
brunettecutie **
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I don't think it's very rude .. it's not exactly your fault, and after all, it's not like you're touching her or anything. All you're doing is looking, which isn't really that bad 'cause she probably won't even care if you look at them a little bit.
<3 mystical_breeze
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well.. its a normal thing.. but just don`t look too long otherwise she`ll notice and you`ll need to apollogize.. *mary
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You can't really help but notice. If you get evil looks, appolgize. if not, move on.
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Since you're a guy and all ( right? ) then it's not rude or offensive. It's a normal thing to do so don't worry about it.
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nahhh you're a guy..right? haha sorry if you're not =) i think it's totally a guy thing, so don't feel bad about it. if you do it on purpose it's offensive. juss try to keep focus on their eyes & stuff.
-hope that helped!♥
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