Hey I`m Mary, I have had this for a while but I am just now getting back to it. I love giving advice and you can ask me anything. I`ll try to help in any way I can. thanx
E-mail: Maryberry0506@aol.com
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Age: 14
Member Since: November 13, 2005
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hey i have a bit of a problem. When my mom met my boyfriend about two to three weeks ago, she told me after he left that she thinks he looks dirty( his clothes look dirty, his hair, ect). I looked at my boyfriend this morning and i see what she means. i love my boyfriend, dont get me wrong but he looks like he doesnt brush his teeth, his hair was a mess, he had stuff in his eyes and a stain on his shirt. (Just to let you know, we go to a private school which requires us to wear a uniform). At times, he smells too. I dont know how to tell him with out sounding mean or rude. Is there any way to say something about it?
another thing is, i notice how in class today, he sits right next to me in both the classes we have together, that about half of the time, he will talk to my friend that sits right next to him and he is always hugging other girls and calling them "sexy". this kinda gets me mad/jealous. I dont know how to tell him with out sounding like...annoying. Most of the times when we are hanging out in the morning, i will be talking to him and one of his friends will walk by and he will go and talk to them. What should i say to him about it? I hate getting ditched like that.
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wow... i mean do you truly love him? i mean bcause it soudns like he doesnt treat you with respect or the relationship with respect.. you really should confront him about everything thats on your mind it will let you both see how you still feel about eachother afterwards towards everything.. i mean who knows it could help the relationship or destroy it butthats teh chance youve got to be willign to take to get things straight... okay well i hope i helped! goodluck! thanx :)
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ok well, here we go. ive been going out with my bf for almost a year now, and i LOVE him so much. but the thing is i SERIOUSLY think he deserves ALOT more than me. and today i got braces on for the second time and i look REALLY bad. i dont want him to freak out on me and i dont want to be a bad gf AND an ugly one!!! should i break up with him or just keep it goin?!?1 im so confused and i give out 5's (link)
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hunny wow.. You really need to give yourself some credit here. I mean if you both have been going out a little over a year then your boyfriend thinks he does deserve you. If he thinks your ugly with braces then it sounds like he would be a jerk if he did that. So just chill, don`t break up with him unless he has said somethign nasty to you about them. goodluck and thanx :)
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i keep having to peee
like all of a sudden really bad and then very little comes out, very often
and i havent drinkin that much today, just a small cup of cranberry juice, a bottle of water, and a can of minute maid lite...
does anyone know what this is?
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As you know we are not doctors on here. But from the sounds of it you could either have a Kidney Infection if you have side cramps that come along with it. Or a URI. You should probably see a doctor because its better to be safe than sorry! thanx :)
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My friend is hanging out with my old friend. my old friend is into bad things like sex and stuff. I don't want my friend to be around those kind of people. (link)
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I have read the other answers people have given you. This all depends on what age you are because sex can be bad if your too young and you don`t obey your parents rules. But for everyone out there that is trying to help there friends because of the bad coices they make, you really cant do a thing about it. You cant control your friend but one thing you can do is confront them. If they do not respond to this well then end the friendship to let them know you were serious and that you do not want to be aroudn this kind of behavior. thanx :)
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I dated this guy for like six weeks, feelings got involved mostly on my behalf, but I broke it off because he freaks when he gets close to people and I didnt wanna get hurt, hes too young (17, and I am 21) and I felt like I paid for everything (His train down to see me, cinema, food, clubbing, presents) he only ever got me one thing on valentines day that cost £3.00. It gets worse as I HAVE to see him every week in my youth group, and I still have feelings for him. Mt friends define him as poison, how do I deal with this situation of seeing him every week?
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heyy... well if you have to see him each week, then you should really talk to him and set things straight so nothing will be awkward between the both of you. Tell your friends to just leave the situation alone and that the past IS the past. Thanx :)
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is it true that when girls play hard to get that guys like that girl more ??
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heyy.. well let me tell you that diff. guys want diff. things.. liek some guys want a girl to give them everything and other guys want you to make them work for it... so just go with it whatever happens, happens.. its not always true, there are always exceptions! :) thanx
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I have a problem. I don't know if my ex likes me.....I am going to this makes the 5th ballgame tomorrow and I am going to see how things will go ! Last night he sit with me and my friends Oddly. The reason he was sitting there could have been because of me or because of my friends BF Logan which he is good friends with. Me and him talked ALOT last night. my friend said "I know who she likes." and he looked back and they blurted " Kody! (thats his name)" and He started smiling at me. He always jokes with me and he walks me to my bus. So..... (link)
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awww thats sounds sweet well it really sound liek he does now just flirt or tell himk you like him b/c he may just think its a friendship so get otu there and start flirting or tell him how you feel or get a friend to ask him who he lieks either one is a good thing to do.. i hope i helped you!! *mary
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I have long dark soft silky hair..asian hair of course and i just can't really seem to curl or wavy it so i'm asking if anyone has any good ideas that would probably help me...like how much gel or hair spray and what to do. Thanks a lot! =] (link)
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to find out what to do go oto a beauty place where they seel curling irons crimpers and all that stuff.. and get help on what to use they can ususally really help
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Ok their is this guy that goes to my school he is a grade ahead of me but he always sits by me one the bus and he said i was hot and he always flirts w/ me and stuff like that so i totally thought he liked me but when my friend asked him if he liked me he said he didnt wanta go out??? whats going on>?
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well that just means he was flirting with you and leading you on.. he probably does it to other girls and no one needs a guy liek that bcuz if he was in a relationship with you he would probably lead on girls when you two were going out.. *mary
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Hey!
I usually don't ask these types of qusetions but this has really worried me. Me and my ex broke up about a month ago. I really like him. Me and him talk ALL THE TIME! Like last night when I went to the basketball game (he plays basketball yay!) he was sitting were I am always at with my friends. (my friends boyfriend is his friend). And anyway. One of my 'so' called friends said "Yeah we know who she likes. She likes Kody!" and he looks back at me and started smiling. My face turned blood red. Theres like some days we dont talk that much and some days we talk alot. He always jokes with me and my friend. I asked him today if he was mad at me and he said no. Soo whats going on? Rate all 5's! (link)
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aww that's cute.. but what this sounds liek is thta he is just waiting for the right moment to ask you out.. so keep a look out for the ?.. and talk to him alot through these days and he`ll make his decision faster about it.. *mary
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Do you have any makeup tips for me?
Or any hair style tips?
Id like to make myself look good so I can be more confident in myself.
I have blonde hair green eyes and fair skin. Im not albino light but im not tan tan
Please help! IM NOT CONFIDENT AT ALL! (link)
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well... use some pinkish blush first of all just to give your skin some color.. second since you have green eyes use some light colors of eyshadow so it can really bring out your eyes.. and some mascara like a smoke black.. and a brown eyeliner ..and some lip GLOSS thats liek a light pink or something that resembles your lip color but one color higher than it.. for hair get it layered with soem cheek bone bangs to the side... * mary
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It seems like every one is starting to dislike me. One minute people want to talk next minute they want fight but to be honest stuff like DONT BOTHER ME? My question what should I do if a boy once said he loved me but now walking around school with another person. Should i curse her out or should i just leave both of them alone. (link)
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Just dont talk to him at all or the girl.. its not her fault and its his fault for lying.. so just ignore him and dont speak to him trust me it will drive anyone crazy if they dont know what is wrong and why your made at them... *mary
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sry this might be long but i need help..i'll rate all 5's to anyone who helps and isnt smart about it.
i've been going out with my boyfriend for 4 months now. and really the only reason we went out was because i really liked him. and he kinda liked me. well lately he's been annoying.
he said he wanted to get together last weekend so i told him to call me and mayb he could come over, and he never called. and its not that he didnt come over that bugs me its the fact that HE said he wanted to do something with me. and blew me off.
any ideas on what to do here?
i've talked to him about it..and currently i probably said 5 words to him the whole day at school. so we're kinda "not talking"
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this sounds liek a rocky realationship.. it seems that both of you are not sure about the realationship that you are in and that it`s going down hill.. well if you really want to make it better.. have a long conversation with him about how you feel and how he feels.. otherwise this will go on and you will break up.. so all this really needs is a little communication.. *mary
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My boyfriends(mike) best friend(Eric) who I am also pretty good friends with told me that Mike told him that he wanted to break up with me and that he regrets giving me a second chance.
He broke up with me a few months ago for reasons I wont say but we got back together. Now, we've been getting in all of these little annoying fights so I guess that would be his reason for saying that stuff to Eric.
But, when I asked Mike about what Eric said he said, he swore on his life that he never said such things.
So know I don't know who to believe. I totally trust my boyfriend so I think I'm leaning towards him. But then again, what reasons would Eric have to lie to me?
I know this isn't a lot of information because you guys obviously don't know me of the 2 guys but who would you believe?
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don`t get yourslef caught up into it bcuz you really dont have facts about which either one said .. either one of them could of lied even if they are your friend or boyfriend bcuz people do stupid things they will regret later.. so try and breeze it off and if it happens again you should be really careful about the realtionship your in with either of them whether its a friend or a boyfriend.. *mary
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I cut myself and i want to stop!! How can i make myself stop??
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first of all realize why you are cutting yourslef confront the problem and how it could really hurt you liek your friends might treat you different, your parents might notice,.. etc.. and try to get help form a friedn that you really trust to talk to and let it all out then taking the pain out by cutting or even if you dont trust anyone tehn write it in a diary ( i know might sound weird)... bcuz really the only way you can get this to stop is making yourself stop and no one else and try a support group they don`t make you do anything but realize why shouldnt do this.. *mary
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Occasionally I'll just catch a 'glimpse' of a girls chest when I'm talking to her, sometimes they notice, sometimes they don't. Do you think its rude or offensive? I don't do it on purpose, but I do realize when I do it. If most would rather that not happen then I'd try to stop. So what do you think? (link)
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well.. its a normal thing.. but just don`t look too long otherwise she`ll notice and you`ll need to apollogize.. *mary
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Hey guys,
I know it's a little early to be asking about christmas gifts, but I was hoping someone could help me decide what to get for my really good friend and his mom. They live in a different state, but I'm really close to them. Their so nice! They plan on coming to visit me soon. Well anyways, my friend Dan is fourteen, and his mom is in her forties. I already plan on making both of them a christmas card and sending it to them, but I really want to get them each a gift. Has anyone here ever given their friends mom a christmas gift? I don't really know what types of things his mom likes, and I don't wanna ask her because then she'll know I'm getting her something. I already asked her son, but he's not sure what she would like. I also want to know what I should get Dan. I'm only asking this early, because I have to save up money before I can actually go out to buy the gifts. If someone can, please help me out! I really want them to love their gifts! Thanks in advance! (link)
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for your friends mom.. try getting her a really nice scented candle most woman love those.. and for the son try to get him a gift card for somewhere that he lieks to shop or get him something that deal with like what he likes to do (sport)... *mary
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I straighten my hair with a flat iron at night, but when I sleep on it and wake up in the morning it looks greasy. I don't have time to do it in the mornings i already wake up early enough... any suggestions?? thanks! (link)
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ya okay i had that problem for a while too.. okay first of all it isnt your flat iron its your shampoo that effects the flat iron and makes your hair greasy.. so try some different shampoos and find one that helps with the flat iron and doesnt make your hair greasy.. or go to a beauty store and ask what will help your hair with a flat iron.. *mary
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mmm i really like this guy and i don't know what to do! we like talked a little last year on the alst day of school. but now he always looks at me and stuff. and is friend moved to england and they talk about me but what should i do?? (link)
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okay there are alot fo ways to answer this ?.. but if you really do liek him and want to talk to him then you really need to.. take chances and make mistakes.. cuz otherwise if you get too scared then nothing will ever happen and you`ll always be stuck in the same spot.. so just walk up to him.. and be like how are you?.. i havent talk to you in a while.. so you actually have soemthing to talk about so you wont be so scared.. *mary
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I think my ex might like me. Please dont say " talk to him or ask him" Cause Im not readyy for that. He always smiles at me and walks me to the bus, and he waits for me in between brakes. Soo Does he? (link)
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i wish we could tell you but we really can`t.. its the same with guess we never know what there thinking.. so what you need to do if your not ready to ask him then get one of your friends to talk to him that actually know him to find out otherwise your stuck no where.. *mary
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