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Trust issues
My boyfriends(mike) best friend(Eric) who I am also pretty good friends with told me that Mike told him that he wanted to break up with me and that he regrets giving me a second chance.
He broke up with me a few months ago for reasons I wont say but we got back together. Now, we've been getting in all of these little annoying fights so I guess that would be his reason for saying that stuff to Eric.
But, when I asked Mike about what Eric said he said, he swore on his life that he never said such things.
So know I don't know who to believe. I totally trust my boyfriend so I think I'm leaning towards him. But then again, what reasons would Eric have to lie to me?
I know this isn't a lot of information because you guys obviously don't know me of the 2 guys but who would you believe?
18/f
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Don't let someone else tell you how your boyfriend feels. Regardless of whether it's accurate or what reason there might be for telling. Usually that causes more trouble than might have been in the first place.
Seeing as the can has already been opened though, there are some points to be considered. It is possible your boyfriend said something like what Eric repeated, but you admitted you've been fighting and Mike might have said it when he was worked up. As hard as it is, it's best to let go of those things. While they can be vaguely useful, people do tend to say horrible, false things when angry.
I don't thing this is a matter of who to believe but people needing to cut out the drama. If you feel there might be honesty in the comment, you need to work it up yourself to have a calm discussion with your boyfriend about what problems you have. Messengers are innapropriate for relationship issues.
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well, eric COULD be jealous and like you but im going to answer this question assuming he doesnt. It doesnt really matter whether or not mike told eric he is going to break up with you. what matters is whether or not he does. Obviously, if he doesnt he either said no such thing or didnt mean it. If he does break up with you, it was a decision he had already made and there was really nothing you could do to prevent it anyway. hope i helped.
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ok, I got feedback, but I dunuo how to reply....lol...I'm a newbie..can someone help plz?
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ok if your bf says he doesnt want to break up with you. why worry about it?
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don`t get yourslef caught up into it bcuz you really dont have facts about which either one said .. either one of them could of lied even if they are your friend or boyfriend bcuz people do stupid things they will regret later.. so try and breeze it off and if it happens again you should be really careful about the realtionship your in with either of them whether its a friend or a boyfriend.. *mary
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Like you said yourself, why would Eric lie to you if you're good friends? I could never see anyone making shit up like that just for the hell of it. Mike, though, does have a reason for lying. If he really did say it then why on earth would he tell you? Yeah you want to believe your boyfriend but I guarantee you that Eric is probably the one you should believe.
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Get them both together and ask them when their both there and see what they say. Maybe he just getting sick of the little fights. Did he say it when you guys were fighting?, because maybe he just said it out of anger. Who starts the fights if he does then maybe its a sign of him not wanting to be with you.
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eric might lie to you because maybe he likes you. if he does like you, he could've told you that to make you brake up with mike so that he could maybe have a chance. i dont know, if i was in that position i would sit them down together and talk to them at the same time but then again i always put my freinds before my boyfreinds. well, sorry i couldnt be that much of a help. i hope it helped a lttle and i hope everything works out. 8~)
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