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break and braces
13/f
ok well, here we go. ive been going out with my bf for almost a year now, and i LOVE him so much. but the thing is i SERIOUSLY think he deserves ALOT more than me. and today i got braces on for the second time and i look REALLY bad. i dont want him to freak out on me and i dont want to be a bad gf AND an ugly one!!! should i break up with him or just keep it goin?!?1 im so confused and i give out 5's
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ansley - OHMYGOODNES! first of all girl everyone is beautiful in their own way!! if this boy likes you he likes you for who you are not what you look like and thats what really matters! and if you really like him you shouldnt break it off because looks arent everything. its great you care about your boyfriend but you dont need to change to make him happy, be yourself and if he has a problem with the way you look then you shouldnt waste your time with boys like that anyway! good luck<333
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they're JUST braces..
look around
more than half ur grade has them
if braces matter to ur bf..
then HE doesnt deserve YOU
<3 Lauren
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hunny wow.. You really need to give yourself some credit here. I mean if you both have been going out a little over a year then your boyfriend thinks he does deserve you. If he thinks your ugly with braces then it sounds like he would be a jerk if he did that. So just chill, don`t break up with him unless he has said somethign nasty to you about them. goodluck and thanx :)
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Wow wow wooow...stop! Relax, it aint the end of the world that you've got braces. You sed uve bin with him for nearly a year. Thats a long time, congradulations. And with a relationship dats lasted that long im sure his feelings for you are very strong. Definitly keep it going. If you give him all the love and affection that you can i'm sure he wouldnt even look for anyone else. If you really feel this bad, talk it out with him. Let him know how you feel. After being together so long it shouldnt be too dificult to do. So ask him questions about the situation. Theres no rush, you dont have to get straight to the point but after a while, find out all the answers that you need to know. I dont know how your bf feels about you, but trust me! I can tell you care for him A LOT! so dont ruin something so good. Explain that u hate the braces but when theyre off, you'll look more beautiful than ever!! Im sure he'll wait to see the new you. Show him all the love you can and make him want you, good luck with it hun. Tasha xxx
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stick with him...if he loves you than the braces won't bother him. and don't break it off with a guy unless you don't like him, not b/c you don't think you deserve him. if he is still with you than he most like you and think that you deserve him.
and i'm sure you look fine with the braces.
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NOPERS!! don`t break up with him..
If your boyfriend truly likes/loves you he isn`t going to care about you having braces..
Having braces shouldn`t matter to somebody that loves you or even cares..If anything he should make you feel better about having braces..
Stay with him && if he breaks up with you over something like that then you didn`t need him anyways..
♥Dez
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ok.. this is about you getting braces??? youve been dating this guy over a year... by now the hope is that he's dating you for more than looks. honestly, don't break up with him... tell him that you got braces, if he freaks, get over it. he will soon enough and its so not like they're gonna be on forever.
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You know what? That's all in your head. Don't ever, EVER think that just because you don't think you're pretty, he doesn't deserve you, because that's just WRONG. It would be really sad if the only chicks who are qualified to get boyfriends are the "hott" ones, wouldn't it? Just chill. You love him to death, and I am going to make the inference that he loves you back----by all means stay with him!!! Pretty is as pretty does. "Beautiful" is only the media's standard of what looks good. Do you honestly think that a relationship should be ended just because your lips are thinner or your nose is flatter, or just because of some stupid wires in your mouth? Look at this in perspective. If he breaks up with you because he thinks you're ugly, you should stab him....just kidding. Please don't stab your boyfriend for sanity's sake, but honestly, if he's really that shallow, he's an infantile asshole who doesn't deserve anyone.
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just be yourself a good guy will accpet you the way you are and you don't need to freak out about the way you look because if he's this perfect guy then he shouldnt have a problem with the outside he should think about the inside
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Well, I would suggest staying together with him. If you break up with him just because of what you just said, it would reeeaaallly break his heart. If he breaks yours, then, im sorry to say this, but just move on, its ok to cry. If he calls you ugly, he obviously isnt the best bf.
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