well first of all that really sucks how you can't get any time with your mom i understand how you feel that your mom says you need him around my mom is teh same way. shes like ohh i need help umm your fine u dont need him but whatever as kids theres nothing we can do about it! nothing so we just have to deal with it no matter hwat we want to do. i think that you should maybe wrtie down a letter that explains how you feel about him and make sure she gets that you WANT her to be happy and u UNDERSTAND the way she feels but you just wish that you can get some more one on one time with ehr without him always around. if he is really that bad then i guess you could gather proof that shows how abd he is but honestly that probbaly won't work. you just need to explain how you feel to your mom and hopefully she will understand througha letter

any guy that would go out witha girl who only gives him action is a jerk. thats all i gotta say to that one

I don't know much about this but when you put on conditioner you could always not put it in all throughout your hair but only at the roots so that you will get the moisture at the ends where it is most needed. You could awlays go to sally's beauty supply becuase they hvae a lot of great hair products for all of your problems.

Well you don't want people to use you for your money so you could always. . .
* start bringing your lunch so that they know you have no money
* tell them in a jokingly way it would be nice if they paid you backe or what happned to ur aloowane or did the money monster eat your money (wowww was that lame haha) but just joke not seirously so they dont think youa re making a big deal out of it
* say you only brought enough for yourself or you wneed it for soemthing else
* make them feel bad for you? i guess if your really desperate and say your mom or dad or whoever wants to save money for soemthing and you dont have much
*ask them for money once in a while and dont pay them back! see how they feel

good luck!

awww well that sound reallly cute im sure he will love the gift basket idea! you could also do a whole bunch of cute little things like write him a note that he could find like in his locker that will lead him somehwere else and to anotehr classroom and anotehr classroom like a scavenger hunt and end it somehwere wehere you will give him a present. if you are really brave you coulfd also give him flowers! if you are into that sort of thing.. sure it's a bit bold but different and he will love you for all of the effort that you put into the project!
you could even make him a little card and write him a cute poem! if you want some ideas you could always ask me and i can help too.
maybe you could get him balloons or his favorite cd? cltohing like a sweater isin't too hard either... when it was sweetest day someone was showing us a frame that her boyfriend ahd gotten her and he was like why didnt i think of that?! and i was like i almost gave that to you and hes like well why didn't you?? and i said idk! so i think he liked the idea maybe your bf will too

yes i agrre with the person below me and just wanted to let you know that you can't let her pull any of that okay it will be hard but ill try crap! because obviously it's hard for a reason! it wouldnt be hard if she didnt like him and she was a real friend! also if she was a real friend she would back it up and stop huritng you like that! gosh this sounds exactly EXACTLY like what happened with me i was like i dont want to be that gf who doesnt want his bf to have no friends! i want him to know i trust him and stuff which im sure you do but i understand that you dont want some otehr girls paws all over your man!!!! pshh id get so mad at her right now! hmm well if i were you i'd just try and tlak to my boyfriend more and maybe tell him to tell her to stop.. get him to be like i dont think ____ likes it when you do that or something??/ hmm but you really dont want this "friend" to get in the way of your relationship if she really is the friend she says she is

ok the first time i saw my boyfriends private parts was kinda gross at first.. so it's tottaly normal... i think that it takes little bit of getting used to and it's completely normal! dont worry!

yeahhhh she a'ight... i think so

does he have soemthing that he realy likes??? like basletbal or cars?? you can get him a little figurine or better yet make him cookies!! . thats waht i did for 1 and 2 months or maybe it was 3 you know i really don't rmemebr but you can do one of thsoe things!

i love how these people have no idea what they are talking about. i mean are u doctors? nurses? or students? my mom has been a nurse for over 30 years and she told me they CAN give you cancer i thought this was extreme and i dont think so.. but i would look it up just to be sure

hm well first of all, try tog et into teh habit of never putting clothes on the floor. eveytime you take soemthing off or mvoe it FOLD IT. try telling urself to not PUT THIGNS OFF. DO IT NOW dont procrastinate! and if you put down one article of clothing you can still stop dont say to youirself well i already have a messy room lets jsut get it mroe messed up becuase 1 shirt quickly can turn into 50 pairs and then blaahhh you got a whole tornado. and ALWAYS make your bed in the morning. also.. umm try getting storage boxes and make each box into a different category and put tehm undernearth your ebd like photos, albums, games, memories, whatever and store them all in little boxes and then into two big boxes say underneath your bed. ohh also if tehre is a lot of clutter on top of your furniture you should get rid of that i mean do you really need that old slurpee container of that movie stub from 5 days ago? dont be a pack rat and if you msut then put all that junk in a box underneath the bed. just dont keep it out because it jsut amkes teh room look messier. of you have books try keeping them on a bookshelf in order of how big they are this makes the room look a lot less messy and jsut a whole lot better,. open up the windows and maybe dust a little bit tehn vacum and viola~ good as new. try to upkeep your room for as long as possible see how long you can go keeping it clean you should ahve maybe likea day counter or soemthing and try to get that number up high, dont get discouraged. jsut be paitent and youll learn to lveo to keep your room clean slowly

no go fuck yourself=]

or.. how about no?

I think that before you consider having a friends with benefits thing tehn you should really figure out if you adn this guy are on the same page. You dont want it going arounda nd people calling oyu all kidsn od different names, and you dont want the guy to think that you like him so it really jsut depends on you and this guy. I;ve had that happen to me before and it got around and elt me tell you it was a rough few next weeks. be careful ... its a risk that some people shouldnt take

you could say that your not ready for a reltionship, or say that you dont feel that way about him. your not ready to start up a reltionship, and it will just tkae you time or soemthing like that

Zeus =]

well. first of all you have to remember to be patient and dont give uyp! thesres not quick fix to problems like this. anyway, try sticking to the same routine ex. try going jogging around your block once or twice for like say 5-10 mins then come back streth your whole body for a good warm up then jump on a treadmill or if you cant do that then do some MAJOR pushup and crunch acation. go back and forth for a few mins then do another lap, then come back and one more time say 15 pushups, 15 crunches, then rest a lil but STRETCH always take advatnage you should never jsut sit there and if your gonna sit then STRETCH. then do anotehr lap. try 1-2 hours of keeping your heart rate up once your done with that you can streth some more to loosen it up. sometimes getting a buddy may help you go further but you would ahev tog et someone who wants to work toward soemthing you do too, someone supportive and if that doesnt worjk out its always nice to be by yourself because no one can hold you backa if you wanna run a little faster if do one or two less curnches =]

at the same time you should try and uphold a healthy diet. you could have cereal, a bagel and lowfat cream cheese, then lucnh a turkey wrap, juice and an apple and then dinner you could have lean meat and some pasta lots of veggies and leafy ones too! you might want to cut back on those soft drinks at tehs ame time because as good as they amy seem if you want to see progress your going to ahev to be willing to sacrific some of thsoe things you :love". Think about it this way, the harder you work the further you will get but dont get siscourgaed if in a week you dont see reuslts! wait it out for 3 or 4 weeks and then chekc the sacle. you could keep track of your weekyl weight and then see your progress in time.

as you do this sally hansen has this awesome tightening lotion whci makes your stomach looks much tigether INSTANTLY, it coems in a green bottle. try looking for it in cvs or rite-aid or soemthing. and if your about to swim or you know your gonna be out crunches tighten your muscles once againINSTANTLY! and you see reuslts FASt truest me i read it in seventten and tried it too.
good luck!!!!! just focus on the goal im sure you can do it!!

mmmhm yum let me think . . i love tortellini those noodles that are like 3 differnyt colors and come on who doesnt love pasta??? Also chicken alfredo is good and yeah kind of original but hey you asked the qurestion i really really REALLY like sweet and sour chciken! fried rice umm egg rolls are good too, ohh MOSTACIOLLI!!! thats really good

i heard eveyrthing from every 5 second to every 3 mins to maybe anything inbetween there

you could do what those two people said but if your sweating is continually bad and you cant stop it, AFTER youve tried alot of products then you might want to tlak to your doctor about a product called hypercare whcih i have been usuing for peple who sweat alot (like me) and now its so good you dont even use deoderant... might want to check it out

hmm well i love this question becuase i love music!! anyway if you want some unique artists then you might want to go with this guy mika and his songs "love today" or "relax (take it easy)" his stuff is pretty unique and you might have heard it before on mtv or vh1 but never knew who teh artist was, and they are good songs too. also the song "the river" by good charlotte is pretty good also it's a rock song so if you in that sort of thing...

some more songs are
"emerge" by fischerspooner (this one is like techno and loud and huge bass haha but its cool)
"gone so young" by amber pacific ahhh this song is so effin good!!!

also a uniquye song would be champagne supernova by oasis
or forever young by tune up which is just a new twist on an old classic


hope you like the songs and good luck on your presentation!! =]

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