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I Hate my step dad
I hate mystep dad really much and i waant him out of my life. nobody in my family wants him here but my mom. she acts like she cant do things on her on when she realy can so she she has to ask my step father when i can do it. hes always following her like a lost puppy and i cant even speak with her for one minute without having him right there behind us listening. what should i do?
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well first of all that really sucks how you can't get any time with your mom i understand how you feel that your mom says you need him around my mom is teh same way. shes like ohh i need help umm your fine u dont need him but whatever as kids theres nothing we can do about it! nothing so we just have to deal with it no matter hwat we want to do. i think that you should maybe wrtie down a letter that explains how you feel about him and make sure she gets that you WANT her to be happy and u UNDERSTAND the way she feels but you just wish that you can get some more one on one time with ehr without him always around. if he is really that bad then i guess you could gather proof that shows how abd he is but honestly that probbaly won't work. you just need to explain how you feel to your mom and hopefully she will understand througha letter
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I think that you need to ask your mom if you can have a PRIVATE talk with her in (pick a room) then talk to her about the way you feel, make sure to give examples of things that bother you, but try to remain calm. Try to spend some quality time alone with her, go out somewhere as a mother daughter/son kind of thing. Try not to be too harsh, but you need to tell her exactaly the way you feel. Maybe even tell her, that if she could just adjust a few things in the way you live, or if she talks to your step dad about some stuff, your enviorment would be easier to deal with. GoOd LuCk!!! and MeRrY cHrIsTmAs!!!!! (or if your jewish i hope you had a happy HaNuKaH!!! <spelling?>
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