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what are some good excuses to say i dont want a boyfriend
cuz i like this guy and he asked me out two weeks ago, and i said ask me later, but now he did again this morning.
so what are some nice ways to say no? because i like this guy a LOT, i just really, truly dont want a boyfriend
kaaayyy thanks!
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You like him a lot but don't wanna date him?
Dont see how that works out O_o
But dude, just tell him straight-up.
"I like you, I just dont wanna date anyone for a while."
Dont think of "excuses" or whatnot, the boy needs to deal with the truth that you DONT WANT HIM RIGHT NOW. Hes a big boy, he can handle it =)
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"I don't like you that way, I think we're better as friends"
"I really don't want a boyfriend right now, it's nothing personal"
"I don't have time for a boyfriend right now."
or old reliable:
"I don't want to ruin our friendship"
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Tell him the truth. Let him know you really like him but before you start dating anyone you become friends first and develop a relationship from that.
Let him know that right now your schedule and life are very hectic and it would not be fair to start a relationship for him because you are not ready or wanting to do so with anyone. Make sure you include him in your activities as a friend would and tell him you will see what happens over time.
This way you aren't kicking him below the belt when you say no and you leave things open for the future. It is a classy way of handling it.
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you could say that your not ready for a reltionship, or say that you dont feel that way about him. your not ready to start up a reltionship, and it will just tkae you time or soemthing like that
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i would be like, "listen i really like you and i want to be with you, but im not ready for a relationship right now. i think you deserve someone who is looking to really be in a relationship and treat you like a boyfriend." tell him that you want to hang out with him and if hes willing to be in that kind of situation then you would love to keep seeing him, but if not then you understand and just let him know that your always there if he needs anything.
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You don't really need an excuse. Just tell him that you would like to live the single life for a while.
But if you would like to casually date him, as in being able to hang out with other guys too, you should tell him that. Just make sure he knows that there are absolutely no commitments and you're not monogamous.
Hope this helps.
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