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Im in a relationship wiv a girl called Nicola so if anyone has any questions on gays and lesbians, fire away! i love to give advice and help people out,would like to become some sort of counseller when im older, maybe. If you want help but not on this page,check out my website tasha-lindley@piczo.com and contact me there! xx

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ok well, here we go. ive been going out with my bf for almost a year now, and i LOVE him so much. but the thing is i SERIOUSLY think he deserves ALOT more than me. and today i got braces on for the second time and i look REALLY bad. i dont want him to freak out on me and i dont want to be a bad gf AND an ugly one!!! should i break up with him or just keep it goin?!?1 im so confused and i give out 5's

Wow wow wooow...stop! Relax, it aint the end of the world that you've got braces. You sed uve bin with him for nearly a year. Thats a long time, congradulations. And with a relationship dats lasted that long im sure his feelings for you are very strong. Definitly keep it going. If you give him all the love and affection that you can i'm sure he wouldnt even look for anyone else. If you really feel this bad, talk it out with him. Let him know how you feel. After being together so long it shouldnt be too dificult to do. So ask him questions about the situation. Theres no rush, you dont have to get straight to the point but after a while, find out all the answers that you need to know. I dont know how your bf feels about you, but trust me! I can tell you care for him A LOT! so dont ruin something so good. Explain that u hate the braces but when theyre off, you'll look more beautiful than ever!! Im sure he'll wait to see the new you. Show him all the love you can and make him want you, good luck with it hun. Tasha xxx

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I'm scared to death of tampons; but I need to start using them because I play volleyball and I don't want the pad to be visible. I keep trying to put them in, but they get to a point where I can't push it in anymore and it hurts so bad I want to cry. I've used almost a whole box trying to put one in; does anyone have any tips that might help this be less painful?

hi..first of all, relax coz its easier when you r relaxed. put your foot on da toilet seat if you want to. dont rush, insert the tampon at a backwards angle, like towards your bum, not verticle. makin sure that the tampon doesnt come thru the applicator. when you think you have got it far enough, push the applicator n it goes the extra little bit more in. then hopefully, if youve dun it right, it will feel comfortable and you wont b able 2 feel it. dont worry about it, it wont get lost up there so you cant insert it 2 far. when you pull it out, bend your knees a little and pull at an angle again so it slides out. hope this helps you. good luck :)

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ok i have writen before about me not wanting to be lesbians but i just cant help it. i like boys and everything its just that when i see a girl i look at her booty, her breast, her face, and i see how big her breast and nipples are compared to what i really like. i dont mean to but it is natural i guess. anyway how can i stop being lesbian and if i cant stop how do i find a girl that is my age in my area without everybody knowing? please help me!
i rate high for good answers!!1

Hey,guess wot im in the same boat! exactly! Is the reason that you dont want to like girls because you dont want people to dislike you? Im 18 and i have a girlfriend who is nearly 18. Im in love shes in love and its great! im not trying to turn u into a lesbian but if it feels right to like a girl, then keep your options open, dont hide your feelings because obviously there quite strong. I like lads too and if i wasnt with nicola, im pretty sure id be looking to b with a lad. but i liked her,she liked me and things happened. Being with a girl is soo good, theres more trust, more friendship and you can tell eachother ANYTHING!! its like the closest friendship ever, with love too. But if you really dont want to like girls, then dont worry, maybe its just a phase youre going through. Nearly every female goes through this "phase" once in their life, so dont feel abnormal. Keep going, dont let it get you down. Maybe tell someone, but let them know that you dislike it, maybe they could say the same and you could help eachother out. Anyway, im getting carried away. Dont let it get you down, be happy the way you are and dont worry bout what people do or could think about you. Its your life so live it how you want and do what make YOU happy.Good luck x

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I've been single for almost two years because all the guys like the "Popular girls" I really want a bf and cant seem to get one..can anyone help me ?


Ill rate 5's all the way♥
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It may seem that guys go for the "popular" groups, but what you need to see is that in a certain way, every one has their good qualities and these good qualities need to be expressed and shown. Not every one is stunning but then again, not all the stunning people have the qualities that come from inside. If there are any things that you love about yourself or think that they could make somebody want you, then let it out! Do what you've got to do to make people notice this quality. Think how many people are out there, you cant find the one for you in one place, you've got to go and find them most of the time. Go out, enjoy yourself, love yourself and express those qualities!! Good luck x

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