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I've been single for almost two years because all the guys like the "Popular girls" I really want a bf and cant seem to get one..can anyone help me ?
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This seems to be a problem wherever you live or whoever you are! I've heard of this problem so many times and helped people as many times as possible but the thing is...and this is VERY important...the problem isn't you...it's THEM!
Having a boyfriend isn't all it's cracked up to be, in fact most guys mistreat girls and take advantage of them, I would say that about roughly 80% of guys mistreat girls!
It's nice to be with someone and spend time with them, don't get me wrong but sometimes guys just ain't worth it!
Trust me, I know! I'm a guy!
I'm sure that you're a great girl so remember that it isn't you that's the problem...it's others! If people cannot see you for the lovely person that you are then it's their problem, not your's!
When it happens, it will happen! You can't rush love!
Take care and I hope it works out for you!
Ry21!
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if all the guys lyke pouplar guys than i wouldn't worry about him. i would go for someone who is worth my my tyme! if he hasen't shown any interst in you yet my guess it he probably won't! you should look for a guy who is worth your tyme and likes you for you! hope that helps.
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i dont know if i will help because i am the popular girl and i date the popular boys. but if you really like a guy, drop hints and he may give in.
hope i helped!
kathryn
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It probably just seems that way. In every school it seems that way. All the guys go for the popular girls. But, it's not really true. There are a ton of guys who would never think of going out with a popular girl. Just show a little more confidence and be more open. Trust me it will work.
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I really feel the same way. Im a geek, I have like 10 friends, and im not so pretty (www.myspace.com/xojackieszaboxo)
Anyways, I have had boy trouble all my life. I keep my eye on this boy, and I wear tight jeans, tight shirt, and he was gettin into it. My friend calls me and goes I have some news... he likes Haley.
I wanted to cry. The boy I wanted liked my best friend!!
(This happend last night)
Im really mad. But theres tons of people who think they are so awesome, but the truth of the matter is, they arnt. We have alot of popular people at our school, yes the boys all go after them. But there are a few really nice guys out there who woould rather have smart girl then a popular girl. Thats the truth of the matter
Hope I helped a little.
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"popular girls" suck. Just focus on a boy you like and let him know youre better then those ... At least in middle Europe it works.
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It may seem that guys go for the "popular" groups, but what you need to see is that in a certain way, every one has their good qualities and these good qualities need to be expressed and shown. Not every one is stunning but then again, not all the stunning people have the qualities that come from inside. If there are any things that you love about yourself or think that they could make somebody want you, then let it out! Do what you've got to do to make people notice this quality. Think how many people are out there, you cant find the one for you in one place, you've got to go and find them most of the time. Go out, enjoy yourself, love yourself and express those qualities!! Good luck x
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Hey there! I understand what you mean. But in actuality, all guys don't choose just the "popular girls". There's various qualities that guys like in girls besides status or looks that I've learned from my guy friends:
1) Personality-- If you are a friendly and confident person who is open to meeting new people, and understands their own capabilities and such, then this is a major plus! =DD
I've also learned that guys don't really favor girls who seem to be "emotionally dependent", as confidence is a MAJOR plus. So if you let others know that you're a very reliant and confident person, you're going far ahead, girl! Love is also kind of unexpected, as "it's like a butterfly, and you have to give it wings. the more you try to hold it down to you, the more it eludes you". So as you continue to be yourself, and being proud of yourself, then all will be fine.
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Maybe you're coming off as too desperate. Are you always the one to pursue the guys? In my experience from highschool, whenever the girls really went after the guys they usually got rejected. Remember that guys like to do the chasing. Try playing a little hard to get, and act like your not really interested in them. That always drives them crazy. The more you show you're not interested will just make them want you even more. They will see you as a challenge.
But don't act completely stuck up. Still be friendly around your girlfriends. If a guy sees you laughing a lot, and being a nice person around your friends and teachers, he will notice this. Wait for him to approach you.
One other thing: guys love girls who exude confidence. Even if you don't have any, you can pretend. Just carry yourself well, walk tall, dress nicely, have good hygeine, and remember to smile!
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be friendly, smile alot, or try making friends with them. good luck
♥evy
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