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mom thinks hes "dirty looking"...and hes too big of a flirt.
hey i have a bit of a problem. When my mom met my boyfriend about two to three weeks ago, she told me after he left that she thinks he looks dirty( his clothes look dirty, his hair, ect). I looked at my boyfriend this morning and i see what she means. i love my boyfriend, dont get me wrong but he looks like he doesnt brush his teeth, his hair was a mess, he had stuff in his eyes and a stain on his shirt. (Just to let you know, we go to a private school which requires us to wear a uniform). At times, he smells too. I dont know how to tell him with out sounding mean or rude. Is there any way to say something about it?
another thing is, i notice how in class today, he sits right next to me in both the classes we have together, that about half of the time, he will talk to my friend that sits right next to him and he is always hugging other girls and calling them "sexy". this kinda gets me mad/jealous. I dont know how to tell him with out sounding like...annoying. Most of the times when we are hanging out in the morning, i will be talking to him and one of his friends will walk by and he will go and talk to them. What should i say to him about it? I hate getting ditched like that.
Thanks!
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First of all, you have to decide whether this guy is for real or not. If hes making you jealous or mad, tell him straight up how you feel and what you would like to change. If he cant accept how you feel Id say that hes not worthwhile for me, but thats just my opinion. As for the hygiene problem, ive been in your shoes. I had a friend who was the same way. One way I helped her realize that she kinda, well, stank, is that I said "So what kind of toothpaste do you use? (well I wouldnt say it to her like that but Id find a better way to say it) but it kinda makes you think more if you know EVERYONE ELSE is brushing their teeth and stuff and theire not. So anyways, I hope this helped!!! ACE
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wow... i mean do you truly love him? i mean bcause it soudns like he doesnt treat you with respect or the relationship with respect.. you really should confront him about everything thats on your mind it will let you both see how you still feel about eachother afterwards towards everything.. i mean who knows it could help the relationship or destroy it butthats teh chance youve got to be willign to take to get things straight... okay well i hope i helped! goodluck! thanx :)
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To be honest, hunni, I dont think this guy if worth it. Sure you can talk to him all you want about these problems, but at the end to the day if there are a number of things that are wrong he may not be worth the trouble even if you do love him. I mean, if he truly valued you, he would not ditch you at a moments notice or be outrageously flirty with other girls. Its just my opinion, but that is something that you should definetly not put up with. Chances are even if you did talk to him, he may just continue doing it or use it against you to bribe you into doing things that you may not want to do.
Im sorry to be the bringer of bad news but thats just how I feel about it. You deserve so much better! Good luck in whatever you decide to do
Sapphire Lily xxx
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Wow...well about him being dirty, I don't think there is any way that you can tell him without him feeling like you are being rude. So I think the only think you can do is live with it, and hope that he will change.
And with him and the girls, you NEED to tell him, and it doesn't matter if he think you sound annoying, telling him will make him aware of how you feel about it, and you will probably feel better about it.
Or, to solve both of these problems you could break up with him.....
Good Luck with everything!
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hmm..that's an akward situation since it's kind've rude but you are his gf ya know?? i think you should juss be honest with him & say "hey i heard some people mentioning things about you & i juss don't want you to be hurt by it so.." & then tell him. you don't have to give names er anything. he shouldn't really be doing that since he's your bf. ask him about it. i wouldn't tell him about the whole hygene thing & the girls thing on the same night. try paying more attention to the whole girl situation & maybe he's juss too nice & messing with them. that sounds rude though, because you are his gf & he really shouldn't be doing that. let him know all of these things, juss maybe not at once.
-hope that helped!♥
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