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Backstabber?
I really really like one of my best friends ex's. If he asks me out idk what to say! Cause I love my best friend but I really like him too!
And if this helps, my best friend decided to like the same guy I used liked right after I told her I liked him. ( I like her EX now ) And I was really hurt cause she started flirting with him constantly and won him over and now they're going out so she took a guy away from me, would it be wrong to go out with her old ex?!
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i lost one of my best friends because she dated my ex after she asked me if she could and i told her i wasn`t okay with it. before you do anything with your best friends ex ask her if shes okay with you dating him and if she is then you`re free to do as you please. but if shes not okay with it then you should respect her decision and try to find someone else. because even though it seems like she took a guy from you, retalliation isn`t really the "right" way to go.
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Good question,if this guy asks you out,you have every right to say yes,is she does get mad at you,which it most certianly should'nt,that would make her a hypocrite,there's no way she could hold it against you if she did the same thing to you,hope this helps,
Jasmine,
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hmmm, i think this all depends on HOW MUCH she liked
this guy. if it wasn't a huge amount, go for it.
but if they were obviously in a more serious
relationship that might make it difficult.
think about it this way, how did you feel when she
decided to like the guy you liked? i'm sure you probabbly felt hurt, and bad, and possibly even
back-stabbed.
it's hard to try to understand, but sometimes you
need to make the better choice that she failed to
make. if you decide not to date this guy, be sure
to let her know WHY you chose not to. If you tell
her you cared about her feelings because you knew
what it felt like to have a guy taken from you,
she will feel bad, and HOPEFULLY.. she'll learn
to appreciate you more as a friend, and not do
that to you again in the future.
always remember, it's just a guy. friends should
always come first. but i can understand how you
are feeling right now. my best friend took my boy-
friend from me, after us being together for 6
months. so i can understand both aspects of this
situation.
maybe if she sees that you two get along
really well, she might start to accept the
idea of you liking this boy. who knows.
good luck darling, hope i helped !
-Brittany<3
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Well i really dont think it would be wrong. but if you want to make sure, you might just want to talk to her about it. So you dont go and just do that behind her back, because she might even get mad at you because of that. well hope i helped
~Kristy~
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i think it would. honestly true friends dont do that to eachother. Even though she has you just shouldnt. &&you were hurt when she went and liked the same guy as you.. so i dunno. Even though its her ex. talk to her about it. ask her if he happend to ask you out would it be okay if you said yes. Tell her you like him and the reason your talking to her about it is because you want her to know. Its the honest way to do things. Good luck && hope i helped (:
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It wouldnt be wrong, but you shouldnt have a 'competition' with you BEST friend on who goes out with who. but, she cant cotrol who you date OR why.
kathryn
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sounds to me like revenge so like make sure u relly like the boy. And yeah talk to your friend about it!!!!
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Before you do anything talk to your friend...tell her how you feel about him and see how she reacts...she might not even care..
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how you felt is probably how she will feel. talk to her about it & explain how you like him & stuff. she's basically doing the same thing though sort've. ask her though, she might not even mind, but also remember how you felt. if you really like him go for it.
-hope that helped!♥
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