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Ok their is this guy that goes to my school he is a grade ahead of me but he always sits by me one the bus and he said i was hot and he always flirts w/ me and stuff like that so i totally thought he liked me but when my friend asked him if he liked me he said he didnt wanta go out??? whats going on>?
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Well he might like you.. he just doesn't want to go with anyone at the moment. He might like being single for awhile and like have no girlfriend, and doesn't want to get one anytime soon. And also, just because he called you hot and flirted with you.. doesn't mean he likes you. Girls always misinterpret that signal. Like I said, he could like you.. just doesn't want a relationship. OR he could just be a huge flirter ( which wouldn't be great to date anyways. Huge flirters are basically known to cheat =/ ) I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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There's two likely things. The guy just likes screwing around and flirting with you is another game. Or he could just think you're cool but isn't really interested in a relationship. Frankly, I would suspect the first. I suggest considering how he behaves towards you other places and with/without his buddies with him. Though in the end, if he said he doesn't want to go out with you, then he doesn't. There's lots of reasons why somebody might flirt but not really want more.
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i think he does like you !! and going out means you go too movies and stuff !!
♥ Samra
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Hey I had something like that happen to me once. He just likes to flirt around a lot. I think he does like you but he doesn't like you to the point where he wants to actually go out with you. You know what I mean? Hope I answered your question.
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It sounds to me like he's just a playa so you need to tell him the next time he starts flirting to back off. Even if you do like him. Cause thats just a playa!!!!!
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most guys are really weird like that.. they flirt and show signs they like you.. sometimes they like you but they know you like them so they make you wait and other times they dont like you but they lead you on.. try playing hard to get and see what happens
good luck
rachel <3
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Dear HIM,
Guys are so hard to read anyways and when they do that kind of stuff like say your hot and then gon't want to go out makes every girls mad. Sometimes you can't judge a book by it's cover maybe he has somethings going on in his life that no one knows about talk to his friends maybe they'll talk about him and give you the dirt on him. Maybe by the time you asked him out he already got together with someone but always the first thing to do is not jump to conclusions.
much love,
bubblesamin
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He wants to be with you, but he is too nervouse to be honest and ask you out, ect.
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Just because you're "hot" doesn't mean all guys are going to want to date you. Sorry to be the one to have to tell you this, but that is how life is. There are many girls I find attractive, but would never date for many factors. So just move on and find someone who does want to date you.
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The reason for him not wanting to go out with you could be because of age or because he might like someone else right now. It is also possible to think someone is hot and flirt with them, but not really like them or think of them as the girlfriend type. If he continues to flirt, he probably does like you and age or friends is what is stopping him. Hope I helped.
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He's probably just making the age difference a big deal. Talk to him and tell him you really thought he liked you and why he's acting this way. It's the only way you'll know for sure.
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Its probably an age thing. His friends probably would make fun of him and what not, which makes him dumb and stupid becasue he will miss out. But if you talk to him more and flirt back and what not maybe he will change his mind. But dont change the way you act, dress or anything else for him because it wont be worth it. I hope I helped good luck lyl xoxo diane
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Just becuz he said he doesn`t want to go out with you doesn`t mean he doesn`t like you hun.. Just give him tiem and you should probably ask him yourself don`t get your friend to do it cuz that might be the reason he said he ain`t want to go out with you.. ♥ Dez
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well there are two things that could be going on he could be denieing that fact that he likes you and just didnt want to say....OR....he just wanted to lead you on....boyz tend to do that.... i dislike that.....and yeah i hope i helped......byezza
<3 mickey543
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What is happening is that he is just scared to tell her of how he feels towards you nothing else so don't worry about it , and the possible reasons he said he didn't want to go out is either he is just not ready or is busy into his studies so maybe he just wants to be friends for now with you and then get to know you better.Some guy knows I like him,he likes me too but told me he that if I were to be his girlfriend then he woulod never want to break up with me ,that he'll be afraid to lose me like he lost an ex of his so I understood and we are very good friends.I tell you this so you see that guys may have their reasons that they don't want to go out but doesn't mean just because of that don't think it's that they don't like you.Trust me on this one.Talk to him more and get to know him and who knows he may ask you out one day.Good luck!
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Omg, i hate it when guys do that! let me tell you boys no matter how old they are they just like to flirt. They never really ever want a relationship, they just expect to flirt with a girl all the time, so it's pretty much flirting! if any of that just made sence! Well good luck with him hunny!
Maddy!
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well that just means he was flirting with you and leading you on.. he probably does it to other girls and no one needs a guy liek that bcuz if he was in a relationship with you he would probably lead on girls when you two were going out.. *mary
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Guys are just pains. They lead you on. They'll flirt just for the heck of it. Even if you're hot, they might not want to be tied down to you. See what I'm saying? He sounds like he was just having fun messing around with you.
Sorry. :(
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