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what should i do?
okay i like this guy and he has a girlfriend we talk every night & day and im pretty sure he likes me too. we kind of mess around all the time and i just want to know what i should do i mean i've told him im not going to mess around with him until he brakes up with his girlfriend and he said he would but he hasnt what should i do?
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Well obviously stop messing around with him. That's not fair to you, and that's totally no fair to his girlfriend. You don't want to be the cheatee, do you? =/ Just let him know where you stand. Tell him," Look, I'm not messing around with you until you break up with your girlfriend. This is competley not fair to her." But even if he did break up with his girlfriend, I'd suggest you two never even start to date. A guy who you helped cheat on his girlfriends, just going to have some girl help him cheat on you the very next week probably. No good will come of it. Once a cheater, always a cheater. ( Unless theres the rare occasion of that special guy who will end his ways.. but highly unlikely ). So no good will come of this. So he should break up with his girlfriend and never date you either. He doesn't deserve either of you. I might even suggest telling his girlfriend whats going on. She should know about it. Just IM her or something someday ( well find out her screename and everything first ) and be like," I'm sorry I hate to break this on you but your boyfriend's cheating on you.. with me. Well he was, I ended it with him, and so should you. I'm incredibly sorry that this is happened and I hope you can forgive me." Or something like that. I hope I helped.
Love,
MELii
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Do you understand how rude it is to be talking with this guy and convincing him to break up with his girlfriend while they are still dating? It's plain rude. I think that you should know by now how this guy really is. You think that just because hes leaving his girlfriend for you that he won't do the exact same thing to you with a different girl? Well, think again. You need to pay attention to this guy's actions when it comes to him and how he treats his girlfriends. It will not make things all better when he leaves his girlfriend, the exact same thing will happen to you someday.
-TheTeenGirl
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So wait...
What you're trying to say is that you're helping a guy cheat on his girlfriend, and you still want to be with him??? That is a pretty stupid way to be. A guy who is openly cheating on his girlfriend with you is only going to cheat on you as well, and so on. So why bother? What is the point of going for a guy who you know is willing to cheat on his girlfriend?? I'd say stop being selfish, and let him be with his girlfriend if he wants to.
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i would deffanetly wait untill him and his girl break up beacause if he cheats on her with you your going to get a bad name.. and also you dont want to be his rebound girl and his bootycall crawling back to you whenever his girl isnt around.. if he says he would cheat on his girlfriend with you.. and if you guys end up going out.. how do you know he wouldnt do the same to you in that situation? just think about that and take extra caution and if its meant to be everything will work out.
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don't go there, girl!! there's nothing wrong with liking him, but don't even give it a chance to become more until he is totally single. you don't need that drama, and if he cheats on her with you then he's not worth your time cause he'd maybe do it to you sometime. tell him you like him a lot and want a chance with him, but it's not fair to you or his current girlfriend to be playin games.
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