Question Posted Wednesday November 16 2005, 6:46 pm
There is this guy that I know, and I've been trying to get to know him for a while, but he's unreadable.
He will only talk to me when everyone is around, and even then, he's indirect about it. He'll never actually start up a conversation with -ME-
When I try to talk with him alone, he'll end it promptly.
What can I do to get this guy to open up? I don't know what his deal is, if he likes me, or hates me, or what.
bubblesamin answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 8:23 pm: Dear Hard to Read,
It doesn't matter what guy it is they always are unreadable.But i find that his friends know him best. So if he really is that unreadable then your best option is get close with his friends and ask them questions about him. If his friends won't open up either then it never hurt anyone if you just snooped around a little bit. Find out what his hobbies are and where he eats lunch at. You can especially spark up a conversation if you know what kind of music he likes and what he likes to do after school. So what you should do is find out that stuff about him then just find out where he eats at lunch then act like yur casually walking around and you just "happen" to run into him then spark up a conversation and always try to make him laugh because laughing is always good for the soul. [ bubblesamin's advice column | Ask bubblesamin A Question ]
xXtashmahottieOo answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 7:19 pm: im sure he thinks you're really kewl but is nervous. So what you have to do is talk about something casual, convient. Like what a teacher than you both have said or how so and so are going out. If he ignores you, gets up and walks away, or doesn't really have much of a response hes eaither shy, tired or in a bad mood. But never give up im sure he will get more into conversation if he can relate.Hope i helped good luck <3always diane xoxo [ xXtashmahottieOo's advice column | Ask xXtashmahottieOo A Question ]
kilauea1030 answered Wednesday November 16 2005, 7:15 pm: you should start showing him what are you like.. whenever you with "everyone else" show him the great person that you are, so when he gets to know u better.. he'll want to talk to you, even if you're alone..
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